So I've studied abroad in languages classes 3 times now, once in Chengdu, China. Once in Taiwan. And once in Seoul. Each time, I ended up in a short term relationship (I guess I'm more of a relationship type guy) with one of my classmates or someone who associated with one of my classmates of the language program.
After these good experiences, I have come to think that the best way of meeting a girl of a certain country origin is to go to the place where those girls study abroad or attend language classes, as that is the place where the girl is open to new experiences and free from any familial boundaries and or cultural (more or less) pressures.
First to give some informative knowledge. In Chengdu, I didn't end up meeting many foreigners because it was 2008 and that was right after the big Sichuan Earthquake. All of the foreigners returned to their respective countries. In Taiwan (Southern Taiwan) though, I noticed a pretty high number of Southeast Asia girls in my classes. There were also a high number of Japanese girls, but most of them came in waves with their school, probably since it was summer time and universities were holding summer study Chinese in taiwan type exchanges. And in Seoul, there was very large concentration of Japanese girls, although once again, the elderly population outnumbered the youthful ones. Yet, if you want to meet Japanese girls, I really do recommend studying Korean (ironic I know). I know this sounds like a round about way, but something about the limited communication between two first year Korean learners as you struggle to communicate basic things to each other that makes a girl and guy interacting rather simple. One starts relying on body language instead of words and you don't have to deal with all of the emotional aspects. Maybe not ideal for some, but some may like this type of experience as I did. In the end, I ended up getting with a Taiwanese girl.
After I finish studying for an exam for my graduate school entrance exam, I planning to ditch the US and go back to Asia. I want to go to a place where I can meet Korean girls. I always had a thing for the way Korean girls express themselves, and would love an opportunity to be studying amongst them with the prospect of ending up in a relationship while I'm abroad. From Chinese forums and various other english based forums, it seems to point to places in Northeast China (Dalian, Qingdao, etc) probably hold the highest concentration of Korean girls. So where would you guys suggest I go?
Would Beijing be a good place? Although I want a high population, I don't really want much competition and to get lost in the crowd. I love being the center of the girl's attention (as most guys would I assume). Something I enjoyed about my programs in Taiwan and Korea was that the language programs were small enough that it was really easy to get to know other classmates. I think that in a fast paced classroom/academic program where everyone is too busy thinking about themselves, it gets significantly more complicated, as there are too many directions to look and people get a little bit less approachable.
Anyways, I'd be curious what you all think about this. Where can I meet the most Korean girls in a Chinese language program in China? If you have info about places outside of China, I'd be open to that too.
After these good experiences, I have come to think that the best way of meeting a girl of a certain country origin is to go to the place where those girls study abroad or attend language classes, as that is the place where the girl is open to new experiences and free from any familial boundaries and or cultural (more or less) pressures.
First to give some informative knowledge. In Chengdu, I didn't end up meeting many foreigners because it was 2008 and that was right after the big Sichuan Earthquake. All of the foreigners returned to their respective countries. In Taiwan (Southern Taiwan) though, I noticed a pretty high number of Southeast Asia girls in my classes. There were also a high number of Japanese girls, but most of them came in waves with their school, probably since it was summer time and universities were holding summer study Chinese in taiwan type exchanges. And in Seoul, there was very large concentration of Japanese girls, although once again, the elderly population outnumbered the youthful ones. Yet, if you want to meet Japanese girls, I really do recommend studying Korean (ironic I know). I know this sounds like a round about way, but something about the limited communication between two first year Korean learners as you struggle to communicate basic things to each other that makes a girl and guy interacting rather simple. One starts relying on body language instead of words and you don't have to deal with all of the emotional aspects. Maybe not ideal for some, but some may like this type of experience as I did. In the end, I ended up getting with a Taiwanese girl.
After I finish studying for an exam for my graduate school entrance exam, I planning to ditch the US and go back to Asia. I want to go to a place where I can meet Korean girls. I always had a thing for the way Korean girls express themselves, and would love an opportunity to be studying amongst them with the prospect of ending up in a relationship while I'm abroad. From Chinese forums and various other english based forums, it seems to point to places in Northeast China (Dalian, Qingdao, etc) probably hold the highest concentration of Korean girls. So where would you guys suggest I go?
Would Beijing be a good place? Although I want a high population, I don't really want much competition and to get lost in the crowd. I love being the center of the girl's attention (as most guys would I assume). Something I enjoyed about my programs in Taiwan and Korea was that the language programs were small enough that it was really easy to get to know other classmates. I think that in a fast paced classroom/academic program where everyone is too busy thinking about themselves, it gets significantly more complicated, as there are too many directions to look and people get a little bit less approachable.
Anyways, I'd be curious what you all think about this. Where can I meet the most Korean girls in a Chinese language program in China? If you have info about places outside of China, I'd be open to that too.
