[Vitriol]

I was reading this in the celebrity thread:

(06-01-2011 11:36 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

1. Access - You need to be around these girls. Find a way to go to the same parties, clubs, or be in the same neighborhood. If you are in the industry, you have a distinct advantage. Mixx, obviously has access.

...and I wondered if having access is just a foot in the door or does it get you halfway there? (I just mean in general terms, regardless of the girl / venue). Most girls these days are sexually active enough that they're going to end up choosing one of the dudes there, so it's only a matter of percentage chance at that point.

I was reminded of a situation a few months back where I was hanging out at the pool at the university. Tons of hot bitches walking around practically bare-assed and barely any dudes. I had to leave shortly after because my dick was getting sore, but cutting through the student center a short distance away, I noticed there was some video game tournmanet going on with about 15 dudes crowded around an Xbox or something. I was thinking what the hell is up with these dudes? The girls out there probably only get banged by lacrosse and football players because the other dudes are too preoccupied with other (lame) things.

So how far do you get by simply being in the same location as the targets? Would any of those dorks have gotten a bang if they were hitting on the chicks instead of playing video games? Are the girls gonna choose from what's available or wait for a movie star to enter the venue?

[mikeymike]

If you're unfuckable, you're unfuckable in front of an xbox or if you're the only dick in the middle of 500 naked nymphos, but if you have any game whatsoever, being in the right location is half the battle and possibly more. Then it's up to you to close out the other 50%. If you're not gonna put yourself in a spot where you're around the kinda girls you want you're not gonna land them simple as that. As for the dorks, it's a numbers game, some will get tail, others wont, depends on many factors but at least the potential exists, it doesn't where they were.

[Chad Daring]

I'd say access is a huge part.

"f you're unfuckable, you're unfuckable in front of an xbox or if you're the only dick in the middle of 500 naked nymphos,"

Same could be true if you've got God Tier game but you're in the middle of a sausage fest. Somewhere right now some guy is getting laid simply because he was the best option at the time.

There's a bar I go to a lot north of DC in the burbs, great place for music, food, and drinks, but shitty for game because there's often zero worthwhile girls. I go there I know my chances are slim, but I also dont go there to get laid, I go there to unwind and have a good time.

This big choice between doing what you want to at the time and doing what will get you laid has been a big issue for me since my introduction to these forums and all the knowledge they offer.

[Kish]

(06-02-2011 07:23 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  

I'd say access is a huge part.

"f you're unfuckable, you're unfuckable in front of an xbox or if you're the only dick in the middle of 500 naked nymphos,"

Same could be true if you've got God Tier game but you're in the middle of a sausage fest. Somewhere right now some guy is getting laid simply because he was the best option at the time.

There's a bar I go to a lot north of DC in the burbs, great place for music, food, and drinks, but shitty for game because there's often zero worthwhile girls. I go there I know my chances are slim, but I also dont go there to get laid, I go there to unwind and have a good time.

Yup. It's why I'm trying to get out of this area. Why waste valuable time and money for a sausagefest? Also when beautiful women are less accessible(supply is low) ofcourse even the few 7-8s you find wont even be single.

[Chad Daring]

Thats basically the greater DC area. Supply and demand of hotness has fucked the market up. I'm receding for now and keeping an ear to the ground for attractive international girls that dont know better, but thats about it.

Maybe a cougar or lonely housewife if I can manage it.

[babelfish669]

If you want a percentage, access could be as much as 90% of game, in the abstract sense. Consider what would happen if you were the only male on an island full of women. Back to reality, availability might be better described as the lubricant of game that keeps the machine rolling.

I spend a lot of time out in NYC and a few other major US cities. When I'm back in my old midwestern home town it's rare to see an attractive girl. In NYC, I can open the front door and there is a 50/50 shot (depending on the time of day) there will be an attractive girl in sight. Where do you think I get laid more?

[OGNorCal707]

Yeah this is something important to point out and consider when it comes to game, success, and more importantly success with very attractive women. The town I've been living in for the past 8 years has always had a lack of fine women, but over the past few years more cute girls have moved up from SoCal/Bay Area to attend the local school. Now that school is out for the summer and 80% of the girls are gone, the scene is absolutely abysmal.

I went out last night (Fri.), as well as Weds., and both nights the overall ratio at the bars I hit were 3:1 guys to girls, and seriously at points in the night it may have been as bad as 4:1 or even 5:1. Now let's consider that out of the few girls that were even out, most of them were fat/unattractive and the best girls were in the 6-7 range, were getting swarmed by guys, and were acting like they were the hottest shit (high bitch shields). There were maybe a handful of girls in the 8-9 range, but they were either with guys already or were trying to act like they were movie stars or some shit.

It really sucks when girls that are really 6's try to act like 8's. What I am realizing is that I need to get the hell out of this town in the next couple years and move to a city or bigger town of some sort, with a lot more women, and a lot hotter women. For guys in NYC, Austin, SF, etc. it could be realistic to pull ONS every weekend or have a few hot diff. fuck buddies all the time , but where I'm at it just doesn't seem realistic or possible, unless you want to dip standards and fuck uglies or average chicks (5 on the 10 scale).