[Mr Finish]

A month ago, for good reason, I told a girl she should "lose some weight". Last night I'm at the club and she's telling the guys she's with I slapped them! I told the guys I'll see them outside and we can figure it out, but the damn bitch was shoving me. I'm irracible when drunk so I shoved her back and she slapped me, I curtly let her know I'd return the favor outside.

Has stuff like this happened to you guys?

[philosophical_recovery]

Did 30 white knights follow you out of the club?

[void]

I think Little Dark had a similar encounter. Me? No.

[Driesinator]

Something similar is happening to me right now.

There's this girl from my yoga class i recently had a short fling with.

Problem was, she has a boyfriend, i didn't know this because she never told me and i don't use Facebook for game anymore , so i didn't have her in my contact list.

Just last week she confessed our fling to her boyfriend. Blaming it all on me.

Now, him and 5 other friends of his are messaging me on Facebook , calling me out and stuff, i've explained my side of the story but they don't want to listen. I've told them to come over to my place and settle it but they don't have the balls.

It's comical.

[Merenguero]

(06-15-2015 04:37 PM)Mr Finish Wrote:  

A month ago, for good reason, I told a girl she should "lose some weight". Last night I'm at the club and she's telling the guys she's with I slapped them! I told the guys I'll see them outside and we can figure it out, but the damn bitch was shoving me. I'm irracible when drunk so I shoved her back and she slapped me, I curtly let her know I'd return the favor outside.

Has stuff like this happened to you guys?

I have no idea what you're trying to say in the part in bold.

[Grodin]

Yeah that sentence doesn't make sense.

Women tend to co-opt other people's power and/or use social conventions to turn a group against someone. I grew up with three sisters so I was already aware of this, but having a daughter and watch her go through middle school illustrated this on a whole new level.

[Parlay44]

Most guys are pussies and won't do anything. Especially inside a club or bar. It's just not worth it. Where I come from it's a $1000 fine for fighting for each person involved. Doesn't matter who started it.

Now if you're talking some parking lot shit that's a different story. Again most guys are pussies and will only talk some bullshit trying to punk you down. I always carry a knife. I have no problem cutting a motherfucker that steps to me on the street. It's a poker game. Talking shit is just bluffing. You have to raise the stakes until they have more to lose than they have invested in the situation. They'll fold and walk away.

I'm from Jersey. I carry knives and sledge hammer in my trunk.

[Mr Finish]

(06-15-2015 05:37 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(06-15-2015 04:37 PM)Mr Finish Wrote:  

A month ago, for good reason, I told a girl she should "lose some weight". Last night I'm at the club and she's telling the guys she's with I slapped them! I told the guys I'll see them outside and we can figure it out, but the damn bitch was shoving me. I'm irracible when drunk so I shoved her back and she slapped me, I curtly let her know I'd return the favor outside.

Has stuff like this happened to you guys?

I have no idea what you're trying to say in the part in bold.

There were two girls that night. I called her friend fat. They were both there, I should have explained better

[Mr Finish]

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[robreke]

(06-15-2015 05:41 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Most guys are pussies and won't do anything. Especially inside a club or bar. It's just not worth it. Where I come from it's a $1000 fine for fighting for each person involved. Doesn't matter who started it.

Now if you're talking some parking lot shit that's a different story. Again most guys are pussies and will only talk some bullshit trying to punk you down. I always carry a knife. I have no problem cutting a motherfucker that steps to me on the street. It's a poker game. Talking shit is just bluffing. You have to raise the stakes until they have more to lose than they have invested in the situation. They'll fold and walk away.

I'm from Jersey. I carry knives and sledge hammer in my trunk.

Is it legal to stab/slice someone who physically threatens you with nothing more than their fists? Aren't you required to only meet with like force?

I honestly don't know and am curious.

[Chunnel]

(06-15-2015 05:41 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Most guys are pussies and won't do anything. Especially inside a club or bar. It's just not worth it. Where I come from it's a $1000 fine for fighting for each person involved. Doesn't matter who started it.

Now if you're talking some parking lot shit that's a different story. Again most guys are pussies and will only talk some bullshit trying to punk you down. I always carry a knife. I have no problem cutting a motherfucker that steps to me on the street. It's a poker game. Talking shit is just bluffing. You have to raise the stakes until they have more to lose than they have invested in the situation. They'll fold and walk away.

I'm from Jersey. I carry knives and sledge hammer in my trunk.

Just don't get lost in the Pine Barrens.

[Dusty]

[Parlay44]

(06-15-2015 07:09 PM)robreke Wrote:  

(06-15-2015 05:41 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Most guys are pussies and won't do anything. Especially inside a club or bar. It's just not worth it. Where I come from it's a $1000 fine for fighting for each person involved. Doesn't matter who started it.

Now if you're talking some parking lot shit that's a different story. Again most guys are pussies and will only talk some bullshit trying to punk you down. I always carry a knife. I have no problem cutting a motherfucker that steps to me on the street. It's a poker game. Talking shit is just bluffing. You have to raise the stakes until they have more to lose than they have invested in the situation. They'll fold and walk away.

I'm from Jersey. I carry knives and sledge hammer in my trunk.

Is it legal to stab/slice someone who physically threatens you with nothing more than their fists? Aren't you required to only meet with like force?

I honestly don't know and am curious.

You have to get your story straight before the cops get involved. Basically keep your mouth shut to the cops. Your story to the judge should be "It was 5 of them and one of me your honor. He pulled out a knife. I wrestled it out of his hand and stabbed him with it. It was self defense."

And you're missing the point of my story. If you pull out a knife you force them to rethink their investment in the situation. Will some white knight take a knife for some dumb slut? Most likely not. You walk away and nobody gets hurt. You have to show your teeth and that you're willing to take it to the next level.

[Mr Finish]

Double post

[iknowexactly]

(06-15-2015 05:41 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Most guys are pussies and won't do anything. Especially inside a club or bar. It's just not worth it. Where I come from it's a $1000 fine for fighting for each person involved. Doesn't matter who started it.

Now if you're talking some parking lot shit that's a different story. Again most guys are pussies and will only talk some bullshit trying to punk you down. I always carry a knife. I have no problem cutting a motherfucker that steps to me on the street. It's a poker game. Talking shit is just bluffing. You have to raise the stakes until they have more to lose than they have invested in the situation. They'll fold and walk away.

I'm from Jersey. I carry knives and sledge hammer in my trunk.

How can you cut someone without risking killing them. Without witnesses saying he clearly assaulted you you're risking manslaughter or murder rap or ADW.

Again, being in a bar just seems not worth it. Everyone drinks and says the same shit over and over.

[Mr Finish]

What would you guys do if I were to run into them again?

[Bacchus]

(06-15-2015 04:37 PM)Mr Finish Wrote:  

A month ago, for good reason, I told a girl she should "lose some weight".

She may need to lose weight, but telling that to her is not going to get your dick wet. Your biggest mistake is provoking an easily preventable fight with her by telling her to lose weight.

Story time. Not too long ago, I rolled solo to a bar on a crowded night. I had been talking to a group of three girls for less than 10 minutes, when the fatty of the bunch, whom I had ignored for the entire time, pulled a nuclear cockblock on me. She said something along the lines of "Get the fuck away from my friends." Feeling a chance to troll, I passed the fatty and told her, "You need to lose weight." Then I went to another part of the bar.

20 minutes later, and I'm talking to two different girls. One of the girls from the previous group came over and told the new girls that I had told her friend to lose weight. One of the new girls turned to ask me if that was true. I said, "Yes. But to be fair, her friend's on a mobility scooter." There was no recovery.

Moral of the story is that crushing a fatty's soul, while entertaining, will not get you laid, and might even blow up in your face. If you see your angry, angry hippo again, go to another venue. You can either fight with this fatty or you can get laid.

[Mr Finish]

^^^
Thanks for you're response. You make a good point. I had no intention of fucking the girl that needs to lose weight but it still came back to bite me. If a girl shoved you would you guys smack Her? I shoved her back. I Need to get the hell out of California; if a woman wants equal rights, fine, but I can't allow her to have her cake and eat it too. Mike Tyson refused to apologize for raping a girl he didn't rape and was subsequently sent to prison. I'm mainly sticking to day gaming but I'm too proud to let things like this slide. If I see her again I've decided I'm going to take pics of her and publicly fat shame her.

[Bacchus]

(06-16-2015 01:39 AM)Mr Finish Wrote:  

^^^
I'm mainly sticking to day gaming but I'm too proud to let things like this slide. If I see her again I've decided I'm going to take pics of her and publicly fat shame her.

And how would that help you get laid? You seem more wrapped up in scoring points against this fatty than doing what it takes to get girls. You don't have to apologize. Just move on.

[Mr Finish]

You're right man, I shouldn't sink to their level. I appreciate the advice.

[ted93704]

It is so pathetic listening to you guys whine and whine and whine. Does it honestly make you feel good to make fun of fat women? Here is a better line. When the big girl told you to leave her friends the fuck alone, you should have said "awww..are you feeling left out..i'm including you in the love too beautiful"..then give her a big hug..if she refuses she looks like a bitch with no sense of humor..if she lets you hug her yuo just created an alli! dont fight fire with fire..when a woman throws shit at you...go with it and diffuse it with humor

[CactusCat589]

It does make me feel good to make fun of fat women. Just viciously humiliate them in public. It's a dream scenario when you already have a girl and you're just having fun. If you're going steady, might as well take advantage of that by destroying a disgusting, wobbling sack of shit.

By doing this, we are making the world a better place. A brighter place, and a more beautiful one.

[Mr Finish]

I feel the same way but Women have all the power in this country and one false accusation could leave a man unemployed or imprisoned

[Merenguero]

(06-16-2015 06:19 PM)ted93704 Wrote:  

It is so pathetic listening to you guys whine and whine and whine. Does it honestly make you feel good to make fun of fat women? Here is a better line. When the big girl told you to leave her friends the fuck alone, you should have said "awww..are you feeling left out..i'm including you in the love too beautiful"..then give her a big hug..if she refuses she looks like a bitch with no sense of humor..if she lets you hug her yuo just created an alli! dont fight fire with fire..when a woman throws shit at you...go with it and diffuse it with humor

This fat female troll couldn't even get right that we say "throw shit on you" and not "throw shit at you" on the forum.

[Beyond Borders]

(06-16-2015 01:39 AM)Mr Finish Wrote:  

^^^
Thanks for you're response. You make a good point. I had no intention of fucking the girl that needs to lose weight but it still came back to bite me. If a girl shoved you would you guys smack Her? I shoved her back. I Need to get the hell out of California; if a woman wants equal rights, fine, but I can't allow her to have her cake and eat it too. Mike Tyson refused to apologize for raping a girl he didn't rape and was subsequently sent to prison. I'm mainly sticking to day gaming but I'm too proud to let things like this slide. If I see her again I've decided I'm going to take pics of her and publicly fat shame her.

No. Do not smack a girl who shoves you in a bar unless you want to take on anywhere from 3 - 10 guys who deliver vigilante justice as a result.

I understand the whole idea of giving women their own medicine if they want to get physical with a man, but there's the way you want the world to be and then there's how the real world works. And taking that into account, it pays to use a bit of real world common sense.

I might shove her back. I would more likely mock her or insult her. If I was having a wise moment, I would turn around and just leave. Or, if the guys she was with were talking shit, punch one of them immediately to show I meant business and that her (or their) actions were going to get someone hurt. It's not completely fair, but it is what it is.

I would not smack her for a simple shove, and if I did I'd have to bre pretty convinced I could mop the floor with most guys in the room or that they were very unlikely to take action.

Even if a woman straight up hit me, I would probably not hit her in response (unless she hit me with an object or packed a really solid punch). I would be more than happy to put her on her ass, though. With a controlled movement - not an all-out body slam.

Be realistic, and choose your battles wisely.