[deebow]

Guy's,

I've always wondered how it would be to game women at the office/workplace/whatever. Any opinions on this? The main concerns for many individuals including myself is that it's very very risky. The more visible one is in the office, the more difficult it may be to approach and risk some type of harassment suit. I've notice an enormous sea of beautiful women waking in the streets of central business districts all over the country and world but how do you approach them without rubbing them the wrong way? More specifically how do you successfully cop the digits and has anyone had success here? For all I know, this may be something that is just off limits for all of the office/corporate fellas on this thread. In any case, please weigh in.

I feel that if one had a very highly successful strategy here, all you'd have to do is sit out from 12 to 1pm all day and within that hour, you'd have more than enough to numbers to go round and get to work on.

[Excelsior]

Don't shit where you eat. As the sig says:

"You lose money chasing women, but you never lose women chasing money".

[sir_seducer]

dont game officer workers....they can let you down...instead..let them game you.

[Gmac]

I'm pretty sure there are around 2-3 threads floating around on this same topic right now.

[theIVth]

I ended up knocking down this chick that I work with. However, she pretty much pursued me even though she said that the only reason she sent the initial email was because she claimed that i was giving her the eye...which I dont really ever remember doing.

Anyway, I would just subtly flirt with chicks that Im digging in the office to gauge their interests. Smile at them alot, hold the elevator open for them, give them prolonged looks...shit like that. See how she responds. If her response is favorable then I would just small talk with her a lot and get some rapport going.

Before you know it, itll just become obvious thats she's digging you and you can just take it from there. Invite her out for a drink and make a move.

Be careful tho. Make sure you get a REALLY good understanding with her before you smash. I told the chick I work with that I would totally deny everything if the shit ever hit the fan and that I would make her out to be a crazy liar. I kept it real with her.

She was down for it all and everything went smooth.

[Kickb]

My dad met my mom in the workplace. He was a boss she was a secretary. My mom says he dated a lot of girls from the office and bars.

This was the 70s tho. Different time

[OGNorCal707]

Just make sure they're not psychologically unstable, last thing you need is some crazy, obsessive, clingy, pathological liar bitch, going nutso at your work place.

[Giovonny]

(05-31-2011 08:16 AM)deebow Wrote:  

Guy's,

I've always wondered how it would be to game women at the office/workplace/whatever. Any opinions on this? The main concerns for many individuals including myself is that it's very very risky. The more visible one is in the office, the more difficult it may be to approach and risk some type of harassment suit. I've notice an enormous sea of beautiful women waking in the streets of central business districts all over the country and world but how do you approach them without rubbing them the wrong way? More specifically how do you successfully cop the digits and has anyone had success here? For all I know, this may be something that is just off limits for all of the office/corporate fellas on this thread. In any case, please weigh in.

I feel that if one had a very highly successful strategy here, all you'd have to do is sit out from 12 to 1pm all day and within that hour, you'd have more than enough to numbers to go round and get to work on.

Ya, you should be approaching hard during that lunch hour. I love it when their are hundreds or at least dozens of cute girls all jammed into one place. (big city business districts, colleges, concerts, party districts, vacation spots)

Target Rich Locations. I try to stay in them as much as I can. Like you said, you can get a couple of numbers in a short period of time. (hopefully).

As far as how to approach them?

One way that works for me sometimes is to just make little comments about their food/drink order. Try to get a conversation started. I do stuff like this sometimes..

"That looks soo good"
"Is that thing good"
"damn that looks good"
"Excuse me where can i get one of those"
"O my favorite"
"eww gross"
"have you tried the pork one"
etc, etc

If they work in the same office as you then you gotta play it real cool. "Slow play" her. You can't be too direct and aggressive anyways. Just work together and talk to her and if something is gonna happen it will. What about inviting her to an office happy hour or something? Set it up as a "group thing" If you start hooking up with one of them just keep it on the low. I know that never works! But if you treat her right and fuck her right she shouldn't give you any problems. Everyone says fucking co workers is risky but everyone does it. Keep it casual and don't let it get serious.

I'm sure alot of those people in those office buildings are fucking each other.

[CupCake]

I'm not in the corporate world but it doesn't sound like something that you should be too worried about. Just make sure you keep all the flirty/sexual stuff outside the office so she can't nail you with anything. Definitely want to keep the coworkers in the dark about it too. And like others said, I'd be sure to be keen on any signs of craziness. I've had a chick get clingy with me at my job once and it sucked. I didn't even do anything with her. Nothing like spending 8 hours attempting to avoid somebody who's in the same room!

Your approach doesn't have to be any different than it normally would be. Just small talk and an invite for drinks or something.

[deebow]

(05-31-2011 09:54 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(05-31-2011 08:16 AM)deebow Wrote:  

Guy's,

I've always wondered how it would be to game women at the office/workplace/whatever. Any opinions on this? The main concerns for many individuals including myself is that it's very very risky. The more visible one is in the office, the more difficult it may be to approach and risk some type of harassment suit. I've notice an enormous sea of beautiful women waking in the streets of central business districts all over the country and world but how do you approach them without rubbing them the wrong way? More specifically how do you successfully cop the digits and has anyone had success here? For all I know, this may be something that is just off limits for all of the office/corporate fellas on this thread. In any case, please weigh in.

I feel that if one had a very highly successful strategy here, all you'd have to do is sit out from 12 to 1pm all day and within that hour, you'd have more than enough to numbers to go round and get to work on.

Ya, you should be approaching hard during that lunch hour. I love it when their are hundreds or at least dozens of cute girls all jammed into one place. (big city business districts, colleges, concerts, party districts, vacation spots)

Target Rich Locations. I try to stay in them as much as I can. Like you said, you can get a couple of numbers in a short period of time. (hopefully).

As far as how to approach them?

One way that works for me sometimes is to just make little comments about their food/drink order. Try to get a conversation started. I do stuff like this sometimes..

"That looks soo good"
"Is that thing good"
"damn that looks good"
"Excuse me where can i get one of those"
"O my favorite"
"eww gross"
"have you tried the pork one"
etc, etc

If they work in the same office as you then you gotta play it real cool. "Slow play" her. You can't be too direct and aggressive anyways. Just work together and talk to her and if something is gonna happen it will. What about inviting her to an office happy hour or something? Set it up as a "group thing" If you start hooking up with one of them just keep it on the low. I know that never works! But if you treat her right and fuck her right she shouldn't give you any problems. Everyone says fucking co workers is risky but everyone does it. Keep it casual and don't let it get serious.

I'm sure alot of those people in those office buildings are fucking each other.

I definitely hear this, especially at lunch hour. In all large cities, hot women go out in hoards and I feel that this environment is just too target rich to pass up. Clearly more subtle game must be used. Anyone have actual circumstances where they've closed a hottie at lunch hour? Corporate freaks appear hard to close but like I said, it just seems too target rich to pass up. I appreciate the feedback on how to open them but closing them without lowering your value appears to be risky. Also in smaller CBD's you may end up working with the person that you unsuccessfully closed before. That may be awkward.

[Screwston]

I've always said "don't mix business with pleasure". Its just not worth it to me unless you're the boss man and call the shots. In that case, id be fucking all the lizards there.

I remember when I was 17 and working at Mcdonalds. I ended up messing around with a slut in the freezer and a manager walked in haha. We both got fired that day.