[mouzone]

so here's the deal, i've been always been reasonably good with women in general and never really felt the need to get into an ltr, actually ltr's are what got me into game via roissy. i mean there's a lot to learn from them, and it's nice to have once in a while too, this is only my 2nd ltr the girl's 8,5, feminine and she works a part time job. so all is well, here's the thing, she gets hit on a lot, i don't feel threatened or anything but i'd like to know what the best reaction to that would be, my natural reaction is to let the guy have his try i don't even mind if she flirts back once in a while, cuz i know she'll be sleeping with me. Sometimes she brings it up in conversation, she would interrupt me from speaking and show a guy trying to game her via facebook, usually the kinda guy who would call her "sexy, her having something freaky he likes, or telling her that her pics are driving them insane" that kinda guy, again my natural response usually is to laugh and carry on talking what i was talking about. Now as for my natural reaction and the right one.. i don't know, my buddies tell me it's disrespectful towards me (most of the guys who do flirt with her, know that we're in an ltr ) and that i shouldn't let that kinda shit fly, but idk. what do you guys think

[mardan]

apparently no one has bothered to give you the harsh toke

fuck her or tell her off
you're an orbiter if you let it linger on

[mouzone]

dude i am fucking her.., english isn't my first language so let me rephrase.
Long story short: guys hit on my girl fully knowing we're in a ltr, i have never seen her respond to it but she likes to jokingly bring it up in conversation.
I shrug it off don't really care and don't pay much attention to it, friends tell me i shouldn't put up with it and tell dude in question to fuck off because they find it disrespectful.
My question being what the right course of action would be in terms of "game".

[Gmac]

Guys hit on girls all the time whether they are in a relationship or not. You gotta learn to let that go. Now, if your game is strong and she's satisfied in the sack nothing will become of her flirting with other guys, it's mostly harmless. However, if you think she may stray you gotta let her know that ain't gonna fly anymore. Put her in her place and let her know your expectations.

[Dr. Howard]

(06-08-2015 08:33 AM)Gmac Wrote:  

Guys hit on girls all the time whether they are in a relationship or not. You gotta learn to let that go. Now, if your game is strong and she's satisfied in the sack nothing will become of her flirting with other guys, it's mostly harmless. However, if you think she may stray you gotta let her know that ain't gonna fly anymore. Put her in her place and let her know your expectations.

I agree, there is a line of division between your responses to this. If these are just some kind of orbiters that you don't personally know, let it go. Unless you want to put a burka on her, dudes are going to hit on her period.

Here are two exceptions though.

1. If any of the dudes posting this stuff are actually 'friends' of yours, you have a respect problem and need to address that with the particular offender.

2. If the girl is trolling for these comments with Kim Kardashian booty pics and bikini bathroom selfies. Unless your ltr is a hooters girl, stripper, model, bikini model, escort, dubai porta potty girl, musician, actress or any of the attention whore allied professions she shouldn't be throwing up pictures of her in a bikini in a bathroom, underwear, booty shorts in the squat rack or sports bra on the preacher curl bench. If this is the case, you have an attention whore on your hands and may need to rethink things.

[kaotic]

I agree if she's cute, dude's are always going to hit on her or message her.



The fact she's interrupting you when you speak to show some thirsty dudes FB message raises some red flags.

Shit if a girl ever did that to me, I'd grab her phone and respond to the dude with something funny.

She's trying to hamster you and these actions sound manipulative.

A real friend isn't trying to flirt with your girl, teasing is a different story. I'd hit up your friends in private about this or just stop hanging out with them if they don't respect your territory.

I'm with team attention whore on this one.

Her pics being described as "driving them crazy" sounds like she's thirsty as hell and seeking validation from other men along with you. I can bet she posts some sexy photos.

With this line of actions, I wouldn't trust her, I'd demote her to a fuck buddy and start gaming other girls on the side who can possibly have more potential, then dump her ass.

My LTR works at a bar and constantly gets hit on, she never shows me, she'll bitch about thirsty/creepy guys. Thankfully she doesn't use social media much.

I'd be VERY weary of her actions if I were you.

[mouzone]

Her pictures don't show any skin. And I personally don't see why she would get "those" kinda comments via social media, she's not really fishing for them i don't think, but that might just be me hamstering ofcourse. She likes attention yes, most girls do, i'm not worried about that.
On the other hand she might just show me because in the past when these kinda things happened i would take her phone and say "watch this" and proceed to troll the shit out of the guy, now i just ignore it . i'm not really worried about her straying or whatever, i live in a small town, the guys trying to get her attention know she's with me. I didn't care until my friends told me it was disrespectful towards me, i never thought too much of it, she always tells them off, and at the end of the day it's me fucking her. So i didn't really see the point in making a scene.

[mouzone]

(06-08-2015 12:34 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

I agree if she's cute, dude's are always going to hit on her or message her.



The fact she's interrupting you when you speak to show some thirsty dudes FB message raises some red flags.

Shit if a girl ever did that to me, I'd grab her phone and respond to the dude with something funny.

She's trying to hamster you and these actions sound manipulative.

A real friend isn't trying to flirt with your girl, teasing is a different story. I'd hit up your friends in private about this or just stop hanging out with them if they don't respect your territory.

I'm with team attention whore on this one.

Her pics being described as "driving them crazy" sounds like she's thirsty as hell and seeking validation from other men along with you. I can bet she posts some sexy photos.

With this line of actions, I wouldn't trust her, I'd demote her to a fuck buddy and start gaming other girls on the side who can possibly have more potential, then dump her ass.

My LTR works at a bar and constantly gets hit on, she never shows me, she'll bitch about thirsty/creepy guys. Thankfully she doesn't use social media much.

I'd be VERY weary of her actions if I were you.

If it were to be a manipulative move, what would the goal be?

She doesn't really get any validation from me.

[Lizard King]

If you want to remain in an LTR with her, then it is up to YOU to control the relationship, and guide her as to how you want her to behave.

Here is just a small example of some of the infor here about LTRs.

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-44420.html

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-45623-...#pid971584

Do some more searching yourself, there is much more excellent advice on this forum that will help you.

[mouzone]

(06-09-2015 01:33 AM)Lizard King Wrote:  

If you want to remain in an LTR with her, then it is up to YOU to control the relationship, and guide her as to how you want her to behave.

Here is just a small example of some of the infor here about LTRs.

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-44420.html

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-45623-...#pid971584

Do some more searching yourself, there is much more excellent advice on this forum that will help you.

Thanks for the threads man.

Been searching a lot myself, and i get the basics, all is going well so far to be honest.
i just couldn't find much on this topic, she's not misbehaving i just wondered if i should react to these men.


Anyway thanks for the advice everyone.