[SvaMp_]

Hello all!

I'm new here and like this place, been involved with game and personal development for a long time though. Anyway, so I'm broadening my channels on picking up chicks and I have my game in the gym that I play, I talk to them and finally end up massaging them. Has happened a couple of times that Ive gotten to massage some really hot chicks, two of them giving them ass massage. Now here's the deal, havent been able to close any of them, some sms but no meetup. So yesterday I gave ass massage to a really hot chick in the gym, and same story, I had yoga class and left, got her fb. Now she hasn't answered, I'm thinking if it's better to go for the poon smoothly in the massage right away and making them horny.
Now what do you think, personally I'm gonna give it a go and see what happens, pretty tired of this flaking shit. Any experience?
What does your game in the gym look like?

[britchard]

If you want tips on this, watch the massage scene from the unofficial James Bond film, 'Never say never again'. Connery absolutely masters it.

[AneroidOcean]

(06-02-2015 03:20 PM)SvaMp_ Wrote:  

Hello all!

I'm new here and like this place, been involved with game and personal development for a long time though. Anyway, so I'm broadening my channels on picking up chicks and I have my game in the gym that I play, I talk to them and finally end up massaging them. Has happened a couple of times that Ive gotten to massage some really hot chicks, two of them giving them ass massage. Now here's the deal, havent been able to close any of them, some sms but no meetup. So yesterday I gave ass massage to a really hot chick in the gym, and same story, I had yoga class and left, got her fb. Now she hasn't answered, I'm thinking if it's better to go for the poon smoothly in the massage right away and making them horny.
Now what do you think, personally I'm gonna give it a go and see what happens, pretty tired of this flaking shit. Any experience?
What does your game in the gym look like?

This sounds like bad game. It's very likely that you're turning the girls off with your ass massage. Did I understand correctly? Did you give a girl an ass massage while still in the gym?

Also, your tone is very supplicating. Bold emphasis mine:

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I have my game in the gym that I play, I talk to them and finally end up massaging them

It's possible your wording is just from non-native English, so correct me if I misunderstand what you meant, but this all sounds like poor game and is supported by the fact that you've had some SMS conversation, but no meetups.

Gaming at the gym is more of a high level/high calibration situation. I wouldn't be attempting this without really knowing body language and being able to calibrate well. Also, escalating sexually with massage is definitely not a beginner or even intermediate level move.

Your massage (your value) is the prize, not the other way around.

Girls should be asking you to massage them, not the other way around.

As an example, my most recent massage experience began with a female friend asking me if she could get another massage, I told her when I had a cold drink waiting for me I'd come over to her side of the group table. She did, I did, then I proceeded to get cold drinks from each of 3 other females in the group for a quick shoulder rub, and the older one offered me up her daughter including showing me a picture of her college age daughter in lingerie.

I still wouldn't offer up a massage to a girl at the gym. That's just kind of strange methodology.

[Cobra]

TLDR - OP gave massages to girls in the gym for free. Wonders why he did not get pussy.

Edit: first week of this month has not failed to deliver on the forum.

[h3ltrsk3ltr]

My early sexual endeavors were influenced by porn as well.

[Merenguero]

I got confused before I even finished reading the thread title. I think that's a new one.

[fucksong]

I think OP has skill. HE'S MASSAGING HOT GIRL'S ASSES IN THE GYM. Nuff said.

I need more logistical info on your gym. My guess is at that time they might be up for adventure and having fun going with your flow but if you don't have the logistics to close them, they end up sobering up later feeling slutty. Some off the nicer more expensive gyms have private yoga rooms so I'd try to pull them there before you amp up the physicality. Tell them you want to show them some yoga moves or whatever. Years back, I brought back a girl to one of these private yoga rooms but I didn't know what to do as hooking up on a gym was outside of my reality so first thing I'd recommend is to know it's possible. Don't listen to anybody who says otherwise. But get your logistics right. Is there a CD player you can play music in? Have some good mood music set up. How about lighting? Locks on the door? If you don't have a private area, you're kinda fucked unless you try to get them out to your car asap.

My question for you OP: What are you saying to these girls? What is your step by step strategy? Are you jacked and good looking? (No homo) Just trying to see what you are doing to replicate success.

Good luck man

[SvaMp_]

(06-03-2015 12:17 AM)fucksong Wrote:  

I think OP has skill. HE'S MASSAGING HOT GIRL'S ASSES IN THE GYM. Nuff said.

Exactly! Good point

Now I agree with the first post that it can be a little bit to much investment from my side, and it would be better if they begged for massage, but I really enjoy doing it and can't say I always enjoy having other types of conversations all the time, sometimes you're in the mood of talking and can create a nice, sexual teasing vibe, sometimes you just feel like grabing some.
I'm pretty tight in this massage thing, have had several women I've given massage on the train (sitting beside them in city to city travels), seduces a few on dates with massage also.

Alright, so how do I do it, well logistics is of course key, you want to know the gym, and find a good location, I usually look at the stretching room. So there I tell them something, like "hey you're very flexible, very ambitious with your stretching" .../ blablabla, I tell them some about my training, then during the conversation I drop that I do wrestling (I really do) and that we usually give each other massage there at the end (we do), or I talk about the foam roaler, how nice it is and that it's the best piece of the training "have you tried it?" "I'ts really nice, almost as good as massage".

Alright some more talking then I ask them "Can you do me a favour?", she says "yes..eh what?", I ask them to walk on my back, some are ok with it, some get nervous and don't (lol).
Now she has invested, afterwards I thank her and say, have you tried it? I can push your back a little, not gonna walk on it. She says yes and boom, it's on. Start with a little pushing then I say "oh you're a bit stiff here", and then I start massaging her, start regularly, then find my way to do it more sexual. The way to go for the ass is like this, when massaging her i make sure to touch her ass with my legs off and on, like sitting close, then I massage her lower back and touch her ass with my elbow once in a while. Here I feel if she's receptive, you notice if she's not comfortable. Then I start massaging her legs and work the way up to the ass. From here next step is the poon but haven't gone for it yet in the gym. Would have to isolate them in a really empty place before that.

Now before I get a crowd of wankers telling me this is creepy, firstly let me tell you this is more a way of entertaining myself, I love touch, and love ass, girls in training pants specially.

Now, I do agree I am investing to much, and would like to discuss the issue how to get them investing more. Next time Im gonna go for isolation and the poon.
The situation is, I see her in the stretch room, 10min later I'm on her ass, pretty nice.

Please understand I'm not a creep, I just entertain myself in life

[SvaMp_]

(06-02-2015 07:42 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

I got confused before I even finished reading the thread title. I think that's a new one.

Yes!

I'm bringing new inovation to the field

Hahah seriously I'm very entertained myself by my ass-massage routine lol

Also, if anyone regularly pulls from the gym you can tell me how

[bacan]

I wait to do sexual stuff like massaging until I'm at a location where I can transition into sex.

If you touched a girl's ass and never hear from her again, I think you are doing something wrong.

[Samseau]

Yeah, the problem is you have no way to escalate into sex since you're in a public gym. I would avoid any sexual touching unless you can fuck her. In PUA terms, you're building attraction without comfort, and this can creep out girls.

Perhaps try doing a normal non-sexual massage, then saying, "I'm actually a professional masseuse, if you liked this give me a call and I can give you a special offer sometime." Then you hand her a business card or number and return to your workout. If she calls for an appointment, just setup a room in your place for her to come over and then go to work - start with a normal message into a full sexual massage.

I have gotten laid from doing massages many times before. It's actually lots of fun.

[kazz]

I cracked up when I read the bit about ass massaging, dont take this the wrong way but I do have a hard time getting my head around this; Sva you sound like a character, you will fit in well here, the world needs more guys like you. If your doing it for a bit of a laugh then go for it, but i think most girls will think its a bit weird and you will not progress to the bang. I dont actively game at the gym as I like to just train, but I do of course like to look (gives me motivation) I get to know faces I see regularly both men and women and treat it as a bit of a social thing. I had a girl leave a note on my windscreen with her no. (funny she could not do it in person). And have just casually asked 2 girls out, was very smooth as I had already built up a rapport with them.

But honestly, not sure id have the balls to give honeys ass massages at the gym, so props, just maybe take it down a notch.

[bacan]

Yeah this thread is pretty hilarious.

We are giving you props for having the balls to try that... But it is not going to you laid. (In 2015 it might even get your gym membership revoked if you get complaints).

[TheFinalEpic]

OP is from Sweden, as that seems to be the worst place on Earth for feminism according to this forum... Not sure how he isn't in jail.

[SvaMp_]

Yeah, seriously Im pretty damn fucking tight in my massage game. I've been into this shit a long time and massage really suits well with my personality. Now I'm hitting myself I didn't go more sexual last time, we were alone in the room and she was fucking hot, got her fb and she's doing modelling, although wasn't the best ass I've massaged, she could do more squats.

I've fucking given porno massage to girls at airports, I'm bored, I'll start talking to them, and yes i'm not naturally very interested in chit chatting and think it's way nicer to grab them, I tell them that I met a girl previously that were a masouse, and that she'd taught me hand massage, have you ever gotten hand massage? Now 10min later I'm under her shirt, then and then touching her boobs, grabing her like I'm fucking her from behind. Worked as a teacher and had som young collegues, saw when they were tired I went up to them and gave them a tap on the back, feeling their pain, "oh your a bit stiff here..." boom, soon I'm massaging the upper part of her ass while she's sitting in the chair, her boyfriend calls and I keep on massaging. I once went for the boobs totally with her and just got a "oops, now it's boobs soon" and she removed my hand, then continou like nothing, they know the deal, they like it.
Now I know of course the logistics needs to be right. Now what has actually suprised me with the gym is that a lot of girls don't really mind the ass massage.

Althoug let me say I do agree It is I'm investing too much sometimes, but also you can establish dominance with the massage, you tell her to do things, you grab her like you own her etc.

[jariel]

(06-04-2015 02:39 PM)SvaMp_ Wrote:  

Yeah, seriously Im pretty damn fucking tight in my massage game. I've been into this shit a long time and massage really suits well with my personality. Now I'm hitting myself I didn't go more sexual last time, we were alone in the room and she was fucking hot, got her fb and she's doing modelling, although wasn't the best ass I've massaged, she could do more squats.

You've just stumbled into a pretty good neg right there, make sure to use it whenever it may fit.

[aeroektar]