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06-03-2015, 06:34 AM
Why don't you provide more info about his advice? Never heard of this guy so I'm not about to invest 7 minutes listening to him.
He couldn't even be bothered to tidy up his cheap hotel room before filming.. Comes off as pretty amateurish.
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06-03-2015, 06:55 AM
I needle dropped most of it.
Like most cats in his demographic, he doesn't and can't understand cool. But what he says probably appeals to his base cause they wouldn't like the taste of real medicine.
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06-03-2015, 11:43 AM
Individually and with socks, they might be able to pull off those suits. Together they look collectively horrible. The guy in biege looks like he has Lego clip on hair.
As far as being "cool" aka confident, I discovered a big change in how women act towards me. Maybe it's because I have higher value overseas, but a lot of women are tagging me as a player now. I'm being accused of fucking a lot of women and having evidence in my hotel room "lipstick on glass" (really just me drinking after Chapstick). I have to start agree and amplify more.
Just be careful not to be too cool. Although the player vibe hasn't cost me any girls, yet.
It's an interesting change from being pegged as a nice guy and not confident almost instantly spot on every time.
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06-03-2015, 03:54 PM
Smoke herb..be cool. It's simple.
I'd say blue pinstripe with his hand up is the token "cool guy". Take him out and all the other dudes look goofy. I'm guessing he spends the most time in the gym.
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06-03-2015, 04:24 PM
Keeping your whole hand in your pocket is beta.
Either keep a thumb out, or just put your thumb in.
Never the whole hand. It gives off a supplicating and passive vibe.
Stand out from everyone else.
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06-04-2015, 06:52 PM
I'll take a shot...2nd from left, taupe jacket.
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06-04-2015, 06:59 PM
WIA is clearly cooler than any of us. Help us out man!
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06-04-2015, 07:49 PM
Hmmmm, Ill take a guess at this. Far right guy.
First of all, I think his outfit is put together well, doesn't look try hard like the other guys.
Second, he has his back to the female, who is also closest to him. Complete disregard for her, a sign of a true alpha (or just gay, who knows).
Third, pocket square.
Fourth, overall strong body language.
Lastly, I don't know how else to say this, he just looks the most natural of the group. The other guys almost seem to be posing, while he looks like hes just being himself. Hard to explain.
Thats my guess anyway.
Crop him out the pic, no I dont think there is a cool guy in the pic.
If I had to guess his personality, I'd guess hes a very focused individual with lots of stories. Look how the far left guys seem to be facing him even though another guy is clearly talking. My guess is he would be the guy Id most like to have a beer with.
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06-04-2015, 08:19 PM
Never really cared about being "cool." No offense but I don't know anyone who says "cool" like that anymore. Speaks of social supplication and a lack of self-understanding.
I will be checking my PMs weekly, so you can catch me there. I will not be posting.
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06-04-2015, 08:34 PM
I wouldn't mind the striped blue suit, and the glasses. Not bad, I'd just add the socks. The stubble goes well with the suit, the hair is pretty slick, not too slick like Hammerhead over there in gray. Blue stripes has a better stance, everyone else looks like a robot, with one of them looking like a fat willy wonka/RDJ. Blue stripes is arguably in better shape than the rest as well, and his ring matches his outfit. He looks healthier too. He has a good posture. He also has a female next to him, and he is attempting to steal her purse. Probably his ball and chain.
So the conclusion I could come to is: If you want to be cool you must:
1. Be in shape, hit the gym
2. Look healthy
3. Have good fashion sense
4. Have good hair
5. Have a good posture
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06-04-2015, 10:43 PM
That "what's cool" shit will fuck your head up, IMHO...
What do these nothing-alike people have in common?
Johnny Depp
Jay Z
Conan O'Brien
Prince
Brad Pitt
Eminem
George Clooney
2Pac
Jon Stewart
etc.
etc.
Millions of people have thought they "were" cool and other millions think they are lame or retarded or offensive or have stupid opinions, or whatever.
Eye of the beholder.
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06-04-2015, 11:10 PM
I'll say this, being "cool" is overstated, simply because, how many "cool" girls do you know?
I can't even remember the last time I met a girl who I thought was cool, and I live in a "cool" city.
Most chicks are boring as shit, you can't be boring, yet be cool.
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06-05-2015, 12:40 AM
from game standpoint "cool" is something that a girl label you as when she is attracted to you and sees that you fit well in her life and reality. it's very subjective.
I've seen girls viewing lame shy weird dudes as cool only because they felt connected to them on some level [life experiences, upbringing, same views on life, preferences etc].
on the other hand I've seen really cool dudes that girls could not stand only because those guys were simply too good for them so the gap was too big to form a mutual connection.
so being cool is very subjective thing in my opinion.
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06-05-2015, 04:46 AM
To me cool refers to temperament, i.e. laid back, not giving a shit, doing your own thing, not following crowds.
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