Quote: (05-29-2015 04:24 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:
I think this may be the thread where I've hit the "like" button the most, great commentary on here, all I wanted to say is this just represents on a greater level the imbalance in the dating or sexual marketplace that is occurring in most parts of the U.S. A lot of the elite guys on here are talking about having harems full of women which is always the ideal goal, but the vast majority of guys in the U.S. are struggling to get sex from women that are usually not much better than a 6.
That said a lot of that blame is to be put on the man, if this Jewish dude from date lab hadn't showed up with flowers, came through wearing a fitted shirt, leather jacket, nice jeans, etc., had more of a cool guy vibe, and didn't scream cookie cutter cubicle beta, maybe the date would have gone completely different and the dude would have fucked her ass the same night.
However, the point I'm trying to make is that these two are arguably a good match on paper, they are both relatively close in terms of looks, I'd say they are both around a 6 with their SMV, however due to this imbalance in the sexual market place girls like her can sit back and pick and choose, have betas orbit, compete for their attention, shower them with praise, stroke their egos, while they pine over "hot alphas" who pick them up at the bar at the end of a Friday night, only to pump and dump them, and never text or see them again.
Shit I'm a relatively young dude, but I'm willing to bet things weren't this bad in the past, I bet 20 or 30 years ago this date may have worked out well, and the two would have hit it off, or at least she'd be open to the idea of seeing the guy again, and not say he was creepy, and "too short" even though he was a 1/2 inch taller. These chicks standards and expectations have reached ridiculous levels at least relative to their value and where it should be.
Hopefully I'm not coming off as overly defeated or pessimistic, I've seen my share of successes and failures. Game makes a huge difference and will help a guy achieve greater quality and quantity, but I still feel like it's often too much more effort and hassle than it should be, and women are just getting more delusional regarding what they feel like they deserve in a man.
Good post, but I disagree that they are a good match on paper.
He brings some solid qualities to the table. He is relatively fit, has a stable job, and seems like a respectful human being.
She's an entitled SIF who should be at the peak of her physical prime with a criminal record. She brings nothing to the table.
Quote: (05-29-2015 09:57 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:
Quote: (05-29-2015 09:48 AM)Menace Wrote:
Jewish girls like this need to be treated like whores. It's what they crave (and often what they are). WB only if she showed up naked with a case of Muscle Milk.
Brian is right, especially w.r.t. a place like DC. I've been on so many dates where I see other couples also on dates, and the guys have no clue. Probably never will. They'll be sitting across from each other talking about some BS, meanwhile I have my tongue in the girls throat and her hand on my dick.
All this dude has to do is google "how to meet girls in DC." ROK article is1st hit, Roosh article is 4th hit. I mean it's right there in front of them, it's not even a big secret anymore if they just know how to use google.
You know, if you really knew Jewish girls, you'd know that the "bang" is beside the point. They're into giving Lewinskys.
Also, this guy got screwed -- ironically -- because he's Jewish. The wilder type Jewish girls don't go near Nice Jewish Boys like him until they're around 35 or so and have exhausted (am I mean that literally) all their other options.
Haha, very true.
As a Jewish man, with a lot of experience past and present, I have a lot of these women thrown my way and it's hilarious.
They'll aggressively try to impress me, but they also resent the fact I wouldn't touch them with a ten foot pole. Now, this has little to do with me, rather that they have developed a transactional approach to meeting men. In other words, they are incapable of loving or even caring about another human being, it's all about what a guy can do for them (which I think applies to a lot of modern women).
In their mind, I check the boxes (right religion, right job, right family), and they are desperate to have kids. In my mind, they are physically repulsive. And what's even more hilarious, they and the people introduce us can't comprehend why I'd date/bang a younger, much more attractive and pleasant woman over an "age-appropriate" woman from a good family? I never understand the "she comes from a good family" argument. I'm not trying to fuck her family. But in all seriousness, I already have financial stability (which is what they are implying with "she comes from a good family"), so what the fuck do I need them for except the possibility of controlling in-laws, which is of course an obvious deal breaker for me?
These women need to either 1) Accept that they should've tried to land a mate during their physical prime OR 2) Hope to land a late-40s, early 50s divorcee who still has some $$ left and doesn't want kids (obviously if he still wants kids, he'll just go younger).
All the "nice" Jewish guys I know who got married in their 30s also aren't stupid. They all married women several years younger than them who can have kids. One in particular (great guy) is 39 and married to a nice girl eleven years younger and has two kids.
So regarding the Date Lab people, he'll be fine. He probably just needs to be a little more assertive, and certainly more picky.
Her? She needs to lose weight and the attitude. But considering our culture encourages this in women, being fat and entitled, it's not likely. I see at best a very unhappy marriage in her future, but more likely, cats.