Quote: (05-15-2015 03:25 PM)Atlantic Wrote:
This came up recently chatting with some forum members. We were 50/50 on who likes a girl to give head before or who likes till wait till after.
Personally I prefer to wait till during or after sex. A blowjob beforehand just gets in the way and if it goes on too long can make me lose my hard on. My dick wants to get in ASAP and doesn't like having to wait no matter how good the head is.
I do like it during sex sometimes though where I have been going a while and I need a little breather. The feeling of going back in to finish after some sloppy head is one of the best there is.
When I was banging my first girlfriend, I would be kissing her and think, "If it feels this good to put my tongue in her mouth, it's going to feel REALLY good to put my penis in there" so I would pull out of her pussy, put it in her mouth for awhile and let her deepthroat me, and then put it back in her pussy. I would usually alternate back and forth between her pussy and mouth a few times during sex, just to enjoy the contrast between the different sensations that her different holes produced (the same way that, at a restaurant, I might alternate between eating a warm steak and sipping a cold beer to enjoy the contrast between tastes).
She sometimes told me that I was lucky and spoiled because she let me do what other girls wouldn't. Sure enough, my current chick hasn't let me do this yet (she says it's "dirty"), although she says she will if I get her drunk enough. Hopefully I can use that as a stepping stone to getting her to do it while sober too.
Anyway, I like to feel that I have full command of a woman's body, in that I can put my tongue, penis, etc. in whichever of her holes it's my whim or desire to fill with my body at any given moment. Otherwise, I don't feel like she's totally given herself to me; it's like she's holding something back, and not accepting me completely, and I don't like (or accept) that. I need to have full ownership in order to feel satisfied.
Also, a post-coital blowjob is an awesome way to finish coming, since the pussy might not be tight enough in the right ways by that point to stimulate a full orgasm by itself. Or maybe the mouth simply stimulates in a different way, complementing what the pussy got done doing in a way which picks up where it left off and completes the ejaculation. Also, the feeling/sensation of having a woman "clean you off" with her mouth and accept your bodily fluids is awesome, both psychologically and physically. It feels good for some of the same reasons that it feels good to receive anilingus -- she's cherishing your whole body and not rejecting any of it as too gross, because she loves you that much.