[TravelerKai]

(05-10-2015 03:50 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

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I've had it in my mind forever that guys going to sea are all taking the same trail, meeting the same semi pros and paying the taxi fair. After the bang.
11 girls in 19 days.. Sounds amazing on a game level, but if they are just the same circle of girls.. What's the point

It's important for men to check their behavior every now and then, but there's a thread of yours that is still active where you banged a lot of fast Hungarian women and entertained the forum with screenshots. There is no hint that those women were virgins that only had sex with you. Are you questioning the player lifestyle now after your experience or are you judging a man for not banging women in the exact way you do?

Exactly. I am one of the few on RVF that is the complete opposite of 99.9% of everyone else, but I never have anything bad to say about any men, especially young ones, getting their dick wet. Especially after a life changing divorce! I have been there and after my first trip I felt like I was a brand new man and 22 all over again.

The return home with sore dick, the adrenaline rush that never stops, the weight lost, the sunburn, unable to sleep, jet lag, broke pockets, all of it. It's a wonderful experience as a new man that has been in a prison for a long time. Guys like you never married before really cannot understand what that feels like. Who cares if most or all the chicks are sluts or not. He wasn't marriage hunting or even worse handcuffing bar girls and pros, trying to tell us he found the one special snowflake. Sourcecode save your vitriol for those guys that need a swift slap in the face! It's time to celebrate brah!

[Lizard King]

Threads like this are an inspiration for those of us that haven't travelled to game women.

[KsockZ]

awesome report CS, glad you got back out there and living life. +1

[CleanSlate]

Thanks guys for the kind words! I'm still a bit shell shocked at what I've done on this trip.

Just landed in the U.S., walked through the airport and hardly see any hot chicks while receiving a "I miss you babe, when are you coming back? Much love" from my favorite pinay. That was enough to make my lower lip quiver.

(05-10-2015 05:46 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

Excellent report Cleanslate!
What's next on the agenda brother? I know we are going to hang out in town and ride bikes, etc. but what is next on the travel list? Are you going to just chill for a while? Another Asian country or are you going to try Europe next?

No idea man. I only have 10 days of paid vacation time left this year. For sure I want to go to the Philippines again, but I may piggyback a 2 week in Veitnam or Thailand on top of it. That's a long trip so it will have to wait till next Jan. In the meantime, maybe a week or so in Dominican Republic, or perhaps Colombia. I don't know yet.

[~wrIghter~]

Enjoyed reading your memoir. I've experienced Pinay women in the states. (Two exes lol). I can only imagine how it would be for me over there. Definitley one of the top of my list of places to visit, Japan being at the very top.

[rcraig33hb]

Good Report CS! Glad you had a blast. I have some friends back in the States and Canada that went through hell divorces and could use a motivational report like this to get their asses on a plane and explore the world and return with a positive experience like this.

Much respect brother!

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But this was really petty.

I'm sure I'll get guys trying to act like I'm "white knighting", but the girl refused to come to your condo. Then you bring her to your condo anyway, make her sit in the lobby, and then rub it in her face.

What exactly did you "teach her a lesson" about? She didn't do anything wrong. She didn't promise or owe you anything.

I'm on board with Enigma...this was not a cool move bro! If you had a "bullpen" of women, you could have taken a classier approach and let her know much sooner.

Just be mindful of how you treat people...I have seen some foreigner become dicks or assholes and get the "instant Karma" where different girls steal their wallets or mess up their condos. Not worth it bro!

[CleanSlate]

(05-10-2015 07:34 PM)rcraig33hb Wrote:  

I'm on board with Enigma...this was not a cool move bro! If you had a "bullpen" of women, you could have taken a classier approach and let her know much sooner.

Just be mindful of how you treat people...I have seen some foreigner become dicks or assholes and get the "instant Karma" where different girls steal their wallets or mess up their condos. Not worth it bro!

Yeah, that wasn't cool on my part. I got a little carried away there, and if I were to do it over again, I would have handled it differently.

Thanks to you and Enigma for checking my behavior.

[CleanSlate]

Just got home and unpacked my stuff. I remember seeing a thread about RVFers getting depressed and sad after a trip like this.

That shit is real. It just hit me like a ton of bricks. I'm not gonna lie and say I didn't open a box of kleenex.

[Aliblahba]

Now you know why most of us on the forum fight tooth and nail not to get wrangled up in a 9-5 with a 2 week vacation. That way these trips come far more often.

[Robert Plant]

(05-09-2015 07:44 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

Prologue
Right now I am laughing at how my ex-wife would have HATED this trip, she would have been absolutely miserable in third-world conditions. But my pinay was such a great sport, and she was worried about how I felt about the trip. I assured her that I was having a great time; I even shared the fact that I'm divorced, and that this is the best trip I have had in a very long time.

I'm super stoked you had such a great trip Clean Slate. I'm going to the Philippines myself in a couple of months. Your post has me really pumped for it.

My ex-wife was absolutely miserable to travel with too. If everything wasn't perfect, she would throw a fit and blame me. Of course she was looking for stuff to be wrong. Last summer I took my first trip alone in 14 years to Nicaragua. It felt like I had been let out of 14 years in prison. It was one of the best feelings I've ever had.

[MongolianAbroad]

(05-10-2015 08:51 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

Just got home and unpacked my stuff. I remember seeing a thread about RVFers getting depressed and sad after a trip like this.

That shit is real. It just hit me like a ton of bricks. I'm not gonna lie and say I didn't open a box of kleenex.

Welcome to the club, man:

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-46927.html




Note: The PSAD thread was, and still is, tongue in cheek.

[jariel]

Damn, I remember I had to show CleanSlate my threads on Confidence Killers, and then I come across this?

Take a bow dude, you deserve it.

[jariel]

(05-11-2015 01:05 AM)Robert Plant Wrote:  

Last summer I took my first trip alone in 14 years to Nicaragua. It felt like I had been let out of 14 years in prison. It was one of the best feelings I've ever had.

Robert, do you have a thread up on Nicaragua?

I've been telling myself I was going to hit it for two years now.

[dalbroker]

I like in Houston too. message me if you want to grab a beer.

I have 3 Asian tours behind my belt. Re-entry really does suck.
My last trip was for 32 days lol.

(05-10-2015 08:51 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

Just got home and unpacked my stuff. I remember seeing a thread about RVFers getting depressed and sad after a trip like this.

That shit is real. It just hit me like a ton of bricks. I'm not gonna lie and say I didn't open a box of kleenex.

[Saweeep]

CS, one thing you didn't mention in your report which may be of use to some guys is your expenditure.

Even if you don't want to break it down too much, what was your total spend out there?

[VincentVinturi]

This should be used as the template for a state-mandated program for all newly-divorced men.

Let's call it "The Clean Slate Program".

Your trip really goes to show that there's something alchemical about true femininity.

It literally transforms a man when he has young, sweet, feminine girls in his life on a regular basis.

It washes away bitterness, it gives meaning to the quotidian, it inspires art.

Finally, it puts things in perspective like a motherfucker.

[CleanSlate]

(05-11-2015 12:23 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

CS, one thing you didn't mention in your report which may be of use to some guys is your expenditure.

Even if you don't want to break it down too much, what was your total spend out there?

Well, I admit was kind of liberal with my expenditures. Here's a very rough breakdown:

$800 for US-Phils flight (Qatar Airways)
$200 for Manila-Boracay flight (PAL airlines)
$700 for airbnb in Manila (16 nights, Fort Bonifacio)
$100 for airbnb in Boracay (3 nights, station 2)
$1200 for meals and entertainment (lots of eating out)
$100 for transportation (taxi, jeepney, bus)
$100 miscellaneous

Which comes out to $3,200 total. But I didn't watch every peso I spent. If I did, I could have probably kept it below $2,800. Or less than $2,500 if I stayed in a cheaper place and skipped the Boracay trip, which was a money suck and had lots of ridiculous ferry fees.

[Saweeep]

That seems pretty good value for what you got out of it!

[CleanSlate]

(05-11-2015 01:34 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

That seems pretty good value for what you got out of it!

I was surprised how cheap it was compared to a 5 day trip to Costa Rica for my honeymoon 4 years ago, which cost even more than this entire 3 week trip.

[Dusty]

(05-11-2015 01:26 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

$800 for US-Phils flight (Qatar Airways)
$200 for Manila-Boracay flight (PAL airlines)
$700 for airbnb in Manila (16 nights, Fort Bonifacio)
$100 for airbnb in Boracay (3 nights, station 2)
$1200 for meals and entertainment (lots of eating out)
$100 for transportation (taxi, jeepney, bus)
$100 miscellaneous

A post divorse sex spree with thin feminine agreeable girls....PRICELESS!

[Scott Free]

Clean Slate, you ought to change your user name to 'High Score' now after that crazy trip! Hahaha... It was good meeting you man. Its really impressive what you've achieved. Looking forward to future meetups!

[jariel]

(05-11-2015 12:56 PM)VincentVinturi Wrote:  

It washes away bitterness, it gives meaning to the quotidian, it inspires art.

Finally, it puts things in perspective like a motherfucker.

What do you call a man who manages to fit "quotidian" in one sentence and end the next sentence with "motherfucker"?

A motherfuckin' poet.

[CleanSlate]

(05-11-2015 10:18 PM)Scott Free Wrote:  

Clean Slate, you ought to change your user name to 'High Score' now after that crazy trip! Hahaha... It was good meeting you man. Its really impressive what you've achieved. Looking forward to future meetups!

Or maybe change my name to PinayWhisperer?

It was great meeting you too, man. I wish we had more time to chat more - next time.

[Mendokusai]

Clean Slate, I've been following your experiences for awhile and I really gotta say:

Fucking BRAVO!

I've been debating between Taiwan and the Philippines for this summer and just now I booked my ticket to Manila. I'm gonna head to Palawan instead of Boracay though.

But ho brah, a lot of locals back home in Hawaii take off to Japan or Korea after a divorce. I think the primal man in them is trying to reclaim something but a lot come back more fucked up than ever.

Your experience shows just how much can be accomplished in a short amount of time when you cut the bullshit and just apply yourself.

and you should change your profile description on FC to just, "People who know me, call me the Pinay Whisperer."

[N°6]

For those who've returned to the Anglosphere after an Asian tour, what things hit you the hardest upon your return?

I lived in France for four years and even though it is a neighbour of the UK, when I returned, I was struck by the:

*heavier women,
*the permanent surly faced expression of the women,
*no eye contact, smiling, winking or low-level flirting in the street but women bowing their heads and lowering their eyes to the pavement when passing a man,
*the perceived cold aloofness being replaced on weekend evenings with shameless drunken flirting,
* the affect the class system has on women's quality and hypergamic tastes.

I missed France for ages so I can only imagine what the come-down from an Asian tour would feel like!