[truedat]

I tried a bit of an experiment that was funny as hell, and got me laid by a resistant X that I thought id share. I have this smoking hot ex-gf that I dont want to be committed to (I broke up with her 3 months ago) but I would like to bang her every now and again. Problem is she has a new boyfriend (part of her jealously plan which did not work) and has been very resistant the last few times I have seen her.

I tried to get nostalgic over some alcohol, tried to seem interested in her nonsensical stories a few times, tried to outright grab a tit haha, but to no avail. Basically I just want to fuck her every once and while regardless of who/what shit is going on in her life and without getting complicated. Also, I dont tell her personal shit that is going on in my life like who and how many I am fucking.

Long story short, i was doing a little house maintenance and found a nice long brunette piece of hair, and a little pink hair tie thing and thought I would do a little experiment. She was on her way over to kick it, and I decided to strategically place that bad boy on my sparking white bathroom sink, with the hair tie moved back a bit, but partially noticeable. If you were a girl, you could see that piece of hair from space lol. Anyways exgf is cold as usual, then excused herself to take a piss. She normally pisses with the door open (typical American girl) and did so, but then something strange happened. She was washing her hands in my sparkling white sink and she decided to turn off the sink and then close the door. I could barley contain myself from busting out laughing as I knew she was doing some heavy investigative work in there haha.

Anyways we had some drinks, her demeanor changed and she was a lot more receptive, and the pussy was good to go in less than 60 mins flat. I have never tried rigging a crime scene like this, but it worked like a charm

Have any of you setup some similar girl bait with good results? If you have please enlighten me, because this shit worked fantastic and saved me 2-3 months of haggling.

TD

[CJ]

Amazing how well jealousy can be used in your favor. Nice report TD!

[iknowexactly]

(05-24-2011 01:15 AM)CJ Wrote:  

Amazing how well jealousy can be used in your favor. Nice report TD!

Genius idea, and confirms that counterintuitive thing that they WANT you to have other chicks.

Do you think she KNEW you were getting laid post-her before she saw that? Maybe that confirmed what she only suspected.

[Tuthmosis]

This is a great idea. I have a close friend who keeps a little "lost-and-found" basket of things that girls have left behind in his apartment over the years. While 75 percent of the items are some sort of hair-clipping apparatus, the other quarter is other random shit. I think he even had a nice watch in there. Using essentially your principle, he would strategically sprinkle a few of the items around his pad, periodically refreshing the items from his supply in the basket.

I swear some girls must spend half their paychecks on hair clips. At a point, I had like four of them in the glove compartment of my car.

[Caligula]

Great tip!

Having other girls interested in you is a killer with an ex-girlfriend. Plays into her fear of loss.

What are some other ways of triggering her fear of loss / showing preselection?

I did something similar. An ex-girlfriend invited me to a society event with amazing girls. We had broken up a few years before this. In the years since the breakup I'd made moves on her to no avail.

At the event I ran into people I know and got introduced to new people. At every opportunity I got out of earshot and ran game on nearby girls. People are there to mingle so it was easy to open whatever was around. I made sure she saw me me touching girls on the elbow, back, whispering into girls' ears and getting out my phone to take down a few numbers.

I knew it was working when I caught her ignoring the people she was talking to and actually craning her neck to hear what I was saying!

Afterwards we hit the bar for a drink, she kept asking me about the girls I'd met. I brushed it off, escalated and focused on her. We were at her place slamming within the hour.

Now she has a boyfriend. Saw her a couple of months ago and she asked me what my love life is like.

I said something like "it's complicated" -- what would be the best response here?

[hoops330]

I had a very similar situation. Broke up with this chick but we still went to school together. She acted like I didn't exist until word got around that I was into someone else. When that happened, shit hit the fan and all of a sudden my ex was breathing down my neck. Girls are possessive like little children. Even though I'm not playing with that toy, nobody else can play with it either.

Caligula - I think that response is fine but to possibly incite a little jealousy you could have let her know how well you're doing, even if it is a complete lie.

[Screwston]

Would something like this work with a girl you haven't fucked yet? Or do y'all have to have a history together?

[hoops330]

(05-24-2011 05:53 PM)houston Wrote:  

Would something like this work with a girl you haven't fucked yet? Or do y'all have to have a history together?

I think it could definitely work with someone you havent piped out yet as long as there is chemistry and tension there and you know that she is DTF, but this method could also backfire in a very bad way!

[Caligula]

(05-24-2011 05:53 PM)houston Wrote:  

Would something like this work with a girl you haven't fucked yet? Or do y'all have to have a history together?

Preselection works, but if you're not fucking her yet leaving girl stuff around the house can backfire if she thinks you're too much of a player or suspects you have a girlfriend.

[oldnemesis]

You should have also dropped couple of used condoms into the trash bag. Yes, I bet she looked there too.

[truedat]

I think used condoms would of grossed her out and pissed her off. This 1 single strand of hair did not imply 100% that I was fucking someone, but rather that a female was meandering around on her old turf which changed the dynamic/urgency to fuck me.

[CJ]

(05-24-2011 01:32 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

I swear some girls must spend half their paychecks on hair clips. At a point, I had like four of them in the glove compartment of my car.

This reminds me of a great story of a girl I once picked up, took her back to her place, only to find we were at her parents' place... and she thought I was taking her to my place. So, I just let her blow me in my car. The darnedest thing though, was when I got home I found one of her hair clips in my beard! How that thing got in there, I'll never know.

[gringochileno]

(05-24-2011 08:52 PM)truedat Wrote:  

I think used condoms would of grossed her out and pissed her off. This 1 single strand of hair did not imply 100% that I was fucking someone, but rather that a female was meandering around on her old turf which changed the dynamic/urgency to fuck me.

One time I was at a bar with a girl and as we were walking in another girl I was hooking up with texted me out of the blue telling me to come to the same bar. I spent about an hour trying to run interference and keep them from seeing each other, but the girl I brought with me eventually found out and got really pissed (the girl who was already there was hotter than her, which may have been a contributing factor). Preselection didn't do me any good there.

I think conveying preselection needs to be done subtly, in a way that leaves some doubt in the girl's mind. The reason is that the vagina is attracted to a man who is a player but the brain correctly recognizes that he's not going to stick around, so you need enough plausible deniability to allow the hamster to spin some kind of rationalization, no matter how absurd. I think a strand of hair or a barely-visible hair tie is perfect.

[Willy Wonka]

(05-25-2011 12:09 AM)gringochileno Wrote:  

(05-24-2011 08:52 PM)truedat Wrote:  

I think used condoms would of grossed her out and pissed her off. This 1 single strand of hair did not imply 100% that I was fucking someone, but rather that a female was meandering around on her old turf which changed the dynamic/urgency to fuck me.

One time I was at a bar with a girl and as we were walking in another girl I was hooking up with texted me out of the blue telling me to come to the same bar. I spent about an hour trying to run interference and keep them from seeing each other, but the girl I brought with me eventually found out and got really pissed (the girl who was already there was hotter than her, which may have been a contributing factor). Preselection didn't do me any good there.

I think conveying preselection needs to be done subtly, in a way that leaves some doubt in the girl's mind. The reason is that the vagina is attracted to a man who is a player but the brain correctly recognizes that he's not going to stick around, so you need enough plausible deniability to allow the hamster to spin some kind of rationalization, no matter how absurd. I think a strand of hair or a barely-visible hair tie is perfect.

Agreed. Girls have found condom wrappers in my trash before - it did not get me laid.

Like gringochileno points out, girls need to suspect you may be fucking other girls.... but they don't want to know it for a fact.

[Vicious]

(05-24-2011 01:32 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

This is a great idea. I have a close friend who keeps a little "lost-and-found" basket of things that girls have left behind in his apartment over the years.

Cool, I did the same thing some years ago. That basket included a nice jacket, earrings, tons of hair clips, school books, even a hair straightener!

Wish I kept it but threw it all out when I moved, it would always garner questioning looks when discovered but no girl actually ever called me on it.

[oldnemesis]

(05-24-2011 08:52 PM)truedat Wrote:  

I think used condoms would of grossed her out and pissed her off.

I doubt it. People who easily gross out do not dig into the bathroom trashcan. Just a though of what one could possibly find there would keep them away.

[hypesession]

This is my first post here. I was digging through the forums and found this interesting. Leaving the hair is an excellent move in the situation, in my opinion. It's like dynamite in a woman's brain.

I had a similar situation where my ex called, I said I couldn't talk and she randomly got the idea in her head that I was with another girl. When she asks I just keep it real vague and I can see her literally seething with rage. It's a delicate balance though cos you don't want to piss them off too much.

[Gmac]

Condoms go in the toilet or in the bottom of the kitchen trash, that's it.

[DTA]

Brilliant move! If I didn't live with my parents/sister I'd totally use this.

One experiment I tried before was inputing a fake girls name (always pick a hot name too, like Kelly or Amber or Vanessa) in my phone with MY OWN phone number as her number. I'd then send that name a few sexts (usually some begging me to come over) and it'd bounce back to me looking like it came from this girl since it was attached to my own number. I'd leave my phone with the girl for a few minutes while I was in the bathroom or wherever and I swear, they'd look through my texts while I was gone and see the texts from this "girl" who is obsessed with me and wants me to come over, and get all crazy about me.

My friend thought it was the most psychotically ingenious thing he's ever heard

[MiXX]

I'm just confused at how she still goes to your apartment to "kick it" as you put it. An ex who
Is over you will not even respond to your text messages let alone show up at your door to "kick it".

The jealousy worked only because deep inside she still wants you; otherwise she could give a rats ass whom you are fucking, shell be fucking someone better according to female psychology.

Mixx

[Samseau]

(06-29-2011 09:59 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

I'm just confused at how she still goes to your apartment to "kick it" as you put it. An ex who
Is over you will not even respond to your text messages let alone show up at your door to "kick it".

The jealousy worked only because deep inside she still wants you; otherwise she could give a rats ass whom you are fucking, shell be fucking someone better according to female psychology.

Mixx

Yeah, that's pretty much what I thought too.

[hypesession]

(06-29-2011 09:17 AM)DTA Wrote:  

Brilliant move! If I didn't live with my parents/sister I'd totally use this.

One experiment I tried before was inputing a fake girls name (always pick a hot name too, like Kelly or Amber or Vanessa) in my phone with MY OWN phone number as her number. I'd then send that name a few sexts (usually some begging me to come over) and it'd bounce back to me looking like it came from this girl since it was attached to my own number. I'd leave my phone with the girl for a few minutes while I was in the bathroom or wherever and I swear, they'd look through my texts while I was gone and see the texts from this "girl" who is obsessed with me and wants me to come over, and get all crazy about me.

My friend thought it was the most psychotically ingenious thing he's ever heard

Wow that is clever albeit totally weird if she figured it out.