[thegameoflife]

I met a smoking hot girl (9.5+) last weekend at a party. Things went fairly well but nothing totally outstanding. Anyways she invited me to her 18th bday along with a bunch of other people (I know very few of the others as I am older). I am guessing there are going to be a lot of other guys hitting on her because she is drop dead gorgeous.

Anyways, she is going to a lounge followed by a bar. Should I go to both events or just one? What is some other advice to separate myself from the pack besides the same old 'don't be beta.'

[blurb]

Aloofness...

Tell her you're going to the lounge. Then, don't show up. Then, arrive at the bar 15 minutes late. Perhaps bring along a female friend.

[Invictus]

What he said.

In addition, you can laugh at the other little boys. But make sure and give her a little attention, then take it away again. And be happy for her.