There is such a thing as girl game.
1) "I went on a double date"
- she's oblivious
- she doesn't like guy immediately
Neither of there are considered offensive girl game.
It's defensive game at best, probably more of a default "game", in that girls are always running defense.
2) I spend more time reading profiles
- oblivious
- doesn't like the guy
Not true girl game either.
3) Rules
An urban legend that players tell newbs about. Technically the book exists, but few if any girls follow it to the letter.
There's an entire industry of women advising women on how to deal with men. On top of the profiteers, there women's socialization with each other - the sort of thing that has happened naturally over time in every culture.
4) Is she game aware?
All girls are red pill.
Some girls have heard of "Pick up", a handful have read articles, and a statistically insignificant number have read actual material.
She's generally aware that men are trying to pick her up, but the same way that we're all generally aware that we breath oxygen. It's a part of her life, that she doesn't REALLY think about.
The problem with describing and trying to understand women's game, or their mating strategy, is that you haven't completely absorbed the reality of things.
For most women, sex is easy.
For attractive women, sex with attractive guys is easy.
She can get commitment from lesser men.
But can she get a great man to commit to her AND maintain all of her advantages?
So natural genetics, diet, exercise, grooming, clothing, styling, body language, positioning - all of that is part of EVERY girls upbringing, whether or not she chooses to use it. Typical Matthew effect, if the chick is even somewhat attractive, she'll take the womanly arts like a duck to water.
That's why when you see a beautiful head of hair, chances are high that when the chick turns around you'll be impressed.
But like height or muscles on a male, all that does is garner attention.
She still has to investigate what the guy is about. Then she has to confer with her network, because as they say eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap.
That's where the game gets real for her.
She can attract lots of Brad Pitt clones, but can she pull Brad Pitt.
So she meets him, laughs at his jokes, a little casual contact, some flirting and suggestive language.
He's interested?
For some chicks, that'd be the end of it. She got her little ego boost, and now that this super hot alpha wants her, SHE'S NO LONGER INTERESTED. Clearly he's not as alpha as she thought, other wise he would have dismissed her. He's gullible and pliable like all the rest. Deep down a lot of these chicks want to be dominated, in rapture, total submission, enthralled - and other words you might find in the thesaurus. Every girl is looking for richer, smarter, stronger, taller, more socially connected, more powerful than herself, than other guys...- so the Man in her life is bigger than her life. She doesn't want to drive the car, she wants to sit in the passenger seat (and tell him where to go, and how he's driving lol)
But let's say our Waffle House Waitress in a mini-skirt does fancy this guy.
She lets him lead her back to his place. Gives a good blowjob, but not her absolute best - because she doesn't want to absolutely reveal how much of a whore she truly is. Post climax, when he's most reachable, she wants to break through the ice and get to his emotional center and "connect".
The player gives her that false connection, the alpha might keep up his defenses until she breaks him down further.
So that's where her game kicks into high gear.
She knows, like we all know, her beauty fades and the thrill of sex will wear off.
She needs to bind him to her will.
At the same time, we as players know, that if she manages to do this - she loses interest.
In the long term situation, your primary job is giving her things to do, things to keep her emotional and mental interest - so she keeps working, she keeps investing - until she's yours.
Most young players just getting into the game, will run through their first 10, maybe first 20-30. Then they'll upgrade, meet an 8 who's also cool to hang out with after the bang.
Her game worked.
Even if you're both League of Legends players and bond after fucking with a quick online session - the emotional part will wear off. Whatever cool thing she does, will lose value over time.
If you remain "alpha" or keep some plates spinning, she'll have to keep doing shit to keep you interested, and do a fair amount of self-editing.
But there's only so much time that she has.
What's good, for her at least, most men aren't players.
Most "alphas" are white knights.
Lots of bad boys can be tamed if she stays in there long enough.
What's good for you, is that you understand what's going on.
Being cute, pretty, sexy, thin, cooking, cleaning, nurturing - that's all part of her opening game. That draws you in, it draws many men in.
But even after she's got an audience, she still needs to pick a guy (or a few guys) to play parts in her life. So her middle game is ferreting out the real "men", and her end game is getting them to commit.
And once she has her president or team captain, she's queen of all other women. Because even with the wedding day and the kids, this for her is still a competition with other women.
That's my perspective at least.
WIA
Quote: (04-24-2015 11:38 AM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:
I've heard of the book "The Rules", but otherwise, what are the tell-tale signs of a game aware female, and what are the tactics/end-goals of Girl Game anyways?
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