[Mr Finish]

Of course I have in the past, maybe 5 times max but lately I can't more than twice. Does anyone else feel this way?

[Windom Earle]

How's the quality (sex and the women)?

If you're banging high quality women, you're naturally going to want to spend more time with them.

There's also a case to be made for the quality of sex increasing with subsequent bangs (with high quality women), although there are exceptions to this (particular if you're a sociopath and/or have a purely pump & dump mentality, or her "quality" decreases through the deterioration of the sexual dynamics).

[Cattle Rustler]

I feel you brah.

The more I bang a woman, the more I get to know her, which leads to getting to know more unpleasant things about her, which only decreases their value and my desire to bang her.

Man, finding that her idea of cooking is buying a meal and heating it or that she's bipolar is not something I can disregard.

[Mr Finish]

I wouldn't consider myself a full blown sociopath but I'll dosay whatever it takes to get into a girls pants. The girls can be 6's or 8's but I get bored. I need something new. I feel like it's like watching a rerun of your favorite show, it's good, but it only gets worse and worse and worse. I had some of the best sex in a while earlier this week. Aggressive, primal, borderline violent sex! I blew her off today when she begged to pick me up; I haven't even banged her twice. The exception being of months pass I'll gladly bang again. Welp, I'm off on another bang mission; will report back.

[dark_g]

(04-18-2015 10:29 PM)Windom Earle Wrote:  

How's the quality (sex and the women)?

If you're banging high quality women, you're naturally going to want to spend more time with them.

There's also a case to be made for the quality of sex increasing with subsequent bangs (with high quality women), although there are exceptions to this (particular if you're a sociopath and/or have a purely pump & dump mentality, or her "quality" decreases through the deterioration of the sexual dynamics).

I agree.

The more comfortable a woman becomes, The more adventurous she will be. I banged this woman and i swear the sex got better each time i fucked her.

[Travesty]

Yeah I feel that I hate that you have to see plates at least every 2 weeks if not even after 1 week most of them get anxious, and you need to do damage control if you ignore or blow them off with "I was outta town", "I had a lot of work".

I want all my plates to be on once every 3 month schedules. I think that is the rough amount of time for your dick to forget her pussy enough and start fantasizing about how great it was.

[Mr Finish]

For me it isn't a matter of the sex with the same woman getting better.... It's sort of like I'm just over her. It's more like the thrill of a new bang that is really rewarding

[iknowexactly]

(04-18-2015 10:51 PM)Mr Finish Wrote:  

I wouldn't consider myself a full blown sociopath but I'll dosay whatever it takes to get into a girls pants. The girls can be 6's or 8's but I get bored. I need something new. I feel like it's like watching a rerun of your favorite show, it's good, but it only gets worse and worse and worse. I had some of the best sex in a while earlier this week. Aggressive, primal, borderline violent sex! I blew her off today when she begged to pick me up; I haven't even banged her twice. The exception being of months pass I'll gladly bang again. Welp, I'm off on another bang mission; will report back.

I've posted elsewhere about what I call "attachment circuitry" and how each individual is a result of a long process of evolution.

I think there are different evolutionary "strategies" ( unconscious of course) that work as far as generating offspring.

I think some people just get attached more easily and others are more distant.
This is probably the best reason for age-of-consent laws, it gives women at least some time to learn to recognize the cads if that's not really what they prefer.

Being a moving-target "cad" would obviously be one of them, if one has unprotected sex with a large number of women he would tend to have many and varies offspring. So it makes sense that a proportion of men would tend to evolve into this style of personality.

There's also something to be said for fewer, more carefully cared for offspring who will have higher survival and possibly reproduction rates.

The important thing is I think in most cases this circuitry is inborn or at least most early childhood shaped, and there's not a huge chance in a soft-hearted character like my self hoping to become distant player, or a distant player to become a dedicated family man.

Others have talked about this as R selection or K selection, meaning I think choosing to have either a high number of kids without a huge investment in each one, or the opposite.

[Dusty]

Coolidge Effect

Quote:

The males of most mammalian species have a definite urge towards seeking variety in their in sexual partners. In the laboratory this has been called the ‘Coolidge Effect’ (Bermant, 1976). If a male rat is introduced to a female rat in a cage, a remarkably high copulation rate will be observed at first. Then, progressively, the male will tire of that particular female and, even thought there is no apparent change in her receptivity, he eventually reaches a point where he has little apparent libido. However, if the original female is then removed and a fresh one supplied, the male is immediately restored to his former vigour and enthusiasm.

The same effect is seen even more strikingly in farm animals such as sheep and cattle (see Figure, a demonstration of the Coolidge Effect in sheep, from Beamer, Bermant and Clegg, 1960). Rams and bulls are unmistakably resistant to repeating sex with the same female (Beamer, Bermant and Clegg, 1969). Thus for breeding purposes it is unnecessary for a farmer to have more than one male to service all his sheep and cows. A single bull can be relied upon to do the rounds of all the available cows, and a single ram will eventually service all the sheep in his domain.

[travolta]

I don't like putting in effort to have sex with a girl only only bang her once. I only want to bang a girl once if she was ugly or had a shitty personality. I usually bang girls for as long as I enjoy her personality and if the sex is good.

[Dusty]

Usually the first bang or two with a new girl isn't that good. It's like driving a new car. You know how to drive, but you need to adjust the rear view mirror, know how to turn the lights on, get comfortable with the seat position. etc. About the third bang in, once you know where everything is on this model and your seats are set how you like them, it gets good. Then after a few months you get bored with the same pussy and need variety.

[Mr Finish]

I'll occasionally pop a quarter of a cialis to make sure the first time is good, but I understand this isn't for everyone. I agree that my dick needs about 2-3 months to "forget" about a girls vagina; to have it feel new again, it's just difficult to keep them on board that long. I've been lying to several girls about being out of town, sick, or with family.

[MarcusAbbertini]

(04-18-2015 10:51 PM)Mr Finish Wrote:  

I wouldn't consider myself a full blown sociopath but I'll dosay whatever it takes to get into a girls pants. The girls can be 6's or 8's but I get bored. I need something new. I feel like it's like watching a rerun of your favorite show, it's good, but it only gets worse and worse and worse. I had some of the best sex in a while earlier this week. Aggressive, primal, borderline violent sex! I blew her off today when she begged to pick me up; I haven't even banged her twice. The exception being of months pass I'll gladly bang again. Welp, I'm off on another bang mission; will report back.

Welcome to my life brother. It's like that age old saying; "for every gorgeous woman out there there's a guy tired of banging her." I've slept with some incredible women over the years that have literally intoxicated my entire existence when they first entered my life. I lost count after about 50 but I reckon it's in triple figures now. After banging them, sometimes once and at most a few times I completely lose interest. Part of gaming girls now means doing my utmost to stay interested in new lays for at least a month. Haven't succeeded yet.