Quote: (04-11-2015 06:21 PM)CrackerDaddy Wrote:
Basically, you have to ask yourself.....what is your real SMV? Now, be honest here. Be honest with yourself. Hell, get a second or third opinion. Are you the type of man who is so desirable, high-status enough to basically be flake-proof? If not, are you willing to put in the work and do whatever is necessary to raise yourself to that level? If not, then relegate yourself to being flaked upon and take whatever you can get in the the sexual marketplace relevant to your real SMV.
Sound harsh? Yes, it is; but, my friends that is the reality of the situation. Make a better you......be a better you. Trust me, the ladies will notice and your incidences of being flaked upon will go down as the quality of the women you are attaining go up.
Just my $.02
Yes, but this is only ONE option you have to prevent flaky behavior, with dubious guarantees. In the first place, raising your SMV should be taken for granted and should be a central element of your overall lifestyle.
On the other hand, there is only so much you can do to raise your SMV (well, at least for the vast majority of players), while you can always concentrate on other factors: one of them is, simply, more approaches (which leads to more options and, above all, abundance mentality).
One question every guy that has be flaked on should ask himself, is: how many NEW girls did I approach in the 24 hours following the flake, IF any?
In this answer lies, in my opinion, an important element of dealing with flaking. After all, let's admit that flakes are not only a problem of very bad social behavior on behalf of females, but also, if not mostly, a problem of our own inner monologue and, ultimately, our inner response to this bad behavior.
