[Vaun]

Hold your breath, it doesn't matter.

What do you think of online dating? Politics? The weather?

Who cares, she doesn't care anyway. Thats not why you are there. You are not there to explain. You are not there to share your insights. Hard earned knowledge and advice that can offer an explanation. Your honest opinion that is mostly true. In the age of social media you are probably not brave enough to not talk about yourself.

She doesn't want to hear that. She wants light and fun. She wants carefree smooth. Most of all she wants to ignore all of the other drama in her life. She wants YOU to bring that to her. Your knowledge is best used elsewhere, not in random bar conversation.

You bring stability and security. You are the rock. Not the entertainment. Not the clown game. Not the asshole blabbing on and on in the street to "shut down a white knight" to star in your own YouTube approach video.

It doesn't matter. Only you, your goals, your lifestyle. Not compliments, not riding out shit tests, not agreeing and amplifying, not putting up with rude single psychopaths whose dads pop in when necessary.

[Doc Rock]

The video you're referring to was pretty awesome, though. He didn't upload it/do what he did there to impress chicks, but to get views, popularity and because it's hilarious. I'm under the impression that a lot of people here don't like him or his company and I partly get that but his way of having fun in the game and his self-irony/self-amusement should be given credit. Nothing wrong with being the rock if that fits your personality/current mood. But when I'm the clown (which is most of the time), I do it for me because it's fun. That's the way he does it too and the only way that brings consistent results wihout getting burned out "being fun".
And you can be a grounded clown. A "rock-clown". Many people do it, including him and me.

Other than that I like the post.

[Carboneraser]

What's the name of the video? Must not have seen it

[Doc Rock]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDy08-RphI8

[RIslander]

I wouldn't want to hang out with this guy, as he definitely is a douche, but I certainly wouldn't shut him down for gaming chicks. You gotta do whatever works for you.