Online game was easier even 2 years ago, anyone knows this, or should.
The ratios have never been good online, but they've only gotten worse given the commonality of online dating and how Tinder made it "normal". Tinder allowed for every woman on facebook who is above a 5 on the looks scale to introduce random orbiters she didn't have before it.
Of course, women only seem to get fatter in the US, so there's another problem.
We've reached a point where I'd argue the majority of women are using online dating in any form as daily diversion. Basically collecting cans in the form of orbiters.
Which leads to the original point I wanted to make. You essentially have to "neg" as they called it in the old-school PUA says in your initial message.
A simple straightforward hello with a short message isn't as efficient anymore.
Example: Those of you in Tier 2 or 3 cities probably see this a lot.
I've lived in both, people in Tier 2 or 3 cities are way more fanatical than Tier 1 for the most part. On most profiles, you'll see women on there usually make some mention of their local art gallery, local farmers market, basically anything local and they'll sound legitimately impressed by it.
Instead of saying hi in a normal way, you have a much better chance of getting a reply using:
So are you one of those people who thinks Denver is basically New York or LA?
Some will laugh, some will get mad and instantly block you, but it will typically get a reply. It only works in Tier 2 & Tier 3 cities. A Tier 1 city there is no point, anything below Tier 3 they won't care, maybe a few college towns being the rare exception.
This is obviously a broad example, but I've noticed it's almost required these days. It's one that you see time & time again so I thought it would be a good one to use.
Anyone else seen this shift online?
The ratios have never been good online, but they've only gotten worse given the commonality of online dating and how Tinder made it "normal". Tinder allowed for every woman on facebook who is above a 5 on the looks scale to introduce random orbiters she didn't have before it.
Of course, women only seem to get fatter in the US, so there's another problem.
We've reached a point where I'd argue the majority of women are using online dating in any form as daily diversion. Basically collecting cans in the form of orbiters.
Which leads to the original point I wanted to make. You essentially have to "neg" as they called it in the old-school PUA says in your initial message.
A simple straightforward hello with a short message isn't as efficient anymore.
Example: Those of you in Tier 2 or 3 cities probably see this a lot.
I've lived in both, people in Tier 2 or 3 cities are way more fanatical than Tier 1 for the most part. On most profiles, you'll see women on there usually make some mention of their local art gallery, local farmers market, basically anything local and they'll sound legitimately impressed by it.
Instead of saying hi in a normal way, you have a much better chance of getting a reply using:
So are you one of those people who thinks Denver is basically New York or LA?
Some will laugh, some will get mad and instantly block you, but it will typically get a reply. It only works in Tier 2 & Tier 3 cities. A Tier 1 city there is no point, anything below Tier 3 they won't care, maybe a few college towns being the rare exception.
This is obviously a broad example, but I've noticed it's almost required these days. It's one that you see time & time again so I thought it would be a good one to use.
Anyone else seen this shift online?
