[X88B88]

Well, in order to play the game, you gotta put coins in the machine. It's time I did this.

23, virgin, never had any GFs and very disillusioned with women. I'm also pretty ugly, probably a 2/10 or 3/10 if we're being generous. On the plus side, I've had a ton of interesting experiences and the rest of my life is pretty awesome. Let's see where the red pill takes me.

I'll try to update this once a week as I can only go out on the weekends. Wish me luck!

P.S. If anyone is in Seattle and is down to meet up, PM me.

[CH-Toronto]

(03-05-2015 09:27 PM)X88B88 Wrote:  

I'm also pretty ugly, probably a 2/10 or 3/10 if we're being generous.

This is some pretty terrible attitude. Work on that first. I've never had a good night where I started off saying, "Well, I look like shit today, time to find some girls." Is it your appearance, weight? The only way someone can be a real 2/10 is some kind of physical abnormality - everything can more or less be fixed. (Skin, shave, lose weight etc)

[X88B88]

I have a skin disorder that I've been trying to fix for years by going to various dermatologists. My last one told me that it's unfortunately a genetic thing and I just got really bad luck.

Plus on top of that, I'm quite underweight. I've been trying to change this by eating differently and working out for about half a year now, but haven't gained any weight even though I can do a lot more physically now than I could previously.

I'd say that's a winning combination, no? Certain things aren't going to change. What can change is my attitude, confidence, and the actions I take to get what I want.

[CH-Toronto]

Damn, now I feel like a dick. Well, your mind seems to be in the right place at least.

[Saladin]

(03-05-2015 11:31 PM)X88B88 Wrote:  

I have a skin disorder that I've been trying to fix for years by going to various dermatologists. My last one told me that it's unfortunately a genetic thing and I just got really bad luck.

Plus on top of that, I'm quite underweight. I've been trying to change this by eating differently and working out for about half a year now, but haven't gained any weight even though I can do a lot more physically now than I could previously.

I'd say that's a winning combination, no? Certain things aren't going to change. What can change is my attitude, confidence, and the actions I take to get what I want.

Check out the weightlifting section.

How many calories are you eating every day? Amount of Protein, carbs, etc? Start figuring that out.

It may be that you are overestimating how bad the skin condition is. A lot of people get crazy complexes about their looks. If you want you can PM or another senior member a picture and we can give you our honest opinion.

There are plenty of guys with bad skin who get girls.

[X88B88]

Went to a mixer at a bar today.

Approach 1
Cute black chick 6/10. We hit it off well for 20-30 minutes but she blew me off by asking that I get a drink. I went to the bar, came back and she was gone.

Approach 2
Asian chick 5/10. She approached me, but was clearly disinterested the whole time. Super boring, next.

Approach 3
Asian chick 4/10. Chubby but very enthusiastic and always smiling. Pleasant to talk to but not interesting in banging.

Postmortem: Should've asked the first girl for her #, and within 10-15 min of the convo. 95% sure it would've worked. I should also probably lower my standards especially because I'm a beginner.

[Rawmeo]

That's a beginning, keep us updated.

If you consider yourself a 3/10, lift some heavy weights and work on it, it can be fixed.