I'm currently in grad school and have to teach a lab session to pre-meds and the prof and head TA suggested that I grade harshly/strictly, especially at the beginning. I have tried to follow their advice and sure to inform the students that I was advised to grade harshly and that the avg score was low. However, a couple of students have already complained to me and to the head TA last week
I had to give out feedback forms to the classes this week and I just looked over some of the feedback forms. I got lots of nasty comments from students saying things like I seem too unapproachable, unfriendly/mean (that's because I want them to think independently ), grading too harshly, I should remove the quizzes (I can't, the prof and head TA made it a rule that I give out quizzes every class), quizzes are too hard and have questions that aren't relevant (that is BS.. I tend to ask questions where they have to know the procedure to get them to read the book carefully before the lab). From my work experience, I've learned that coworkers don't want to be bothered with questions unless you at least make an attempt to answer it first. They will get irritated otherwise.
I'm concerned that the prof/head TA will force me to change my ways just to give in to the demands of these brats, especially since the class is mostly females and they probably especially dislike me for personal reasons. Is there anything I can do to defend myself if the prof blames me or in case students complain about me in the future? I personally do not want to give in to the demands of these whiny cunts and dumb down the class for them
I had to give out feedback forms to the classes this week and I just looked over some of the feedback forms. I got lots of nasty comments from students saying things like I seem too unapproachable, unfriendly/mean (that's because I want them to think independently ), grading too harshly, I should remove the quizzes (I can't, the prof and head TA made it a rule that I give out quizzes every class), quizzes are too hard and have questions that aren't relevant (that is BS.. I tend to ask questions where they have to know the procedure to get them to read the book carefully before the lab). From my work experience, I've learned that coworkers don't want to be bothered with questions unless you at least make an attempt to answer it first. They will get irritated otherwise.
I'm concerned that the prof/head TA will force me to change my ways just to give in to the demands of these brats, especially since the class is mostly females and they probably especially dislike me for personal reasons. Is there anything I can do to defend myself if the prof blames me or in case students complain about me in the future? I personally do not want to give in to the demands of these whiny cunts and dumb down the class for them