[jerome]

(10-07-2012 01:12 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

Man where are all the dudes here meeting 8.5s. Must be some kind of poosy paradise I don't know about.

its call a gym, grocery store, walgreen, cvs etc...its hit and miss. it takes me about every 3 months to get a date with a girl of that caliber....point of the story...no hot girl is above my self respect...I will just have to wait another 3 months.

[saturn]

(10-07-2012 01:48 AM)jerome Wrote:  

(10-07-2012 01:12 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

Man where are all the dudes here meeting 8.5s. Must be some kind of poosy paradise I don't know about.

its call a gym, grocery store, walgreen, cvs etc...its hit and miss. it takes me about every 3 months to get a date with a girl of that caliber....point of the story...no hot girl is above my self respect...I will just have to wait another 3 months.

Mate you are not losing your self respect by letting it slide and keeping in the game.

Calling chics out on shit before you have banged them is a waste of energy

You have met an 8.5 got the date etc, the hard work is done, 3 months as you say, in this situation the answer is to be cool, be more chilled about this sort of thing, women are flakey, its part of the game. Move on to the next but keep this one on the backburner, thats how you get even, not by calling her out, it makes you look very un cool, next time try the alternative method, see how it works out.

[8ball]

So...if a good part of you feels she's flaking, and if the flaking is last minute (a few hours before) and you got time on your hands, do the following. Send a text saying "no prob...some other time. Enjoy"
Be cool, chilled and relaxed. After a few days, send her a date request she would not normally say no to...dinner if you have to or whatever she's into.
Two options here to get your revenge and manhood back. Stand her up sending her a text when she's at the place where the encounter is supposed to have happened "Sorry, got tied up...blah blah blah"

Or, my fave, show up, be nice, cool and turn the tables completely by either leaving (bathroom escape) or making her pay for everything and hitting a strip club later. This does not appeal to everyone. Personally I love challenging situations.

Either way, she'll think twice before flaking again!

[FretDancer]

Quote:

Calling chics out on shit before you have banged them is a waste of energy

Pretty much this.

[3rdmilleniummen]

Reading about this yesterday began me thinking about how best to respond to this... and I came up with:

FLAKE ON WOMEN WEEK.

It's time to right the wrongs and turn the balance back in our favour men.

http://wp.me/p2yYnq-qm

[Mr.Wynn]

I've done this in the past. Whenever you respond to a woman flaking with negative energy it's ironically just giving her satisfaction in knowing that you wanted her bad enough that you were emotionally affected. If I get flaked on these days I just won't respond. Gives her the impression "damn I guess he doesn't even care" & she might take you more seriously because she'll start to think if he doesn't care about me flaking he probably has other women on his team that are just or even better looking then I am. This will give you a DHV & make you seem like more of a challenge after a few days. If she hits you up a few days later respond as if nothing ever happened

[rationalize_this]

(10-07-2012 11:22 PM)3rdmilleniummen Wrote:  

Reading about this yesterday began me thinking about how best to respond to this... and I came up with:

FLAKE ON WOMEN WEEK.

It's time to right the wrongs and turn the balance back in our favour men.

http://wp.me/p2yYnq-qm

You shouldn't be trying to actively flake on women. You should be approaching and number closing that many women that you simply can't keep track of all of them. Your flaking is simply a result of having multiple options. You have a date with a 7.5 blonde american girl that night? But you met a Polish 8.5 at the coffee shop and she wants to hang out. FLAKE. That simple. Otherwise I see it as counterproductive to getting laid. Unless the girl is that big of an American cunt that you flaking actually gets the pussy tingling. Sad but true what this culture has amounted to.

[Parlay44]

After the bang I'm much more forgiving. If she apologized profusely and offered to reschedule I'd let it slide. Otherwise I'd delete her number and not even reply.

[20th Level]

You're doing it wrong op. This is chess man, not checkers. Do you get mad when somebody takes your bishop at chess or do you start thinking about your next move?

Your first mistake was repeatedly texting her to confirm. That shit is needy as hell..simply awful game. Secondly unless you have a CLEAR way to overcome her reason for flaking you should NEVER text a chick back that same day. Let that shit stew and see if she folds. It's been known to happen.

[TheHammer]

Okay so the girl flakes. But this is a girl who you're already banging and have in your rotation. Do you drop her from your rotation or keep her around thinking this is an isolated incident?

[aphelion]

You done fucked up sir.

I hate getting flaked on, but gotta charge it to the game and let it go. You called her out, and now she's glad she flaked on you because she thought you were cool but now she found out that really you were just an asshole faking being nice.

[aphelion]

Her inner dialogue will probably throw a 'creepy' in there for good measure.

[Thesoloist]

I Know this an old thread but I recently had this happen to me. The bizarre part is the girl was texting me literally before the date saying she was gonna be late then boom nothing.

In the past I woulda did what Op did as a way to preserve my pride and frail ego. However now I just delete the number and move on, if a chick flakes reprimanding does not work unless it's a chick you've been banging for awhile/girlfriend etc. But if it's a chick you just met via online or in person doing this makes you come of as insecure/needy and as said before will justify her behavior to herself.

My motto is

"There is always another chick like her or even hotter"

[Dalaran1991]

I think expecting a girl to not flake is like expecting a snake to not bite you. Yes there are pro/naturals whom the snake would curl up next to being a cute little snaky. But most other people would get a spit of venom where they least expect it.

Calling girls out on flake is stupid. Why are you wasting even more time on a worthless prospect? Way I see it, if you call her out your chance goes from something to zero. If you play it cool your chance is still low but it's not null yet.

If you have to call girls out to feel satisfied, then flake is not your biggest problem man...

[Cheetah]

I think that you should differentiate on when the girl lets you know about the flake.

If she does so a day before you have time to reschedule, if she flakes an hour before the meet up then you probably don't need to go there unnecessarily. But a girl who lets you know at or after the supposed time to meet or maybe not say anything at all is poor. If she doesn't want to meet up anymore then she doesn't, while it's just bad behaviour to let the other person 'meet up' unnecessarily.

Fortunately it doesn't happen to me often but once I had a girl who just said nothing and didn't show. I texted her that I hope that she had a good explanation because if she doesn't want to meet up, that's fine, while not letting you know is shitty. Perhaps this was needy, perhaps she had blocked my texts anyway, but refraining from spending 10 seconds on a cancel text to prevent someone spending maybe 20 minutes for nothing, I think that is appropriate to call out.