I opened up a cute girl at a bar a few weeks ago around closing time. Turned out she's Brazilian which is a great in for me since I've been to Brazil, speak a tiny bit of Portuguese and Brazilians tend to love men with blond hair.
Couldn't get her to come home with me at that moment, so I just got the # and ejected. Following Friday I meet her for drinks, and it's going really well. She invites me to a party that some of her Brazilian friends are throwing. Cue dancing, kino, meeting her friends, drinking, bla bla bla. Convince her to come home with me with her saying the whole time on the subway that she's not going to have sex with me, and at the same time I'm thinking "sure, yeah right."
But she made good on her promise and didn't put out, and besides some light hands stuff I couldn't get her to do anything else. I was fine with that, because I thought that the 1st meet went well enough that she'd hop straight on my dick the next time.
So I invite her over to watch a movie for the second date, and this time she emphatically says her clothes will be staying on the whole time. I say sure, whatever that's fine, but in the back of my mind I wasn't expected this much resistance. I try to get her more in to it but she's not allowing me to take off her clothes or put hands up shirt or down pants. She then decides to go home after the movie ends, which to me at that time was a clear indicator of disinterest since she'd rather ride the subway at 12:30 AM (She lives about 45 minutes away) then spend the night. Decided I wasn't going to text her again and pursue other leads.
Then, to my surprise, she drunk texts me the following Friday while I'm out with friends and she ends up meeting me at my place at 3:30 in the morning. I think it's finally on. But this encounter went very much like the first: just a lot of heavy petting, no sex, no bj. I was really just confused why she would be constantly putting herself in situations where she knew I'd try to have sex with her even though she didn't want to put out.
Anyways, we're talking the next morning and it turns out she's a virgin which makes her prior behavior make a little more sense. Is this worth my time? I don't care about the number of past partners a girl has had as much as other members of RVF, in fact it was a little disheartening when I found out she was a virgin since I realized it would be an uphill battle to get her to put out.
Couldn't get her to come home with me at that moment, so I just got the # and ejected. Following Friday I meet her for drinks, and it's going really well. She invites me to a party that some of her Brazilian friends are throwing. Cue dancing, kino, meeting her friends, drinking, bla bla bla. Convince her to come home with me with her saying the whole time on the subway that she's not going to have sex with me, and at the same time I'm thinking "sure, yeah right."
But she made good on her promise and didn't put out, and besides some light hands stuff I couldn't get her to do anything else. I was fine with that, because I thought that the 1st meet went well enough that she'd hop straight on my dick the next time.
So I invite her over to watch a movie for the second date, and this time she emphatically says her clothes will be staying on the whole time. I say sure, whatever that's fine, but in the back of my mind I wasn't expected this much resistance. I try to get her more in to it but she's not allowing me to take off her clothes or put hands up shirt or down pants. She then decides to go home after the movie ends, which to me at that time was a clear indicator of disinterest since she'd rather ride the subway at 12:30 AM (She lives about 45 minutes away) then spend the night. Decided I wasn't going to text her again and pursue other leads.
Then, to my surprise, she drunk texts me the following Friday while I'm out with friends and she ends up meeting me at my place at 3:30 in the morning. I think it's finally on. But this encounter went very much like the first: just a lot of heavy petting, no sex, no bj. I was really just confused why she would be constantly putting herself in situations where she knew I'd try to have sex with her even though she didn't want to put out.
Anyways, we're talking the next morning and it turns out she's a virgin which makes her prior behavior make a little more sense. Is this worth my time? I don't care about the number of past partners a girl has had as much as other members of RVF, in fact it was a little disheartening when I found out she was a virgin since I realized it would be an uphill battle to get her to put out.