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When approaching just doesn't work
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When approaching just doesn't work

I'm in a small citiy with town mentality, at first i've been seriously approaching about 5 girls at day. but i got tired because girls have horrible attitudes, most blow me away as if i was insulting them. Is the first time i experienced such a bad environment. And believe me, don't tell me i have to try more or with more confidence, i don't deny the results that game have brought me in other places. But here i tried a lot of times, really, a lot. If i have approached so many girls in home like i have done it here i would have an harem already.

I guess it is because men here approach a lot (AKA fucking thirsty) and girls at the same time don't want to act easy due a lot of people know them and can tell them parents, my ex-girlfriend tells me she is approached everyday she walks alone the streets. The other night i walked grabbing my ex-girl hand during one entire afternoon, she didn't recieved any compliment when i was with her. I left her in one street because we were going different ways, as soon as she left and was somewhat far away, i could see a guy approaching her. She told me that she was catcalled a couple of times that same day too. She even told me the guy in the store we go sometimes and the neighborhood (both who have seen me with her) try to flirt with her when not accompanied.

At night i got some makeouts or numbers, but i just don't want to spend more money competing with thirsty man for women who in majority are not even DTF and are not very into dating non locals, and why they should? they get offered sex everytime, they know they can get it high quality dick when they want to.

I've managed to get a couple of relationships in the month and half that i have been here. Two of them foreigners who i just had luck to be spending too much time with.

As i have just breakup with my girl (because she is leaving the city) i don't know what to do, i will have to spend a couple of months in this place, and the ammount of effort to get a girl seems to be ridiculous. Should i just say fuck it and start to get serious to get more money and save until i leave to a place with better ROI? What you guys do in similar situations?
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#2

When approaching just doesn't work

Are you in the states? or somewhere else?

1) work on your cold approach game
2) work on your appearance
3) there's always the internet
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#3

When approaching just doesn't work

My Ex , told me the same thing. Some of her old acquaintances would give me a head nod but not so much as a hello to my ex while I was present. When I wasn't around , is when these hyenas would take approach.
I approach whenever, I've had a muscle head guy ready to take my head off because I apparently was chatting it up with his ex.
I got her number. He did nothing.

BACK ON TOPIC...

I'm not an approach machine so to speak like, WIA or Gio, However keep in mind that there is a method to every madness.

Are you fairly new to Game/ Red pill? If so, Have you been following the Roosh Program? Using it to learn from your mistakes every 100 approaches or so?
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When approaching just doesn't work

I was ranting by an strong row of rejections. I appreciate your advice, but i have at least surpassed the 500 approaches in different cities and had a lot of experiences, believe me i'm a decently handsome guy. I don't really think more theory would help me.

It's just the way it is, i feel powerless as is like i can't do anything more. Two months ago i was in a huge city and got about three dates a week, now i'm not getting anything but bitch atittudes.

The difference is that in the city i was before, guys just don't even approach, girls get flushed when approached and felt free to go out in a city where they just can be anonymous. Here i guess the girls feel about guys asking them to go out like when i walk and beggars and asking me money all the fucking day, at first i can get compasionated, but then there is a point when i don't even look at them and just feel complete repulsion.

The other day i went out with a girl i took her hand and she was looking aware of find any acquaintance that could judge her. I need to get the hell out of here, but i need to save money, and i'm fucking depressed while doing it.

I have talked to some cool guys here that i have seen talking to a lot of girls, they told me when they get lucky with a girl they stick to them for a long time, they frequent prostitutes frequently. I'm talking about guys with 16-17 y/o.. more mature guys that i have seen who are into game are not so happy with the local girls either.
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When approaching just doesn't work

- Why are you in the current situation? (small town)?
- How long before you can go back to a bigger city?


Quote: (02-27-2015 04:17 PM)Dat ass Wrote:  

I was ranting by an strong row of rejections. I appreciate your advice, but i have at least surpassed the 500 approaches in different cities and had a lot of experiences, believe me i'm a decently handsome guy. I don't really think more theory would help me.

It's just the way it is, i feel powerless as is like i can't do anything more. Two months ago i was in a huge city and got about three dates a week, now i'm not getting anything but bitch atittudes.

The difference is that in the city i was before, guys just don't even approach, girls get flushed when approached and felt free to go out in a city where they just can be anonymous. Here i guess the girls feel about guys asking them to go out like when i walk and beggars and asking me money all the fucking day, at first i can get compasionated, but then there is a point when i don't even look at them and just feel complete repulsion.

The other day i went out with a girl i took her hand and she was looking aware of find any acquaintance that could judge her. I need to get the hell out of here, but i need to save money, and i'm fucking depressed while doing it.

I have talked to some cool guys here that i have seen talking to a lot of girls, they told me when they get lucky with a girl they stick to them for a long time, they frequent prostitutes frequently. I'm talking about guys with 16-17 y/o.. more mature guys that i have seen who are into game are not so happy with the local girls either.
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