[txbeachbum]

http://www.businessinsider.com/beauty-st...RmvRoUjAPm

[Aliblahba]

One man's trash is another man's treasure.

[txbeachbum]

Anyone want some Shengnu.. I know a place.

[bacon]

Video in the OP link basically says that "The Ugly Woman Is A Treasure At Home " because she is a functional wife who is more likely to accept the role of wife and take care of the kids, elderly parents etc and is less of a liability than a beautiful wife who might be more demanding about wanting resources or be more likely to be wooed away by other men. The video also stated this advice is for common men not rich guys who are able to take the liability of a beautiful wife.

[TheWastelander]

Pretty sure a cat named Jimmy Soul sung about this way back in 1963.

[Mr. Wolf]

I love how the woman being interviewed laughs at the fact that both men and women in China "believe" that a woman unmarried at 27 is a leftover. Laugh all you want honey, it's true there, and it's true here.

Women in China seem to be much smarter about marriage than women here in the U.S., given that 80% of Chinese women lock down a man by age 25. I don't have the data, but I'd bet that there is also a larger age difference between the spouses in China. That alone leads to a more stable marriage. About a 10-year difference seems ideal, so that SMV values track more equitably over time.

Also, who is the target market for this "Business Insider"? The combination of relentless uptalk and idiotic graphics putting up a key phrase every few seconds in the left half of the screen makes this seem like something targeted to 5-year-olds. Ugh.

[txbeachbum]

(02-18-2015 10:26 AM)TheWastelander Wrote:  

Pretty sure a cat named Jimmy Soul sung about this way back in 1963.

Good find!! That's probably what inspired this old school rap.

[ManVsMachine]

at one point in my college career I tried to date a girl lower than normal in looks expecting her to be a much more pleasant girlfriend.



all it did was buy me 3 more months of pleasant-ness before she became just as insufferable as the rest.

[TravelerKai]

The Chinese also have another saying or phrase that translates to "Good enough wife".

Basically it means get one that is not too pretty, low maintenance enough, not cause loss of face, and won't be too loud or cause trouble.

Then they go out and get an er nai or xiaosan that is hot or wild.

Used to confuse me for a while until I realized they just supplement it with side pussy.

[pheonix500000]

(02-18-2015 11:39 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

The Chinese also have another saying or phrase that translates to "Good enough wife".

Basically it means get one that is not too pretty, low maintenance enough, not cause loss of face, and won't be too loud or cause trouble.

Then they go out and get an er nai or xiaosan that is hot or wild.

Used to confuse me for a while until I realized they just supplement it with side pussy.

Oh ok, that makes a lot more sense

[Old Fritz]

Are Chinese women generally more loyal in relationships?

[getdownonit]

Good luck with that

[OBJ Snakebite]

(02-18-2015 11:39 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

er nai or xiaosan

I think glossary is required for this post. Can we please get a translation?
The rest made sense.

[iknowexactly]

(02-18-2015 10:36 AM)Mr. Wolf Wrote:  

...I'd bet that there is also a larger age difference between the spouses in China. That alone leads to a more stable marriage. About a 10-year difference seems ideal, so that SMV values track more equitably over time.

Heh heh. Bet you'll be singing a different tune about age diff when you're over 50.

[TravelerKai]

(02-18-2015 05:20 PM)OBJ Snakebite Wrote:  

(02-18-2015 11:39 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

er nai or xiaosan

I think glossary is required for this post. Can we please get a translation?
The rest made sense.

From my datasheet thread:

Quote:

Xiaojie = Prostitute. Literally means Little Miss, in English. Never ever call a woman xiaojie + <their last name> as if you in the West. You would get slapped or worse.

Er nai = Second wife. Er means two, nai means wife. Basically a mistress. fairly common thing in China for Chinese men of means or affluence. Sometimes the wife knows much about the other, more often they do not. The Chinese man is not going to ever divorce the first wife to go be with the second, so sometimes an er nai is not a serious threat to their social/economic standing.

Xiaosan = Literally means 3rd wheel. Usually a younger woman a Chinese guy is fucking and the younger girl is trying to steal the man from the wife. The xiaosan usually refuses to share the man and wants him all to herself and will demand money, time, cars, house, a baby, his salary, etc. Xiaosan's can be little tigers quite often being very high maintenance. Sometimes they are just a quiet alternative from a bitchy tiger wife, the man refuses to spend anymore time with. Anytime you see women fighting in public in melees of 2-10 women, 9 times out of 10 it is a xiaosan situation and the other times an ernai. It is common to see wives beating the shit out of a xiaosan with a gang of her friends/sisters, from time to time.

[Adam Bin Ballin]

(02-18-2015 12:07 PM)Old Fritz Wrote:  

Are Chinese women generally more loyal in relationships?

Don't think there any more loyal than any other women out there. I smashed Chinese girls that had boyfriends. Hoes will be hoes. No matter the ethnicity.

[GeroMeroHero]

(02-18-2015 12:07 PM)Old Fritz Wrote:  

Are Chinese women generally more loyal in relationships?

All of those Eurasian hate blogs dislike their mothers, basically calling them hypergamous and easy in the face of pale skin.
AWALT

[Travesty]

Lol ^ yes a Chinese girl for her first trip to the US cheated on her boyfriend and slept with me.

She literally worshipped my pasty white thighs after sex.

Finally a victory for us vampiric sun averse perverts!

[TravelerKai]

They are extremely loyal (towards or after a marriage only). Guys that are major upgrades that also have game, will always be an option for most of them. Chinese guys disqualify themselves all the time, pulling games like what I posted above or just being plain ol mean. Also, don't mistake an easy to cheat Chinese girl for being an actual good girl. Those are the actual loyal ones. A good high class one will not go down that easily over her current man unless he has not made any progress towards marriage or getting it set up, opposed to what you have to offer. Chinese are extremely practical. Talk is extremely cheap to them. Put up or shut up.

[CRR]

With the proliferation of feminism, women are practically encouraged to act however they want and demand that no one judge them for it.

Anyway, in my experience, there is absolutely no correlation between looks and behavior. Some of the biggest cunts that I've ever met were also fat and/or unattractive. Conversely, some of the best looking women were also the nicest.

[Old Fritz]

(02-19-2015 09:39 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

They are extremely loyal (towards or after a marriage only). Guys that are major upgrades that also have game, will always be an option for most of them. Chinese guys disqualify themselves all the time, pulling games like what I posted above or just being plain ol mean. Also, don't mistake an easy to cheat Chinese girl for being an actual good girl. Those are the actual loyal ones. A good high class one will not go down that easily over her current man unless he has not made any progress towards marriage or getting it set up, opposed to what you have to offer. Chinese are extremely practical. Talk is extremely cheap to them. Put up or shut up.

I don't understand the bold. How can an easy to cheat girl be loyal?

To be honest, Chinese women sound more like maneaters when you put it that way.

It's not like I have any desire to get married anyway. No problem for me.

[TravelerKai]

(02-19-2015 10:52 AM)Old Fritz Wrote:  

(02-19-2015 09:39 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

They are extremely loyal (towards or after a marriage only). Guys that are major upgrades that also have game, will always be an option for most of them. Chinese guys disqualify themselves all the time, pulling games like what I posted above or just being plain ol mean. Also, don't mistake an easy to cheat Chinese girl for being an actual good girl. Those are the actual loyal ones. A good high class one will not go down that easily over her current man unless he has not made any progress towards marriage or getting it set up, opposed to what you have to offer. Chinese are extremely practical. Talk is extremely cheap to them. Put up or shut up.

I don't understand the bold. How can an easy to cheat girl be loyal?

To be honest, Chinese women sound more like maneaters when you put it that way.

It's not like I have any desire to get married anyway. No problem for me.

You read it wrong. Girls that cheat easy for any dude that comes up to them is probably not a good girl. Good girls in a relationship might only jump ship if the dude is the equivalent of a unicorn 10 hottie jumped in your lap.

Read the good girl vs bad girl part in my dating guide to understand it better.