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Should i say sorry for cancelling
02-17-2015, 06:29 PM
3 weeks ago I cancelled on catching up with this girl. She changed her online photo this week which has sparked my interest so I want to ask her out again.
When i cancelled on her three weeks ago, my sms was 'sorry [name], i have to cancel tonight.' She didn't reply back so she might be annoyed with me. What should I say via sms? Should i say sorry for cancelling on her 3 weeks ago?
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Should i say sorry for cancelling
02-17-2015, 06:35 PM
Why apologize for something you already apologized over?
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Should i say sorry for cancelling
02-17-2015, 06:38 PM
I would apologize. You flaked on her man.
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Should i say sorry for cancelling
02-18-2015, 04:59 AM
Inverse question:
Girl cancels on you but gives you heads up ahead of time and a long text apologize. Do you reply to it with something like "ok another time then" or should you just go radio silence?
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Should i say sorry for cancelling
02-18-2015, 05:04 AM
Quote: (02-18-2015 04:59 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
Inverse question:
Girl cancels on you but gives you heads up ahead of time and a long text apologize. Do you reply to it with something like "ok another time then" or should you just go radio silence?
Surely one should try and reschedule there and then?
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02-18-2015, 05:09 AM
Quote: (02-18-2015 05:04 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:
Quote: (02-18-2015 04:59 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
Inverse question:
Girl cancels on you but gives you heads up ahead of time and a long text apologize. Do you reply to it with something like "ok another time then" or should you just go radio silence?
Surely one should try and reschedule there and then?
Im not sure. Trying to reschedule right then would feel too needy and eager. But if you say nothing she might think you get pissed off and thats also bad (unless she s already a lot into you), you wanna give off the impression that you are cool and even if she cancels you are still not a bit jaded.
Usually I dont reply to their sorry text but I would ask them out again in a week or so as if nothing ever happened, but cant say I have had great success with this
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Should i say sorry for cancelling
02-18-2015, 06:37 PM
Quote: (02-18-2015 05:09 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
Quote: (02-18-2015 05:04 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:
Quote: (02-18-2015 04:59 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
Inverse question:
Girl cancels on you but gives you heads up ahead of time and a long text apologize. Do you reply to it with something like "ok another time then" or should you just go radio silence?
Surely one should try and reschedule there and then?
Im not sure. Trying to reschedule right then would feel too needy and eager. But if you say nothing she might think you get pissed off and thats also bad (unless she s already a lot into you), you wanna give off the impression that you are cool and even if she cancels you are still not a bit jaded.
Usually I dont reply to their sorry text but I would ask them out again in a week or so as if nothing ever happened, but cant say I have had great success with this
I think you're over thinking things a little mate.
If it's a genuine cancellation, I don't think it comes across as anything other than normal to reschedule.
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Should i say sorry for cancelling
02-18-2015, 07:12 PM
Fuck apologizing for a canceled date. Just a quick "can't make it today" and then a reschedule. Only people I apologize to for missing an event would be in the professional world and in family matters.
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