I will try to keep this short. Was considering going out to on a speed dating event on Valentines night but I thought wtf, why should I pay $40 to be forced to speak to older women I have no interest in, and be limited to only 2-3 mins to speak to women I find -DO- find attractive.
I went out to a bar instead with some friends, talked to two girls, a brunette and blonde. I like the brunette more so got her number. The blonde one seemed a bit more flirty though.
We left the bar to go to another louder bar with a dancing area. My friends and I were dancing then the girls left. My friends said I should go with them, but I thought, would a forum member here follow a girl around like a desperate puppy? I stayed put but I wasn't sure if they were going to come back, but eventually they did. But this time the brunette brought back a stranger guy with them so I though, oh shit.
I turned my attention to the blonde and started dancing with her. We started making out (lasted for a whole song) and when I turned to see what the brunette was doing, she was kissing the other guy too so I thought, ah, forget about her and focus on the girl you're with.
Later on in the night, the blonde and I were talking and exchanged numbers and I walked the 2 girls home. They were hungry and wanted pizza (I hate it when you're walking home after a night out and someone wants food!)
We went and ordered a pizza. My plan was to maybe get a pizza to share with the blonde and we'd all go to her house then see what happens. I said to the blonde, oh we could share a pizza if you like, but she said "I don't share food". The brunette said to me "we should share one because I'm not really that hungry" so I said ok. My pizza was ready and the blonde girl ordered some garlic bread after her pizza was done so she still had some time to wait. She said to me and the brunette "you guys go on ahead, I just live across the road".
This is not what I wanted, but the brunette had already started leaving. I grab our pizza and walked her home. There was only platonic chat the whole walk home because I had not focussed on her much the rest of the night after I saw her with the other guy. Inside we had a few slices then I left.
What would you have done differently or better to end up back at the blonde's house? I fell at the last hurdle.
I went out to a bar instead with some friends, talked to two girls, a brunette and blonde. I like the brunette more so got her number. The blonde one seemed a bit more flirty though.
We left the bar to go to another louder bar with a dancing area. My friends and I were dancing then the girls left. My friends said I should go with them, but I thought, would a forum member here follow a girl around like a desperate puppy? I stayed put but I wasn't sure if they were going to come back, but eventually they did. But this time the brunette brought back a stranger guy with them so I though, oh shit.
I turned my attention to the blonde and started dancing with her. We started making out (lasted for a whole song) and when I turned to see what the brunette was doing, she was kissing the other guy too so I thought, ah, forget about her and focus on the girl you're with.
Later on in the night, the blonde and I were talking and exchanged numbers and I walked the 2 girls home. They were hungry and wanted pizza (I hate it when you're walking home after a night out and someone wants food!)
We went and ordered a pizza. My plan was to maybe get a pizza to share with the blonde and we'd all go to her house then see what happens. I said to the blonde, oh we could share a pizza if you like, but she said "I don't share food". The brunette said to me "we should share one because I'm not really that hungry" so I said ok. My pizza was ready and the blonde girl ordered some garlic bread after her pizza was done so she still had some time to wait. She said to me and the brunette "you guys go on ahead, I just live across the road".
This is not what I wanted, but the brunette had already started leaving. I grab our pizza and walked her home. There was only platonic chat the whole walk home because I had not focussed on her much the rest of the night after I saw her with the other guy. Inside we had a few slices then I left.
What would you have done differently or better to end up back at the blonde's house? I fell at the last hurdle.