Don't try to reform her, best "punishment" is to replace her with a newer model and turn off the money faucet
MDP
Quote: (02-17-2015 07:19 AM)magicone Wrote:
guys thank you for your advices, the man is in this relationship for 3 years because :
- most of the time the relationship is good
- she is hot, an 8, and she has a mental disorder which makes her act like 2-3 different personalities (the "bad" personalities take over only about 20% of the time)
- for the last 2 years, he constantly heard the same advice "next her" but the relationship has not changed, the man is ok with the relationship as it is, he can´t get a girl better than her anyway
The advice which I would like to find for him is for him to
1. have more options and more hot girls than just this one
2. keep her depending on him somehow
3. MAXIMIZE THE GOOD PERSONALITY that behaves caring and sweet (she is not responsible for having a mental disorder in the first place anyway)
Quote: (02-14-2015 12:19 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:
I would not try to take things back. Consider it a sunk cost and move on, and be smarter next time.