[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

Don't try to reform her, best "punishment" is to replace her with a newer model and turn off the money faucet

[MidWest]

This is a lesson I learned in my beta days. Don't buy expensive things only as long as you know she actually deserves it and gives something back in return. I'm not saying you should give money for some ass, but if you have been in a relationship its ok to give something every once in a while but make sure she treats you good.

Once you give someone a gift, say goodbye to it because most likely you aren't getting it back. That's like if someone gives me an iphone 6 and they want it back later because of an argument. Its not going to happen. A gift is a gift, and its hers not yours anymore.

Best thing you can do is admit you were wrong and move on to the next broad. Its that simple

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

The universal rule of thumb is the easier something is obtained, the less the appreciation for it will be

Sounds like the more you gave the more she resented you

[kaotic]

You don't. It's theirs and it's a lost cause trying to fight and get it back.

End the relationship immediately, let it ride, and pick up hotter and more respectful women.

[SexyMac]

Keep the things you bought and kick her out. You can ask for things back, but don't expect her to return things.

And, tell her "Don't touch that coat!".

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9dZW1C3neao

[magicone]

guys thank you for your advices, the man is in this relationship for 3 years because :

- most of the time the relationship is good
- she is hot, an 8, and she has a mental disorder which makes her act like 2-3 different personalities (the "bad" personalities take over only about 20% of the time)
- for the last 2 years, he constantly heard the same advice "next her" but the relationship has not changed, the man is ok with the relationship as it is, he can´t get a girl better than her anyway

The advice which I would like to find for him is for him to

1. have more options and more hot girls than just this one
2. keep her depending on him somehow
3. MAXIMIZE THE GOOD PERSONALITY that behaves caring and sweet (she is not responsible for having a mental disorder in the first place anyway)

[CJ_W]

(02-17-2015 07:19 AM)magicone Wrote:  

guys thank you for your advices, the man is in this relationship for 3 years because :

- most of the time the relationship is good
- she is hot, an 8, and she has a mental disorder which makes her act like 2-3 different personalities (the "bad" personalities take over only about 20% of the time)
- for the last 2 years, he constantly heard the same advice "next her" but the relationship has not changed, the man is ok with the relationship as it is, he can´t get a girl better than her anyway

The advice which I would like to find for him is for him to

1. have more options and more hot girls than just this one
2. keep her depending on him somehow
3. MAXIMIZE THE GOOD PERSONALITY that behaves caring and sweet (she is not responsible for having a mental disorder in the first place anyway)

At this point you sound like an IRT. All of this information we've given you and it sounds like you've just ignored it.

if this"man" isn't heeding your advice, stop giving him advice, leave him alone and let him figure it out for himself.

Whenever someone asks you for advice and you give it and he doesn't do it or gives excuses not to or straight up just blows you and the advice off, stop giving him advice, and never give him advice again.

If someone DIDN'T ask you for advice, DON'T GIVE THEM ADVICE. It will backfire 110% of the time

I'd take it one step further and start distancing myself from him, as he's eventually going to become more unhappy, angry and jealous of you as time goes on.

Meaning this will affect you negatively. So just stop.

This thread should be over and done with.

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(she is not responsible for having a mental disorder in the first place anyway)
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Neither is the man she's fucking.


With this kind of mind set you might as well just leave the forum. We don't really entertain "Captain save a ho" type people. You need to grab your balls and man the fk up.

[Geomann180]

Don't give out expensive gifts in the first place.

G

[worldtraveler3]

Why is he not leaving her?
If u are not happy then u should be stronger and find a way to kick her out.
Saying he can't get any better girls is is tan excuse.
Is he scared and pressured by her?

[Remington]

I only give a girl a gift when it is warranted. We had sex the first time: buy her a sandwich from a local shop. If she tongue kisses my shithole: buy her a couple rounds at the bar (and make sure she washes her mouth out).

Always have a reward system for your girls...been working out very well for me.

[Gmac]

(02-14-2015 12:19 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

I would not try to take things back. Consider it a sunk cost and move on, and be smarter next time.

This. More trouble than it's worth unless you can prove you own it or there are special circumstances (i.e. engagement ring).

[magicone]

He is not leaving her because he says things are the same for the last 3 years, things were always been the same, while he claims he gets good sex and he has a gf that everybody envies him for (she´s a hb8).

He is 45, she is 21 and she´s hot (and crazy).

As all of us we have been almost forcing him to "Next" her and he said that he can´t get another gf noweher as hot or as young as she is, I start to wonder why we are so obsessed about pushing him to "Next" her, if he is happy in this relationship the way it is, he just wants some "Moral advantage" over her, so that she behaves more sweetly to him... something like that...

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

Because of all those things you mentioned, he may not leave her but he will be best served reading threads like this:

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-30811....t=behavior

No matter how hot the woman is, she won't always be 21 and once the die is cast it's usually set

Would you rather trade your sanity for a chick that uses you like a personal ATM, disrespects you and treats you poorly just because she is 8+?

Some guys reading this may be silently nodding, but personally I'll pass on that...