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i always wondered how they get into their pants so fast.....
The only way to do this (in her pants in a couple of hours, especially with no alcohol involved and with girls that aren't complete hookers), consistently, is to be upfront about what you want sexually from her. Beating around the bush with indirect game will get you laid, but not as fast as direct game will in the situation that you are talking about. However, you will also get a lot more rejections with direct game. So, it takes balls and no fear of rejection. But in the end you will get more of those quick lays. And you'll be surprised at the number of girls that will look at you like your the type of guy they've been waiting for. Or who won't react to you initially, but then who will offer for you to come to her place at the end of the night. Many, many girls won't flinch. Many, many girls will smile when you say some direct sexual game to her. Many girls love it.
Case in point: I had some girl (a friend of a friend) a couple of months ago show some interest. When she did, I wasn't expecting it and we were in a crowded bar. I must have looked overly surprised, because I was (and she was my weakness-tall and a natural blond) and she promptly left and didn't show interest for the rest of the night (show how psychologically precarious attraction in these these women is- lose the frame even for a second and they are gone). So we're riding home in the car with my friends and I'm in the backseat with her. She's yammering on to my friends (a guy and a girl) in the front seat non-stop. Loud and continuous. I'm in the back seat just enjoying being a little drunk and not really listening to anyone. Suddenly, I feel the loss of power. Suddenly I care. I know that she's about to get dropped off and I'm about to lose a lay. Its not going to happen. So I say THE ONLY thing that will turn things around for me at that point. I say THE ONLY thing that will put the power back in my favor, and therefore spark attraction again. Remember, at this point she thinks that she has the sexual power, that I want her, was too afraid to make that clear, etc.. She thinks that Im like every other indirect nice guy out there...
So I say "You know, if we were to fuck, I would fuck you absolutely retarded..."
She doesn't respond or acknowledge much, just s slight turn of her head to indicate to me that she heard what I said. She keeps going on with her yammering to my friends. We get to her house, and she invites me up... Situation saved.
Direct gives you the power, and takes the power away from her. Sometimes its the only thing that will save a situation, especially if you didn't play it perfect from the beginning. Once the power is shifted and she thinks that you are a nice guy (imperfect indirect game / no game) then it can be your only saving grace. And its powerful. You don't need to be perfect with it. You just have to send the message that you will fuck her, aren't afraid to let her know, and don't care what her response is. And it works with quick same day lays. I GUARANTEE that your friend is using some version of direct game to get two hour lays consistently.
