[h3ltrsk3ltr]

(01-22-2015 05:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Rigid adherence to so called rules won't help a guy or his game. It's lockstep thinking that has most guys stuck.

WIA

^ fair. But you gotta know the rules before you can break 'em.

As a game novice, rules help me develop an understanding of what I'm doing and a method for evaluating my progress. I foresee more freedom of form in the future but as a beginner it helps to follow a method. Maybe you don't need that but if it was just as simple as "being yourself" than we wouldn't need game and this forum wouldn't exist, right?

[General Mayhem]

I think OP should go for it.

[MidWest]

(01-22-2015 05:19 PM)tylerdurden1993 Wrote:  

(01-22-2015 05:08 PM)MidWest Wrote:  

I used to bang my grandpa's wife. We never got emotionally attached, although I could sense she would get jealous when she saw me with other girls but she knew she couldn't because she was married.

Does that count?

How did you end up banging your grandpa's wife? Can you tell the whole story?

Well here's the deal, my grandpa was 76 when my grandmother passed away, and he didn't take the loss all that well. He felt lonely, depressed and just miserable. Out of sadness, many young maids took advantage of the situation and one in particular, which is the one I banged, offered to help around the house for "free". This chick is a 7 and was 21 years old with some big tits, and of course the old man was all over that. She would tease him too showing half her chest whenever she went to his house to "help out." Two years later they got married and obviously there was some resentment from the family because she obviously did it for the money and not because she "loved him" like she always claims. She was a straight up gold-digger.

So I would go over to their house all the time, and she liked me a lot. Treated me well, flirted with me, would talk with me long conversations. Every time I would go over she would dress up and invited me everywhere her and my grandpa went. This pissed off my gramps, and it got to the point where he would get jealous at his own grandsons, but she had him pussy-whipped and had him in check all the time. It was hard to resist at the end. It was just too easy. She would text me whenever he wasn't home or whatever. I had her whenever I wanted to and still do. Even if she is emotionally attached, she won't risk losing her comfortable lifestyle with my gramps. Win win for me.

I felt guilty at first, you know because he's my grandpa. But then I realized that he kind of asked for it in a way for marrying someone that young and knew she will cheat on him anyway. Besides he was always kind of a dick to me growing up. So there's that.

Sometimes I ask myself if what I did was fucked up. But it is what it is.

So there's my story.

[ryanf]

(01-22-2015 04:08 PM)Dom Filipe Wrote:  

Thanks guys, just wanted confirmation of what I thought.

(01-22-2015 10:05 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

"I could do with a girl that I can just relax, be myself, bang, and have fun with"

Basically even after all the time on this board, you still want to be a beta boyfriend. I'm not gonna go too far into this question, as I think other people will describe what needs to happen.

The interesting part is this two word phrase.

BE YOURSELF.

1) What does that mean?

And

2) what does that imply about the time you spend with other women?

Getting your mind around that question, will answer deeper questions about Game that I don't think you've asked yourself.

WIA

You are absolutely right. While I've been lurking in this board for quite sometime and know the theory, I'll admit I haven't practiced what is written. It's about time that I not only do some introspection, but that also to actually get in the trenches and apply the theory...

(01-22-2015 01:08 PM)robreke Wrote:  

The way I read this, it's as if you're saying you would be the emotionally attached one and you know she won't.

If I'm understanding you correctly, you need to adopt a 180 degree opposite mindset.

The man should always be the emotionally unavailable one until the girl shows that she is the available one and until she ASKS for commitment and exclusivity.

If you're agreeing to be emotionally available while she won't be....you're being the female in the relationship and she's playing the masculine part. Fuck that.

Be the immovable uncaring mountain and let her be the wind that whips around you and the seasons that change.

Until she pushes you for exclusivity and says she has feelings, you should adopt the attitude of a fun, cocky alpha male. Of course, you should always retain this mindset even after exclusivity.

Let the woman be the emotional one pushing for commitment always. Whatever you have to do to be emotionally unattached - do it. Work out. Spin plates ( the best way ), Always have cool stuff to do with friends, etc. Sounds like you also need to internalize a lot more red pill wisdom too.

If you don't follow this template, you're setting yourself up for potential emotional devastation when she leaves you because of your over-emotionalism and neediness. And leave you she will if you don't be the man in the relationship.

Unfortunately the red pill is still stuck in my throat; it is truly a bitter pill to swallow.
I'll just have to next her. Shame cause she is actually a damn cool chick.

Cheers guys

If you wish, but if someone is having a hard time coming to grips with how this shit works, I support them going through a rough breakup or hardship. The more you endure, the more you will come to realize how true it is. Very rarely, if ever, do you get a confirmation going in the opposite direction. So yeah, try it out, and when [not if] she breaks your heart, come back here and your training can begin.

[draketton]

don't try to fuck the girls you confide in

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(01-22-2015 05:49 PM)MidWest Wrote:  

Well here's the deal, my grandpa was 76 when my grandmother passed away, and he didn't take the loss all that well. He felt lonely, depressed and just miserable. Out of sadness, many young maids took advantage of the situation and one in particular, which is the one I banged, offered to help around the house for "free". This chick is a 7 and was 21 years old with some big tits, and of course the old man was all over that. She would tease him too showing half her chest whenever she went to his house to "help out." Two years later they got married and obviously there was some resentment from the family because she obviously did it for the money and not because she "loved him" like she always claims. She was a straight up gold-digger.

So I would go over to their house all the time, and she liked me a lot. Treated me well, flirted with me, would talk with me long conversations. Every time I would go over she would dress up and invited me everywhere her and my grandpa went. This pissed off my gramps, and it got to the point where he would get jealous at his own grandsons, but she had him pussy-whipped and had him in check all the time. It was hard to resist at the end. It was just too easy. She would text me whenever he wasn't home or whatever. I had her whenever I wanted to and still do. Even if she is emotionally attached, she won't risk losing her comfortable lifestyle with my gramps. Win win for me.

Well - 78 is pretty old to marry a 23yo - even if he was in excellent shape and had some high-class TRT taken it should have been suspected that she cheated.

It might have been easier and cheaper to keep a mistress than to marry a bird, but I guess she played him there.

At least it's in the family - you were unlikely the last there. Still a crazy story there. Your grandpa is still winning there to a degree banging a girl a quarter his age.

[AneroidOcean]

(01-22-2015 05:49 PM)MidWest Wrote:  

So there's my story.

I don't know whether to congratulate you or call you a horrible person.

I can just see it now when you and your grandpa have a blowout of some sort:

MidWest: Oh yeah grandpa? Well how does my dick taste when you're kissing your wife?

Grandpa: You shit! I'm writing you out of the will!

[h3ltrsk3ltr]

This thread got weird.

[rpg]

Never confide in a woman. Ever. Women can and will use anything against you for life if they feel like it. They don' t forgive either.
I really wish it were not true though. If I could make my wife a confidant I would. Never gonna happen.