as far as I can tell, you simply need to learn a couple of things through martial arts for it to be relevant to real life self-defense
1) how to throw a punch. not just the movement, but actually moving some physical object through space by force. punching bag is cool, a human face is better. makes you realize that the skull is fucking hard and painful, trains you to not fear hurting someone and how to not hurt yourself
2) how to take hits. no matter how perfect your fighting, if you've never actually taken a full hit it'll leave you bewildered, disordered and confused when you actually get hit for real. better start desentesizing yourself against that early on. also good just for the sheer realization that a punch doesn't actually hurt that much
3) how to deal with the adrenaline. your technique can be super perfect in theory, but once the adrenaline surges your mind numbs and your discipline goes out the window and you start randomly flailing around. if you've experienced the adrenaline surge in the past many times, you start to get accustomed to it. as far as I can tell, the ONLY way to get this realistic surge is to actually fight (sparring). at some point, your thought process will change from a chaotic emotional "that fucker just hit me! what the fuck?! how dare he?! I'm gonna fuck him up fuck!" to a more methodical "ok you got hit. look at him. what's his stance, what's he doing? jab or punch? are any friends of his around?"
4) how to fight on the floor. will do you 0 good if there are more than 1 person around, but gold against 1 opponent. or, at least it teaches you how to get off the ground again. most of the street fights end on the ground after about 20 seconds anyway
if you've learned these 4 components, you're basically ready for battle. if a martial arts of your choice doesn't teach you those, drop it and try another one. especially how to deal with getting punched and the adrenaline surge, these 2 things will turn you into a full on retard if you've never gotten accustomed to them
Quote: (01-17-2015 09:50 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
If somebody really wants to hurt you, it matters little what their skills level is. Ask a guard at a psych ward what a crazy frail woman who is trying to escape could do to you and herself, and you will know what I mean.
Your post is kinda pointless. So what's your alternative suggestion what one should do, simply not train any martial arts because it's all pointless in the end when someone wants to kill you or has a gun? Can't prepare for everything in life, but you can still give your best effort to prepare for most instances