Quote: (01-14-2015 03:56 PM)Enigma Wrote:
But aren't the manosphere's views on gender/sexuality simply the opposite of feminism's, i.e., gender is genetic and homosexuality is (at least partially) environmental?
At least that seems to be what Roosh is saying in the video, as he mentions "men are men, etc." but then that promoting gay lifestyles in the media leads to higher numbers of homosexuals.
In which case, the above argument would disprove both stances.
Roosh's point was that if gender and sexual orientation are social constructs, then it's insane to be telling kids to be homosexual.
If the message is that "it's okay to be gay" because some people are simply wired to be attracted to their own gender, then you are admitting that there are differences in brain wiring, and so the argument that male and female brains are the same is admitted to be wrong.
I think the manosphere's general position on both aspects is more in the middle, and this resonates strongly from my personal experience. I was raised to be pussified by a feminist mother. Over a very long time, I unlearned that programming and became true to my core self. I'm way more masculine than when I was 20.
Similarly, my attraction wiring was in place from as early as I can remember. I'm really open minded sexually, and people have asked me whether I have had sex with a man. No, and here's why not: I notice women everywhere. For example, I like running. If I see a woman runner, I'm instantaneously sizing her up for sex. I also observe her stride. I check out guys running, too. I look at their muscle definition, their body fat, their stride. I saw a really fast guy the other day, and I almost got in an accident, thinking, "Shit, I'd love to run like that!" I actually did wreck a car because of a pair of tits bouncing on the sidewalk. It's a fundamental difference in wiring. I sometimes tell people that if I could take a pill to make me gay, I probably would, because women can be such a pain in the ass. I couldn't be gay because I just don't like guys.
All that said, there seems to be a certain mix of attraction mechanisms in most people. Try this experiment: Go to a crowded place with a woman. Have her scan the guys for the most attractive. You do the same, trying to guess her choice. You will probably do better than chance. So the attraction wiring is there; it's just more fully formed on one side or the other.
The problem that the manosphere has with telling kids to be gay is it's unfair to kids, whose sexualities are far from mature, that they're this or that. Just like my feminist mother pussified me, and it took a long time to unlearn, kids shouldn't be groomed to be gay, because whatever portion of their sexuality that is gay can be over-developed. You risk encouraging the kid to adopt a sexuality that may very well not be honestly representative of his or her true nature.
Case in point is a shifting attitude toward transsexualism. While parts of society are embracing transsexualism, others are challenging the medical procedure of gender changing, having found that changing gender does not lead to greater quality of life. Some have discovered that, in some cases, transsexualism is actually autogynephilia, which is transferring arousal from the opposite sex to your own body. Honestly, I've felt "vagina envy": I look at a hot chick, she's wretchedly arousing and has such power, and part of me wants to be her. Of course, that would mean I would have to have sex with guys, which I try not to think about. But if you take some kid, sexless, longing for female contact, he goes into vagina envy, he tries on a pair of panties and gets excited by imagining how great it would be to be a chick and the subject of such desire, which he is not the recipient of in any way ... then he goes online and the social crusaders tell him he's tranny ... then he runs in front of a truck because his parents try to calm him down.
I think this gets at the heart of the manosphere's attitude toward sexual deviancy: It's fine to accept homosexuality's existence, but don't encourage it, because you are messing with people's heads.