[Lizard King]

(01-11-2015 10:42 PM)Shortest Straw Wrote:  

(01-11-2015 09:46 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  

An earlier poster's comment led me to YouTube to find her meltdown on Opie & Anthony.

I was not disappointed.

Wow. What a skank. I tell you, it's not just porn stars, or strippers ... ANY time a girl sells her sexuality, even if it's for attention, or drinks, or food ... a bit of her soul gets eaten away.

Absolutely true. Seen it proved so many times.

[Foolsgo1d]

(01-11-2015 04:12 PM)Neo Wrote:  

Don't think it's real, but still a lesson to be learned...

Aggressiveness is nearly always rewarded. If she's out on a date with you she's open to hooking up.

I find this mindset doesn't come naturally to most guys because of the pussifying influence of the culture. I see it over and over in several situations. Many times the way you play a sport or a game reflects your personality.

In BJJ, a lot of guys will play a more defensive sort of game and for the most part don't put enough pressure on their opponents.

In chess a lot of opponents just sit there and defend instead of counterattacking.

It's extremely common. I've had girls tell me they've gone on dates with guys and when they didn't try to fuck them they lost all interest.

The 'hard sell' (i.e. trying to bang her ASAP) should always be attempted first.

I had a job selling insurance when I was younger. When i started I was paired with the most aggressive guy in the office. Guy juiced and was huge. Jacked alpha male type. On appointments after our pitch he'd straight up tell the person to get their check book. At first I was taken aback, but he was one of the most successful guys in the office.

Not all guys who don't push to fuck a girl on a date are wimps or clueless in that regard.

I've done plenty of dates where the woman is either a total cunt, ugly, stupid or unappealing due to other factors.

Just because she has a vagina doesn't qualify her for sex with every guy.

[bacan]

Why are you guys all responding as if this is not totally fake? Seems too absurd to be true.

No guy who is capable of getting a famous porn star out on a date would make so many absurdly pathetic mistakes.

We are believing this because we want to. We know we'd all do better than he did so believing it is true makes us feel good.

Her or someone else maybe had a bad date recently but there is no way all this crap happened with one person on one date with her.

[StrikeBack]

She created a bigger fake loser than all the real ones (sorry OP) who subscribe to her mailing list to make them feel better. Gotta make the customers happy, massage their ego once in a while.

Seen this technique used a lot by women in entertainment.

[JJ Roberts]

(01-12-2015 05:21 AM)Lizard King Wrote:  

Wow. What a skank. I tell you, it's not just porn stars, or strippers ... ANY time a girl sells her sexuality, even if it's for attention, or drinks, or food ... a bit of her soul gets eaten away.

Hate to point out the obvious but sexual exclusivity sold in exchange for security is exactly what a marriage is.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

It's probably fake, but I would not discount any men out there behaving like that. Some men who rely strongly on their looks have incredibly bad Game and are making errors that would not be forgiven for 98% of men out there.

I have heard intelligent models (yes - there are a few) who said that going with some male models was like that. The guys coasted generally on their looks and were boring as hell.

Of course the article is designed that way that Mr. Average feels that he is such a stud - here is a very good-looking, tall guy with a high six-figure-job and he is going to be so much more of a man for this porn star. It's essentially a well written fantasy for Joe Average.

Her meltdown by the way is not remarkable - it actually made her more girly in that respect to me. Many porn stars are actually a hot commodity - some doing P4P or being requested on dates by billionaires and very wealthy or famous men. If they don't overdue her expiration date, a porn star can actually get a wealthy Beta to commit to her.

[LaidNYC]

A whore has problems on the commitment market. Who woulda thunk it!

[Duke Castile]

Let's assume its true for a moment; here's what I think happened.

The guy is charming and cool enough to get a girl that takes dick all day and night to be attracted enough to meet up.

That suggests to me decent game.

Then she shows up and everything is all of a sudden off.

She probably looks great in her photos but these chicks all look worn out in person.

I'm guessing he showed a photo of this girl to one of his buddies and he said "dude thats a porn star".

Not all guys want to bang a porn star.

Personally I find them to be gross by nature of what they do.

Anyway the guy shows up to the date maybe out of curiousity, maybe a little dash or horniness, whatever and then she gets there probably late as hell looking like a skank that stands out in an embarrassing way.

I'm imagining some gaudy dress or outfit with caked on makeup.

She doesn't seem too cultured or aware that his drink is actually a Gin and Tonic that the resto has made all fancy by putting in a few decorations.

Avoids speaking to her and looks on his phone because he just wants the date to be over with and midway he says "theres no way I'm paying for this things dinner".

The wrong salad comes and he is hungry but he doesnt want to stay the extra time it takes to send it back. Says he'll yelp about it. Meaning the restaurant review website yelp.com.

Shes too stupid to know what that is of course.

Bill comes and she makes a further scene drawing unwanted attention so he excuses himself.
She complains that he doesn't make a move and that's what this is really about; a normal guy that has a good job, dresses with pants that don't have rhinestones, and is decent looking is rejecting her.

Women can't stand rejection and don't know how to handle it.

So she fires off an email to her thirsty subscribers for the insta gratification to help her bruised ego a little.

[Neo]

(01-12-2015 07:06 AM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:  

Not all guys who don't push to fuck a girl on a date are wimps or clueless in that regard.

I've done plenty of dates where the woman is either a total cunt, ugly, stupid or unappealing due to other factors.

Just because she has a vagina doesn't qualify her for sex with every guy.

Yes, but if he's on a date with her I assume he screened for the unappealing stuff before.

If a girl's a cunt, ugly, or stupid why meet up with her to begin with? If it's online it's not that hard to tell a girls personality. It's possible for a girl to act like a sweetheart, but a bitch in person but that's rare. If she agrees to meet up, she's most likely down for something.

The cunt/bitch attitude is usually an act/shit test on her part especially with the hotter girls. I've had it happen to me many times, even while being setup by friends.

A friend of mine set me up with his girlfriends friend who was an 8. For the first ten minutes she barely made eye contact and kept arguing with me, acting like I just approached her as a stranger in a club. In my younger days I'd just say 'this girls a bitch' and leave it at that. But I was horny so I just had fun and tooled on her. Eventually that shit went right out the window, got her number, bang on the second date. We dated for a few months, had no problems with her during that time, broke it off cause she moved away.

There's a difference in my mind between genuine disrespect, and the 'Let me see if he puts me in my place before I spread my legs for him' attitude that some girls have.

[Duke Castile]

Neo you're forgetting that girls can seem sweet and nice online and then when they show up the saw "like" every other word, dress like trash, and do inconsiderate things that embarrass you.

[TheSlayer]

(01-12-2015 03:08 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

So she fires off an email to her thirsty subscribers for the insta gratification to help her bruised ego a little.

And this is what it's really about. You hit the nail on the head, Fisto.

Her inbox and twitter/social media accounts are probably full of thirsty subscribers writing to her saying, "What a loser that guy was", "I will take you out on a date", "I will treat you right" etc. etc. Bruised ego healed temporarily.

[Duke Castile]

(01-12-2015 05:52 PM)TheSlayer Wrote:  

(01-12-2015 03:08 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

So she fires off an email to her thirsty subscribers for the insta gratification to help her bruised ego a little.

And this is what it's really about. You hit the nail on the head, Fisto.

Her inbox and twitter/social media accounts are probably full of thirsty subscribers writing to her saying, "What a loser that guy was"

Yeah but they spell it "looser".

[bojangles]

Dating a pornstar does not appeal to me at all. the more a woman has sex, the more her beauty disappates.

[Foolsgo1d]

(01-12-2015 05:18 PM)Neo Wrote:  

(01-12-2015 07:06 AM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:  

Not all guys who don't push to fuck a girl on a date are wimps or clueless in that regard.

I've done plenty of dates where the woman is either a total cunt, ugly, stupid or unappealing due to other factors.

Just because she has a vagina doesn't qualify her for sex with every guy.

Yes, but if he's on a date with her I assume he screened for the unappealing stuff before.

If a girl's a cunt, ugly, or stupid why meet up with her to begin with? If it's online it's not that hard to tell a girls personality. It's possible for a girl to act like a sweetheart, but a bitch in person but that's rare. If she agrees to meet up, she's most likely down for something.

The cunt/bitch attitude is usually an act/shit test on her part especially with the hotter girls. I've had it happen to me many times, even while being setup by friends.

A friend of mine set me up with his girlfriends friend who was an 8. For the first ten minutes she barely made eye contact and kept arguing with me, acting like I just approached her as a stranger in a club. In my younger days I'd just say 'this girls a bitch' and leave it at that. But I was horny so I just had fun and tooled on her. Eventually that shit went right out the window, got her number, bang on the second date. We dated for a few months, had no problems with her during that time, broke it off cause she moved away.

There's a difference in my mind between genuine disrespect, and the 'Let me see if he puts me in my place before I spread my legs for him' attitude that some girls have.

I'm 30, I have better things to do than put up with a girls shit test just to have sex with her once and then put up with her for few more hours.

You're just reinforcing the type of girl who bitches and moans. Sure you got the notch but at what cost? If that was a guy talking shit do you think you would have stayed there and clowned him or left?

In a bar and club setting I would simply go find another girl who I don't need to argue with. Thats the best result I look for.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(01-13-2015 08:02 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

Dating a pornstar does not appeal to me at all. the more a woman has sex, the more her beauty disappates.

Most girls who do porn are so called one-and-dones or just make a 2-4 shoots. They leave the business relatively unharmed. The seasoned porn starlets in the West are too fucked up.

I talked with some friends on the topic and we realized that sometimes there was a huge-turnoff when you meet a girl who was riding the carousel hard. You feel this strange jaded energy of a girl who has bedded hundreds of men. It often leaves them damaged, though I would likely go for the bang anyway if she is hot. But I do have friends who refused very promiscuous pussy, because their dick simply did not want to go through with it.

A cute innocence coupled with a fundamentally strong sex-drive is so much more attractive to us men!

[Old Fritz]

(01-12-2015 07:06 AM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:  

(01-11-2015 04:12 PM)Neo Wrote:  

Don't think it's real, but still a lesson to be learned...

Aggressiveness is nearly always rewarded. If she's out on a date with you she's open to hooking up.

I find this mindset doesn't come naturally to most guys because of the pussifying influence of the culture. I see it over and over in several situations. Many times the way you play a sport or a game reflects your personality.

In BJJ, a lot of guys will play a more defensive sort of game and for the most part don't put enough pressure on their opponents.

In chess a lot of opponents just sit there and defend instead of counterattacking.

It's extremely common. I've had girls tell me they've gone on dates with guys and when they didn't try to fuck them they lost all interest.

The 'hard sell' (i.e. trying to bang her ASAP) should always be attempted first.

I had a job selling insurance when I was younger. When i started I was paired with the most aggressive guy in the office. Guy juiced and was huge. Jacked alpha male type. On appointments after our pitch he'd straight up tell the person to get their check book. At first I was taken aback, but he was one of the most successful guys in the office.

Not all guys who don't push to fuck a girl on a date are wimps or clueless in that regard.

I've done plenty of dates where the woman is either a total cunt, ugly, stupid or unappealing due to other factors.

Just because she has a vagina doesn't qualify her for sex with every guy.

^This. I've at times been deliberately oblivious to advances made from some girls because they were cunts in some way.

[Dalaran1991]

That email was later followed by how men today are plagued by products and an environment that reduce their testoterone, which cause them to act like the guy above.

So yeah, pretty obvious marketing ploy. Expect some testoterone products being advertised soon.

These marketers are getting smarter.

[richler]

The idea that "porn star" is a synonym for "hot woman" is a strange bit of recent decadence. Porn is to sex as McDonald's is to food. It's marginally satisfying garbage sold with a lot of noise and color. That girl is busted and warped; when she speaks, it is hard to listen because she is just so nakedly dim and damaged.

[Nascimento]

Interesting observations by Germanico and Fisto. You're POV's sound much more plausible.

On that note, I wonder what the girls we've turned down on dates have to say about us? If anything half as creative, should be quite entertaining.

[Rawmeo]

I agree with the fact that porn stars are damaged girls and should be taken with caution; but provided that what she said is true (because girls exaggerate a lot sometimes), then yes it is the omega of the year, right under the guy who married the UK jealous landwhale.

Dinner dates are no-no for first dates.
Shaking hands? That's for business contexts.
Drinking a daiquiri? Hmm...
Yelping but not telling the waiter...
Using smartphone on a date...

[Dalaran1991]

Got another email that pleasantly surprises me.

She is talking about ways to increase your testoterone levels. Of course she has some marketing at the end, but that's after giving the readers some pretty useful tips.

Nothing that we on RVF don't already know, but for most porn-addicted clueless betas out there, this could be helpful. Especially since it's coming from their favorite pornstar, it might actually motivate them to do something.

Here's the email:

Quote:

So yesterday I wrote to you about one of the biggest HIDDEN CAUSES of low sex drive and erectile difficulty in men today…

Low Testosterone.

It’s estimated to affect 1 in 4 American men…and that number climbs higher the older you get.

Due to so many factors in our environment over the past 30 or 40 years…things like toxic chemicals in plastics, for example…

It is a fact that the average 60 year old American male today has LOWER TESTOSTERONE than a 60 year old man of thirty years ago.

And testosterone, as you probably know…Is the hormone responsible for making you “manly!”

And when it’s low…It lowers your libido, gives you erection difficulty, fatigue, weight gain…Even depression!

However, you might never know that you suffer from low testosterone…

You may think your low energy, low libido, and difficulty getting or maintaining erections is just a normal part of getting older…

And unless your “T” levels are in the ABNORMALLY LOW range, you can’t get a prescription for the drugs that might boost it.

Yet many men in the “low normal” range suffer from many of these symptoms…Especially in their sex lives, due to low libido and weak erections.

But the truth is, you don’t have to accept feeling like less of a man anymore…

There IS something you can do about it…

And get back the healthy, INTENSE sex life you deserve…

WITHOUT using prescription drugs or illegal, unsafe steroids.

So here you are…

9 ways to NATURALLY BOOST YOUR TESTOSTERONE!

1. Lose Weight

Overweight men are much more likely to have low testosterone levels to begin with. Simply shedding excess pounds is proven to be one of the BEST ways to get your “T” levels ramping back up!

2. High Intensity Exercise

Short, super intense exercise sessions have been shown to increase your T levels and to prevent them from going back down. In comparison, exercises like aerobics or other moderate intensity exercises seem to have no effect….Or even the OPPOSITE effect on your T levels.

In addition, intermittent fasting (2 days a week) works in combination with this type of exercise to really drive up production of your manly hormones.

3. Consume Lots of Zinc

This mineral is extremely important for testosterone production, and research has shown that restricting dietary sources of zinc can significantly decrease your “T” levels. Taking a zinc supplement can help…But even better is eating foods naturally rich in this mineral, such as raw milk, beans, yogurt, and kefir.

4. Weight Training

This is one of the BEST natural ways to make your testosterone skyrocket…And with it, your sex life! When strength training for a “T” boost, the key is to increase the weight and lower your number of reps. You can also “turbo-charge” your workout by moving SLOWER….When you do this, you turn it into a high-intensity exercise…Which is #2 on this list, so you’ll be doubling the impact on your “T” levels!

5. Get More Sun

Yep…It turns out, Vitamin D (which you absorb through your skin from sunlight) is a steroid hormone, and getting more of it can help increase your testosterone levels. It can also help raise your sperm count and even make for thicker loads! Who knew that getting a tan could be so great for your sex life?

However, sunscreen can actually block Vitamin D from absorbing into your body. To avoid skin damage from the sun, be careful and don’t overdo it outside!

6. Reduce Stress

When you’re under a lot of stress, your body starts to release the hormone cortisol. And this “stress hormone” actually BLOCKS testosterone form working in your body! Some things I do to relax when I’m getting stressed out are: Yoga, meditation, a loooong bath….And, of course, LOTS of sex (And masturbation, too!) =)

If you’re having trouble with low libido, of course, you just might not be in the mood for sex. There are some great natural herbs that are proven to help jump start your sex drive….I’m finding some great research on these, and I’ll have more info on that for you soon!

That way, you can start having more sex….Lowering your stress levels and RAISING your “T” levels…So you can have MORE GREAT SEX!! =)

7. Limit or Eliminate Sugar From Your Diet

Your “T” levels actually go DOWN after you eat sugar, because sugar raises your insulin level and that is a big factor in low testosterone (If you suffer form diabetes, you’re VERY likely to have lower “T” levels as well)…So you’ll not only want to cut out most sweets or sugary sodas, but make sure you check the amount of sugar in your loaf of bread, too!

LOTS of processed foods these days come LOADED with TONS of extra sugar….Which is exactly why I try to eat only whole, organic foods whenever possible.

And cutting out that sugar is one way to help you LOSE WEIGHT…As you get slimmer and fitter, you’re DEFINITELY going to start feeling sexier and more confident….You’ll also notice your erections getting stronger, too!

8. Eat Healthy Fats

So…Did you know there are different types of fats? The ones you want to avoid are called Trans fats, which are found in lots of processed foods like doughnuts, microwave popcorn, potato chips, and candy bars…and which raise your bad cholesterol levels.

The ones you DO want to eat are mono- and polyunsaturated fats…Good sources of these are avocados (yum!) and nuts (also YUM!).

But for testosterone building, you also need to get lots of SATURATED FATS. Research has shown that a diet with less than 40% of energy as fat (and of those, mainly saturated fats from animal sources like meat, eggs, dairy) can lead to a decrease in “T” levels.

So go ahead…Eat that steak! Of course, be sure to check with your doctor or nutritionist if you have high cholesterol or heart problems…

9. Stop Using Plastic Water Bottles

As I mentioned in a previous email…Water bottles and other common plastics contain a chemical called BPA, which is basically a form of estrogen. It can leach into your water or food, and when it’s in your body, can raise your estrogen levels and lower your testosterone.

So you definitely want to avoid anything that contains BPAs….I refuse to use water bottles anymore, and you NEVER want to drink from a water bottle that’s been heated by the sun. Also, avoid microwaving things in plastic containers…This causes your food to soak up the BPAs like crazy!

The linings of food cans also contain BPAs…So try to eat fresh, healthy foods, and you’ll avoid your exposure to these Testosterone-sapping chemicals.

OK, well…There you go…

9 easy ways to raise you testosterone naturally…

And in the process, get your libido back to where it needs to be so you can start enjoying the wild, crazy sex life you SHOULD be having!

Remember, women are INSTINCTIVELY ATTRACTED to men with higher testosterone levels…

So not only will YOU feel like having more sex…And have the virility and strong erections you need to even BEGIN to satisfy a woman…

But the woman in your life will suddenly start feeling more attracted to you than ever…She won’t be able to keep her hands off you, because you’ll be emitting more of those “manly” pheromones!

And if you’re single…you’ll notice more women looking your way, and even approaching you…

Your confidence is going to go off the charts! =)

[godfather dust]

(01-29-2015 02:54 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

Got another email that pleasantly surprises me.

She is talking about ways to increase your testoterone levels. Of course she has some marketing at the end, but that's after giving the readers some pretty useful tips.

Nothing that we on RVF don't already know, but for most porn-addicted clueless betas out there, this could be helpful. Especially since it's coming from their favorite pornstar, it might actually motivate them to do something.

I hate to be the one to say it, but... you subscribe to, and read a porn stars mailing list. You should not be calling ANYONE a porn addict.