[Axl]

Is there any hope for me? I go to bars and clubs, but i kinda feel like im beating a dead horse approaching girls, i rarely approach now. Sometimes i get IOI's but for some reason im always to afraid to escalate or I say something very stupid that kills the attraction. I want to change since i feel like its now or never, i mean im only going to get older and worse looking. Thats another sticking point i have, i am self conscious about my looks!! i dont know how to get over that.

[Dr. Howard]

start with the gym and a hobby or volunteer pursuit that puts you in contact with other people. These will be 'practice' settings to work on your self confidence. Do that first, then worry about girls.

[nadaSurf20]

Dude, I think you shouldn't give up. You just need to get get into pick up. I myself have subscribe to different pick up coach and I am amping myself to ask a girl out soon.

[Cobra]

Hmm wonder how these one post wonders get banned. I thought at least the question was valid albeit more detail necessary.

[WestIndianArchie]

(01-07-2015 10:26 AM)Axl Wrote:  

Is there any hope for me? I go to bars and clubs, but i kinda feel like im beating a dead horse approaching girls, i rarely approach now. Sometimes i get IOI's but for some reason im always to afraid to escalate or I say something very stupid that kills the attraction. I want to change since i feel like its now or never, i mean im only going to get older and worse looking. Thats another sticking point i have, i am self conscious about my looks!! i dont know how to get over that.

Go see a professional.

We can't do anything for you..

WIA

[Latan]

It seems you don't like your looks.
Go hit the gym / Practice a martial art and you'll feel better about yourself.
I didn't get if you still were a virgin, but go see a professionnal slut if this blocks you.
First time isn't great anyway.