[El_gato]

I am meeting up with a casual female buddy tonight. She said she wanted to have a talk after we go out. I imagine she wants more commitment. How do i keep the relatios in place and maintain my freedom? Any good responses to what is coming?

[Agreddor]

If she wants you to commit, and you want to keep tapping that pussy you'll have to make her think that you're willing to "compromise".

Keyword. Make her think.

Ask yourself this: what's the most you would be willing to do to keep her around.

Would it be more worthwhile to just get a new fb or keep this one

[Latan]

Yep, decide before hand where you want this discussion to go.
Then, don't enter her frame, whatever the cost.

If she throws you an ultimatum and you don't want to do what she asks, make it clear you can walk away in a heartbeat:
Smile and say: "Was really fun meeting you, best luck for what's next" and begin to physically go away.
Either she will stop you and accept the situation -not bringing her shit tests for a while-, or she'll let you go (her loss).

[kaotic]

Exactly be prepared to walk away at a given moment.

If you think she's a genuine nice girl, and she wants more commitment and you don't, eject.

If she's just another dtf slut, just keep stringing her along and milk it for all it's worth.

If she gives an ultimatum, immediately eject.

She'll do 1 of 2 things:

1. Realize you don't put up with BS, it's your way or the highway, and will come back to you.
2. Realize you aren't going to be anything more than DTF and eject.

Either way it's win/win. Why ? Because if she comes back, you still have a FB, if she doesn't she saves you the drama and plenty of fish in the sea.

[Onto]

Let's hope it's not the, "I'm pregnant" talk. If so, keep your cool and let her know you need some time alone to think. That will give you the space you need to report back and make a plan of action.

[Latan]

So OP met her yesterday, how did it go?
I really hope for you it wasn't the "pregnant" talk.

[ShooterMikgavin]

(12-18-2014 05:07 AM)Latan Wrote:  

So OP met her yesterday, how did it go?
I really hope for you it wasn't the "pregnant" talk.

And if it was, the first thing he should do is find out if its even his

[Noir]

She wants to line up her options and keep something steady until summer.

Act accordingly.

[El_gato]

Bailed and rescheduled the hook up. Banged her last night - no word of anything "serious"

[kaotic]

(12-19-2014 08:57 AM)El_gato Wrote:  

Bailed and rescheduled the hook up. Banged her last night - no word of anything "serious"

Looks like it was just a ploy, or perhaps she got on her period late.

Either way keep on banging !