I'm relatively new to game (have a few notches), and I want your opinions on the following. (ps. I live in a relatively conservative country/society - muslim- )
- Matched the girl through Tinder.
- Chatted with Facebook, and then via Skype for extended period.
- Met for the first time. I was playful during the meeting and touched her hands and hair. she was receptive.
- We live in two different cities (around 80miles distance)
- We carried on talking by phone, and she mentioned thousands of time that she loves me, care about me... she texts me everyday to ask how well I'm doing etc etc
- We planned another meeting somewhere far from her town (around 20miles). I drive by car to her place and take her to the dating place (a cafe).
- We cuddle for around 2 hours (kissing is not accepted in public places here). She did most of the cuddling and touches me in different places (leg, back, hair ... )
- We decide to go somewhere near the beach and stay in the car.
- I miss the place, so she asks if we are going back to her home and I say "yes". She says she wants that we stay isolated for a while.
- I go back to an empty place on the front of the beach and we chat/play for a while.
- I caress her on the ear and she is responsive. she's giving me IOIs all of the time.
- I go for the kiss. She refuses and says she is afraid. I ask her if she wants to get back, and she says "yes"
- I get her back to her place. She asks me why I reacted (escalated) while in the car. She tells me that she really loves me and that's why she is with me and if I think she is a prostitute.
- I tell her it's okay, and to get off the car (politely).
- She says "so that's it?" She gets off the car, and aggressively closes the door.
- I get a call from her phone an hour later, and when I answer I hear the laughs of some other girls and some talks. I end the call.
So in a summary:
- The girl is cute (about 7), 20 years-old, studies accounting or something like that.
- She is from a relatively well-off family
- She gave me lots of IOIs, cuddling, touching...
- She refused the kiss.
Any ideas of what is going on here?
(notes, some red flags)
1. She says she doesn't lie but she lies to her family/parents about going out.
2. She mentioned before our first meeting (I didn't ask her) that I'm the only one she is talking with, but I found her active on Tinder 8 hours ago on a friends phone.
- Matched the girl through Tinder.
- Chatted with Facebook, and then via Skype for extended period.
- Met for the first time. I was playful during the meeting and touched her hands and hair. she was receptive.
- We live in two different cities (around 80miles distance)
- We carried on talking by phone, and she mentioned thousands of time that she loves me, care about me... she texts me everyday to ask how well I'm doing etc etc
- We planned another meeting somewhere far from her town (around 20miles). I drive by car to her place and take her to the dating place (a cafe).
- We cuddle for around 2 hours (kissing is not accepted in public places here). She did most of the cuddling and touches me in different places (leg, back, hair ... )
- We decide to go somewhere near the beach and stay in the car.
- I miss the place, so she asks if we are going back to her home and I say "yes". She says she wants that we stay isolated for a while.
- I go back to an empty place on the front of the beach and we chat/play for a while.
- I caress her on the ear and she is responsive. she's giving me IOIs all of the time.
- I go for the kiss. She refuses and says she is afraid. I ask her if she wants to get back, and she says "yes"
- I get her back to her place. She asks me why I reacted (escalated) while in the car. She tells me that she really loves me and that's why she is with me and if I think she is a prostitute.
- I tell her it's okay, and to get off the car (politely).
- She says "so that's it?" She gets off the car, and aggressively closes the door.
- I get a call from her phone an hour later, and when I answer I hear the laughs of some other girls and some talks. I end the call.
So in a summary:
- The girl is cute (about 7), 20 years-old, studies accounting or something like that.
- She is from a relatively well-off family
- She gave me lots of IOIs, cuddling, touching...
- She refused the kiss.
Any ideas of what is going on here?
(notes, some red flags)
1. She says she doesn't lie but she lies to her family/parents about going out.
2. She mentioned before our first meeting (I didn't ask her) that I'm the only one she is talking with, but I found her active on Tinder 8 hours ago on a friends phone.