[Bang]

Just got home. Dissapointed with this night. No other way to put it.

Anytime I go out I can make out with a least a few girls or something. Its kind of my baseline, something that just has to happen as part the night regardless of my game/mood. Well not tonight

I had no sexual contact with any girl this night. Seeing the some of the others I was with getting girls makes me more pissed off at my lack of performance.


I think the biggest lesson taken from this is to just roll solo instead. All focus is on me and I dont get encouraged to join the chode circles I often see in the club.

I don't know man...it just feels like I'm back to square 1 all of a sudden..or maybe I didn't drink enough...I'll admit that alcohol does give me the extra courage to just grab away at the girls and be more daring.

Oh wise big boys on this forum...how do I bounce back from this? How do I go back to park fucks even when running no game? I want that shit back.

[tallandblonde]

Focus on enjoying your time out at clubs/bars with your friends. Project confidence and the girls will come. Some nights you won't get laid but that is game.

Also, I would work day/online/social circle game so that you have a fall back in this situation. You can meet girls in places that aren't clubs or bars. It gives you a ton of confidence knowing that Jennifer from Tinder is DTF regardless of whether or not you strike out at the bar that night.

Don't compare yourself to your friends. And also, don't drink more to get girls at bars. Liquid courage is a slippery slope.

[JoyStick]

http://www.rooshv.com/just-keep-going

http://www.rooshv.com/one-night-can-change-everything

[ryanf]

http://thisistrouble.com/2014/12/12/ever...men-stage/

Plugging because I just read this, and it resonated. We all go through these periods where you have a shit set, shit night, shit weekend, hell, even a shit month doing what we do. If you were having success previously and it "feels like" it has dried up, then it's probably not you, it's just bad luck. I used to advocate trying new venues, times, approaches, etc. And that's not necessarily a bad idea, but I have a new philosophy: when you feel like you're in a slump and your swagger is off, don't fight it. Work on things that truly matter. I feel like a broken record, but go to the gym. Work on your business. Make some new guy friends. Learn a skill [language, how to cook, etc].

I'm in the middle of a super shit slump after an anticlimactic ending to an LTR. Instead of fighting it this time, I'm learning how to cook and a new programming language. It's cold as fuck outside anyway, girls are tucked away in their cozy dirty apartments with their beta boyfriends they met in the fall. I had 3 girls in a row flake on me last weekend, Friday night, Saturday night, and Sunday night. Instead of it bothering me, I just continued on the mission. Deleted all 3 numbers. Self-improvement time.

When you finally feel like your swagger is back, start heading back out and try again. You have the tools, most are located here in this great forum.

[Kissinger2014]

(12-12-2014 11:53 PM)Bang Wrote:  

Oh wise big boys on this forum...how do I bounce back from this?

Pretty simple: go out again. And then again. And if that doesn't work: again, again, and again.