[Rawmeo]

Sometimes you bang a girl several times, but she doesn't know that she's just a part of your rotation. The time comes when she wants to take pictures with you to show her friends / post on FB / whatever the reason.

How do you guys react when they wanna take pictures? I'm trying to find a perfect way to decline that without losing the bang. I tried once saying "I don't like pictures", but she got suspicious and stopped banging me.

[WestIndianArchie]

This is a modern problem.

You can always lie, "I got warrants"

But either you stand firm, and risk the loss

Or you risk being claimed as the boyfriend and then tagged on social media, fucking up your social circle game possibly.

The heart wants what the heart wants. So you're better letting her go than leading her on.

Be interested to hear what other advice you'll get

[Gatekeeper]

You can use the soft line, "I don't like social media and I've had some bad experiences on [fb/twitter/etc] before'' or a more valid and believable excuse "Because of my job's moralistic/clause, I can't risk being on it" and she should stop her line of questioning if you throw that flag up.

[FilipSRB]

I was thinking about this potential issue too, because for the first time, I have a couple of girls in rotation. I preemptively set up my facebook account, by deleting all my personal info, locking the wall, most of the posts and just leaving a couple of pictures, so that when I say that I don't want to be tagged it sound congruent and not like I'm trying to avoid going public with the girl in question.

Facebook actually has pretty good control of what people can see on your timeline, if something was posted by you, you can literally set it up so that only one person can see it (or not, depending how you wanna go about it). Unfortunately it still does not provide the same level of control for the posts that appear on your timeline because you were just tagged in it.

[germanico]

Pictures of what? If she is your "side" you shouldnt be seeing her for anything other than fucking.

And its absolutely justifiable not to want her taking pictures of you two in bed.

[Rawmeo]

Not in bed, but a side chick wanted to take a picture of us together in a taxi, and in a venue where I paid her a few rounds.

[Tuthmosis]

(12-09-2014 11:41 PM)alex3948 Wrote:  

How do you guys react when they wanna take pictures? I'm trying to find a perfect way to decline that without losing the bang. I tried once saying "I don't like pictures", but she got suspicious and stopped banging me.

Jesus Christ, you guys have to learn how to say no properly. BE A MAN!

Girl: "Smile." [going to take a picture]
Tuthmosis [covering my face]: "I don't want my face plastered all over internet. Keep your attention-whoring to yourself."
Girl: "You're an asshole. Why are you so worried?"
Tuthmosis: "I'll let you take a picture when we make a sex tape. And not a shitty one. A good one."
Girl: "Well that'll be never."
Tuthmosis: "Perfect. Now gimme that." [snatch her phone super fast, put it in my pocket, and go in for a sexy hug]

[Latan]

"I don't like taking pics" with a firm tone and a smile, while gently stopping her to use her phone.
Never had to justify myself more.

But if you use Facebook / Instagram / etc, and regularly post there new pics, it won't work.

[Noir]

I just say no firmly.

For social events, I have my facebook profile set to private, for all photos. I have to approve what comes up on newsfeeds and my profile.

[Valhalla]

I don't think this is a big deal. If she's hot, let her take her pictures and say whatever to her hamster friends. I've even been to their family events with side pieces.

I have no social media and don't care.

If anything it will make me look more preselected to other girls. I'll keep doing whatever i want with other girls.

[vinman]

   
   
   

[kaotic]

Had this problem,

"nah I'm good, don't need the CIA creeping on me" -smirk-
"i have some crazy ex's, rather not get creeped on"
"nope" - grab the phone-
"I've got a better idea" -grab phone- -move the phone towards the inside of your boxers-

[General Mayhem]

If you tried saying, "I don't like pictures" and she stopped banging you it's probably an issue with how you said it and the vibe you were giving off.

Personally I don't care if she wants to take pictures. It's never negatively affected me.

[Cyclone419]

Sure, i'll bring my video camera next time.