These days it's totally normal for women to test your boundaries, think the world revolves around them, and generally behave badly. But how do we react properly to bad behavior?
Over the years I have tried many methods of dealing with this sort of nonsensical behavior and have come full circle in my belief system. Here is the short version of my learning process and the shitty advice I took from ignorant people.
"Ignore her"from Father
My father once told me when I was getting beat up in school to punch my attacker as hard as possible on the end of the nose. It reiterated that it must be hard and fast but also that one punch would not be enough to keep them away forever. I would have to follow up as quickly as possible with other punches to show that I would defend myself from anyone that tried to harm me. Later, when a girl was picking on me he said "Ignore her. No matter what she says just keep your mouth shut." and it turned out to be good advice because she was the first girl to ever kiss me. It seemed to drive her crazy that her shit didn't bother me.
"Throw dirt at her" from Patrick
This one has little long term affect. You can say it was funny as much as you like and it may even work for a few minutes but as soon as your feminist kindergarten teacher comes to the rescue you are surly going to time out.
"Try and talk to her about it" from Woman
This one obviously came from a woman. Talking to a woman is mostly like talking to a brick wall. Even if they want to stop doing whatever it is that is wrong, no amount of talking is going to make them change their behavior.
Improve yourself and ignore/ punish bad behavior by Men Like You
This one is close to my father's advice but these days it's not only enough to simply ignore but to never reward bad behavior. Learning Game taught me a lot but also reinforced some old beliefs: The less you cater to bullshit the less they try and get away with.
Finding a balance is what I am doing now, and challenging myself in other areas of life other than attracting women seems to make some of their bullshit easier to brush off.
What do you do when a woman behaves badly?
Over the years I have tried many methods of dealing with this sort of nonsensical behavior and have come full circle in my belief system. Here is the short version of my learning process and the shitty advice I took from ignorant people.
"Ignore her"from Father
My father once told me when I was getting beat up in school to punch my attacker as hard as possible on the end of the nose. It reiterated that it must be hard and fast but also that one punch would not be enough to keep them away forever. I would have to follow up as quickly as possible with other punches to show that I would defend myself from anyone that tried to harm me. Later, when a girl was picking on me he said "Ignore her. No matter what she says just keep your mouth shut." and it turned out to be good advice because she was the first girl to ever kiss me. It seemed to drive her crazy that her shit didn't bother me.
"Throw dirt at her" from Patrick
This one has little long term affect. You can say it was funny as much as you like and it may even work for a few minutes but as soon as your feminist kindergarten teacher comes to the rescue you are surly going to time out.
"Try and talk to her about it" from Woman
This one obviously came from a woman. Talking to a woman is mostly like talking to a brick wall. Even if they want to stop doing whatever it is that is wrong, no amount of talking is going to make them change their behavior.
Improve yourself and ignore/ punish bad behavior by Men Like You
This one is close to my father's advice but these days it's not only enough to simply ignore but to never reward bad behavior. Learning Game taught me a lot but also reinforced some old beliefs: The less you cater to bullshit the less they try and get away with.
Finding a balance is what I am doing now, and challenging myself in other areas of life other than attracting women seems to make some of their bullshit easier to brush off.
What do you do when a woman behaves badly?
