Heartiste has quite a few posts on long term relationship game or relationship Game. Rollo Tomassi is all about the basis of Game and why it works - he mentioned a few Game concepts mostly in relationships as well - being married and all. Dalrock has a series on the stuff, but more streamlined for Christian marriage - still uses stuff from PUAs like Command Presence, Agree & Amplify and Amused Mastery.
I'm thinking this 25k Ring Guy might be in over his head.
If/When he gets married, she truly has him by the balls and wallet.
No doubt about it - he should try and put in a stop at least for awhile.
This is putting the condom on after getting her pregnant.
Time machine game.
Yeah - it's tougher, but I've read enough reports by married guys who turned around their marriage. Though admittedly doing that with a fiancee who is less invested than a wife with kids and years together - is certainly tougher.
The problem with living with a woman is one of eternal surveillance and vigilance.
The Alpha has to monitor the relationship, monitor her feelings, and then take corrective measures.
The Beta is just reacting to every whim and desire.
In both cases, the man is never relaxed.
Never gets to enjoy his spoils, his kingdom.
There's always something, a new fire to put out. And if you don't put it out, it will consume you.
Personally I agree with Rollo - after a time Game becomes part of your personality and so does the Alpha state. It is frankly a more fun state to be in it as a man, so I don't consider it as much of a hassle - it is what I am. I remember my LTRs in my younger days in full romantic good guy Beta mode - that was truly a hassle.
Though based on my experience I would say with some pure innocent girls a LTR is 5% the work than with a deluded emotional empowered high-notch-count one. But frankly LTRs should always be girls in the first category - the good thing is that as a guy with Game you can meet so many, that you will find one with whom a LTR is pretty much effortless. And even those pure girls I neg, push-pull and play with their emotions - because it is fun and they like it.
But yeah - I know what you mean - with some girls it's a constant fight to a degree - women are always fighting their inherent submissive nature nowadays and making life a lot harder for us men.
I'm thinking this 25k Ring Guy might be in over his head.
If/When he gets married, she truly has him by the balls and wallet.
No doubt about it - he should try and put in a stop at least for awhile.
This is putting the condom on after getting her pregnant.
Time machine game.
Yeah - it's tougher, but I've read enough reports by married guys who turned around their marriage. Though admittedly doing that with a fiancee who is less invested than a wife with kids and years together - is certainly tougher.
The problem with living with a woman is one of eternal surveillance and vigilance.
The Alpha has to monitor the relationship, monitor her feelings, and then take corrective measures.
The Beta is just reacting to every whim and desire.
In both cases, the man is never relaxed.
Never gets to enjoy his spoils, his kingdom.
There's always something, a new fire to put out. And if you don't put it out, it will consume you.
Personally I agree with Rollo - after a time Game becomes part of your personality and so does the Alpha state. It is frankly a more fun state to be in it as a man, so I don't consider it as much of a hassle - it is what I am. I remember my LTRs in my younger days in full romantic good guy Beta mode - that was truly a hassle.
Though based on my experience I would say with some pure innocent girls a LTR is 5% the work than with a deluded emotional empowered high-notch-count one. But frankly LTRs should always be girls in the first category - the good thing is that as a guy with Game you can meet so many, that you will find one with whom a LTR is pretty much effortless. And even those pure girls I neg, push-pull and play with their emotions - because it is fun and they like it.
But yeah - I know what you mean - with some girls it's a constant fight to a degree - women are always fighting their inherent submissive nature nowadays and making life a lot harder for us men.