[Barron]

The female of California is a rare breed of narcissist. Not only is her mind completely saturated with entertainment media, it has become a part of her identity. Due to unrelenting exposure to such programming throughout her formative years, she prefers to live out her existence within a bubble of cognition which allows her to experience life as her own ongoing motion picture.

This feature is staring her, written by her, and directed by her. However, the ending of her movie is unwritten, and the plot is open for editing. All a man must do is introduce theatrics in the form of action, adventure, drama, fantasy, mystery, or thrill to her story and he will be received as a welcomed cast member.

As with all fictional narratives, introducing any element of reality must be avoided. Reality is interpreted as boring, and any man that crosses this line will be ejected from her theater as would a disruptive member of the audience.

[germanico]

Want some dip for that chip on your shoulder?

[Michael P]

This is true anywhere TV's exist, to some degree. But probably more so in the state where Hollywood is.

Most main characters that are men have to go through a whole movie to become the hero, or at the very minimum a training-montage. But if one looks at movies today, one can see that most have women ending up in a very good situation just because ....she was a little cute. Sometimes not even because of that.

She just has to want to do something and cry a little and she gets her way.

Studies after studies have proven that the "every one is a winner" mentality only breeds mediocrity and even resent towards the world, when daddy's little princes ends up working as a teacher, she feels that is below her.

Movies create a false sense of reality and the people that gravitate towards Hollywood are the one most influenced by the perverted media.

NomadofEU - They are doing you a favor by ending the relationship. Would you event want to have one with people like that?! Or even have sex?!

If you are in Cali you have a even harder time finding someone who you can also talk with, but it's not a lost cause.

Best of luck!

[kaotic]

A girl is only the movie preview, you're the goddamn movie.

Or better yet, write your own book.

[h3ltrsk3ltr]

There's an interesting article about reality on ribbonfarm.com.

Basically we're good at finding ways to escape reality without being able to directly engage it.

He talks about certain ipad games as illustrations of ways in which we attempt escapism. The following sentence is about those games but I think it kind of applies to the games you play with girls (who are masters of escapism).

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These games dissolve your sense of human identity as surely as a rosary, and draw you away from ego-anchored things like relationships, narratives and meaningful emotions about human concerns. You experience visceral, pre-ego emotions instead, in relation to primal sounds, shapes and colors.

If you apply this to your experiences playing fuck fuck games with women, it allows you to strip away layers of reality like the sociopaths in Venkat's Gervais Principle. Basically, as you go through this shit with women and strip away the delusions of the ideal relationship and the "way it's supposed to be", you find the keys to power in life. Maybe you just engaged in a girl's game of experiencing her life as a movie, now you know that that's something chicks do and you can operate at a higher level.

Some ways to do that off the top of my head might be to introduce elements of reality to her that shock her into a state of awareness that increases her vulnerability. Maybe taking her to a bar in a rough part of town or something. Essentially, you need to frame shit the way you want it. From what I've read, the way successful and dominant men control frame is by taking away or hiding elements about reality in their interactions. I don't really know how to do that or even understand it fully but it's a thought-provoking concept.

One of the coolest things I've ever read on this forum was written by Mage:

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For me game is not about getting pussy, I could get pussy in my beta days too. For me game is about getting pussy on my terms!

It does sound like you just went though a bad experience with a chick though.

[Agreddor]

We all have had bad experiences; the catalyst to find a "way out" so to speak.

I resonate with what op has wrote.

Just look at what people do on instagram; take a photo of something then post some lame ass quote as the caption.

You lost a competition? Some crap about being a good loser

You broke up? Some crap about how "the time you've had together was good wishing her the best"

Gym selfie? Some stupid quote about transformation along with a lengthy monologue on how far you've gone blablabla

The messages I get on my phone from girl I pump and dump are essentially emotional tirades about how I'm an asshole, but the time we had together was good.

Everything has to be one big hollywood dramatic moment with these people. I don't doubt that they don't realise how whiney and narcissistic they are.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(01-16-2015 03:17 PM)Michael P Wrote:  

Studies after studies have proven that the "every one is a winner" mentality only breeds mediocrity and even resent towards the world, when daddy's little princes ends up working as a teacher, she feels that is below her.

Nomad - despite the impossible there are plenty of men everywhere who manage to put the frame over almost any woman's life. Most often it is a sign of high market value, but it can be done via simple Game & personality. In the worst case such a man walks off just like some celebrities do, when women start shit-testing them after a while.

Also regarding the "everyone is a winner" mentality - yes absolute crap.

However the old system of having one winner and only the top being rewarded is sub-optimal too.

A better way is to set individual goals within a competitive environment.

This could be done in all endeavors - achievements in sports, learning & science. That way everyone can remain motivated. Otherwise only those get motivated who already have more positive mindsets or who are closer to attaining the goal - the lower half is actually de-motivated by such motivational techniques.

We are all unequal, but we should acknowledge that - with an individualized motivational system we could all reach the top of our potential.

[JackFrost]

kudos nomad, this was spot on. Im currently single and dating in socal and its a real headache, hell back east girls are much more down to earth.

[SouthernCasanova]

You're the movie. She's just filter.