Hey guys-
I'll try to keep this brief - but I'm curious how married guys are landing college girl FWBs. The logistics are a bitch. So is the trust/discretion factor. I'm 40+, good looking and need variety - especially of the younger sort. Caveat - if the morality of this offends you please skip this thread - thanks.
Case in point - recently I placed a online ad - your basic older man for younger woman. Lots of BS this route but I've had some surprisingly good successes, too. Anyway I got a response from a senior at a local college. She actually super girl next door beautiful and has an awesome young body - and she is dirty and has a thing for older men. Perfect. I could see a regular thing happening here. Not just one time.
First obstacle was texting - kind of. I use a texting app which was fine until the topic of pics came up. Can't receive them unless both are using the app. Did mange to get past his obstacle - said my phone was work supplied and has shitty data package.
Next was she wanted my real phone. I happen to have an untraceable prepaid phone in a drawer at work so I used this as my "real number"
Next she asked if married. I posted about this a few days ago. I make a joke and dodge. She said she was just curious... She also asks my age - I say 35 - which she likes.
So we meet in person for a coffee. She is awesome - see description above.
No bang - we had a drink but it was midafternoon and we both had places to be after.
Texting ramps up big time. Its getting dirty. We're talking about getting together again asap with full intention of fucking like crazy. She asks my last name. I try to joke but she says flat out - she isn't going to sleep with somebody whose last name she doesn't know.
So now I'm like fuck - this chick is young, hot, dirty, likes older men.
IF I tell her my last name she googles me and there goes all sense of anonymity. She'll figure out I'm married and true age. I had a feeling she didn't care if I was married based on her "just curious" response (in hindsight I should have fessed up right then in this case) and she said a few times the age gap turned her on a lot. So I fessed up to the two things. Told her I understood if she told me to go fly a kite. We talked a little more. I apologized. She still wants last name. I said think about it over night and if she's ok with things in the morning I'll tell her. We talk more and she's says it's ok, with some reservation. I think hard and against my better judgement (using little head) I tell her.
Today she says she can't get past the dishonesty. So I've given my last name and it still went nowhere.
Knowing what I know now I should have told her upfront I was married. I guess that's the best policy - and you'll win some lose some.
What do you do about last name question?? I tried to think of a way to create a fake LinkedIn or facebook or???? but you'll have no (or very few friends/connections) Or just give a fake?
Give a fake first name that is "short" for your real name (that you don't tell?? Or use your middle name as your first??
Maybe with college girls you just need SDL/one time thing or else it's too complicated?? For me I can't go to bars and take them home. So it's day time stuff 99% of the time...
Constructive criticism appreciated.
I'll try to keep this brief - but I'm curious how married guys are landing college girl FWBs. The logistics are a bitch. So is the trust/discretion factor. I'm 40+, good looking and need variety - especially of the younger sort. Caveat - if the morality of this offends you please skip this thread - thanks.
Case in point - recently I placed a online ad - your basic older man for younger woman. Lots of BS this route but I've had some surprisingly good successes, too. Anyway I got a response from a senior at a local college. She actually super girl next door beautiful and has an awesome young body - and she is dirty and has a thing for older men. Perfect. I could see a regular thing happening here. Not just one time.
First obstacle was texting - kind of. I use a texting app which was fine until the topic of pics came up. Can't receive them unless both are using the app. Did mange to get past his obstacle - said my phone was work supplied and has shitty data package.
Next was she wanted my real phone. I happen to have an untraceable prepaid phone in a drawer at work so I used this as my "real number"
Next she asked if married. I posted about this a few days ago. I make a joke and dodge. She said she was just curious... She also asks my age - I say 35 - which she likes.
So we meet in person for a coffee. She is awesome - see description above.
No bang - we had a drink but it was midafternoon and we both had places to be after.
Texting ramps up big time. Its getting dirty. We're talking about getting together again asap with full intention of fucking like crazy. She asks my last name. I try to joke but she says flat out - she isn't going to sleep with somebody whose last name she doesn't know.
So now I'm like fuck - this chick is young, hot, dirty, likes older men.
IF I tell her my last name she googles me and there goes all sense of anonymity. She'll figure out I'm married and true age. I had a feeling she didn't care if I was married based on her "just curious" response (in hindsight I should have fessed up right then in this case) and she said a few times the age gap turned her on a lot. So I fessed up to the two things. Told her I understood if she told me to go fly a kite. We talked a little more. I apologized. She still wants last name. I said think about it over night and if she's ok with things in the morning I'll tell her. We talk more and she's says it's ok, with some reservation. I think hard and against my better judgement (using little head) I tell her.
Today she says she can't get past the dishonesty. So I've given my last name and it still went nowhere.
Knowing what I know now I should have told her upfront I was married. I guess that's the best policy - and you'll win some lose some.
What do you do about last name question?? I tried to think of a way to create a fake LinkedIn or facebook or???? but you'll have no (or very few friends/connections) Or just give a fake?
Give a fake first name that is "short" for your real name (that you don't tell?? Or use your middle name as your first??
Maybe with college girls you just need SDL/one time thing or else it's too complicated?? For me I can't go to bars and take them home. So it's day time stuff 99% of the time...
Constructive criticism appreciated.
