[Downtown]

Hey guys -

I'm new here and love this forum. Thanks for all the good info. Here is something that came up on a date I had the other night I thought you might find useful:

I led the conversation to talks about her friends and those in relationships. We talked about how women like bad boys for fun and provider types for relationships. She acknowledged all of this and even went so far as to say that her friends all think they "settled" with their providers and even shared about how they have cheated on those providers.

And then I looked her in the eye and asked her - which kind of guy do you think I am?

She astutely said, 'you're the bad boy type"

Perfectly framed, she now knows and states that I am the guy she looks to for good times and fucking - and no chance of provider stuff. Using socratic method, i lead her to come to that conclusion on her own...

Don't know if this is useful to you all but it seemed pretty great to me when I saw her eyes reflect back to me 'alpha fux and not 'beta bux'

[robreke]

Nice. Let us know if it actually equates to a notch for you.

[heavy]

You have to be careful raising her awareness that you're a self proclaimed bad boy. Great job if you lead her to that conclusion ever so subtly just remember girls are many times one step ahead in reading you than you reading her

[britchard]

Can I ask how you led the conversation in this way? Did you just flat out ask "which of your friends are in a relationship" or something more intricate? And what would you do if they said you're a provider type? Sounds like quite a hard shit test to get past.

[NiceNEasy]

(10-23-2014 11:02 AM)britchard Wrote:  

And what would you do if they said you're a provider type?

Proudly provide the D.

[Nomad77]

You don't need to make a woman aware of this and it's better not to. They are aware of it almost immediately. Women are very good at reading men. You never want to make a woman too conscious of a decision she may be making that society or her friends may frown upon. It's the same reason you don't tell a woman to come over for sex. You tell her to come over and watch a movie. You always want to give her what is called Plausible deniability.

[simonafc]

(10-24-2014 08:46 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

You don't need to make a woman aware of this and it's better not to. They are aware of it almost immediately. Women are very good at reading men. You never want to make a woman too conscious of a decision she may be making that society or her friends may frown upon. It's the same reason you don't tell a woman to come over for sex. You tell her to come over and watch a movie. You always want to give her what is called Plausible deniability.

+1 that, ive had a few girls say they didnt understand why they did it, but did it anyways.

[boinerd]

I just don't give a darn. Power comes from the appearance of confidence.