[MidniteSpecial]

Be head over heels infatuated with some chick who wasn't worth the time or feelings.

[Saweeep]

Be unhappy but not realise why.

[HighSpeed_LowDrag]

Probably still be a virgin.

[Blackwell]

Not be the man I am today.

Not be the man I'll be tomorrow.

Not be the man I'll be in a year.

Long live the game!

[Sonsowey]

I wonder about this.

I was always a serial monogamist with some hookups thrown in.

I think the difference now is I just have much higher standards in terms of looks and behavior for girls, and am no longer afraid of a breakup the way I used to be.

When I first started learning game I was already in an LTR with a very cute girl. She was a huge improvement in looks and attitude over my last LTR and all my friends were surprised I was dating her, I was seen as batting out o my league. After beginning to read some game, I ended up breaking up with her.

I was not really happy in the relationship, it was nothing serious, just little things about her bugged me, we ultimately were not so compatible even though she was a nice girl. Learning just a bit of game gave me the confidence to say, hey, ending this relationship just because I want to do something else is fine. Even though overall this girl is a catch, there are plenty more out there.

[civpro]

This is a strange question for me because considering my circumstances and my personality I couldn't have not come upon it. Whether at the age I did or at a later age, I would've looked into it somehow; it was an inevitability. And I'm not overjoyed here because it's hardly been a super-positive experience. Nonetheless finding out about and pursuing game & cold approach pick up was a necessary stage of personal development for me.

[AneroidOcean]

(10-27-2014 08:44 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  

If it wasn't for game, I would cling to one girl who's probably not worth having an LTR with. I did it for a couple of years before I found RVF.

This would probably be me. I'd probably be trying to date girls I know through my old high school social circle only and MAYBE asking a half decent girl out on my own, ending up in a LTR by default.

The best decisions I've ever made so far to improve my life were to move to the beach, and to stumble upon the red pill.

I'm far from where I want to be overall, but I'm a lot closer in certain areas than I'd ever imagined.

[heavy]

...still be divorced, and still not sure about another long-term relationship, but...

I'd have no idea I could improve my chances with women intrinsically.

Shit I'd probably not be looking for, but at least be accepting of, the idea that I'd need a long-term plan for women...maybe even marriage...dammit, took a second to get to that conclusion.

Oh, and If it wasn't for RVF I would still be planning on going as a cowboy for halloween this weekend.

[Spectrumwalker]

Never have learned to establish my personal boundaries early on with a woman. She can agree and follow, or she can feel free to walk out the door.

[Dantes]

would not have taken a hard look at my strengths and weaknesses related to women which ultimately led to self-omprovment in this area.

would not have have learned to meet women during the day, a step which has changed my life.

would not have gotten over my fear of rejection.