[blacknwhitespade]

Do any of you have some real life examples of Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks? I have some people who are still not convinced of this basic red pill theory that I was aware of even before I took the red pill.

The best examples I have are my cousin and a friend from the neighborhood that I grew up with. Both partied hard and fucked like rabbits and then married hard-working regular joes (coincidentally both military men as well). My friend had a baby and an annulment within 1 year followed by immediate alpha re-interest, all before 30. Last I heard, her latest bf put her in the hospital after an argument. My cousin became a single mother in high school and, years later, met her husband with whom she is now going steady for 2 years in marriage and has had another kid with him. While she was dating him, she'd glow about how "she liked him because she wanted someone nice and quiet." If only I could have introduced her husband-to-be to the dickhead who knocked her up when she was 15.

I personally experienced and became aware of AFBB (or pre-dick/post-dick stages, as I coined it back then lol!) when I had a young, mid-20s divorcee trying to trick me into 1:1 dates 4 years ago, back in my blue pill days. She was immediately interested in me, I wasn't interested in her. However, I became friends with her, but I wasn't clear enough that we were just friends and sort of inadvertently beta-gamed her and then she came after me. Her friends told me all about what an asshole her ex-husband was.

I'd love to hear some real life experiences of AFBB that I know some of you have.

[Mage]

It's everywhere. It's the normality. I would be more interested in examples of dynamics where a man both excites and supports a loyal homeworking woman or two.

[Troll King]

^^^ This right here. I am racking my brain but I honestly can't think of too many examples where the couple hasn't been married for like 40 yrs or something. Even then, we have no idea what the real story was that long ago.

Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks really is the new normal. I think it has been for awhile now. About a decade ago I noticed a trend among boomers and some older gen x people. These were friends of my family and a few co-workers and teachers. Social networking was just getting going and being in college I was using Facebook which had only recently hit my college, this was before they opened it up for High School students and other non-college aged people.

There were some other websites that were some what popular too. I don't know about what happened to them and I am too lazy or disinterested to google them or remember them. They were the classmates.com type of websites. Anyways. There were some widows/widowers that either I knew from my job or I knew through my parents or church or whatever. They all got on and got in touch with their High School and/or College sweethearts. In a handful of cases their HS or College sweethearts or crushes were widowed too. So, what happens? They reconnect. In the course of about three or four years I heard through the grapevine about around a dozen or so couples reconnecting and in many cases getting married or moving in within less than 2 years. In each case they said something along the lines of, "technology is so amazing these days...we hadn't spoken in 20 years until we traded emails and now it is like we picked up from where we left off all those years ago."

At the time I thought it was weird but didn't think too much about it. These were mainly socially liberal but fairly conservative, often times but not always Christian, and I always got the feeling that they were not virgins at marriage, one or two had been married more than once, but probably were far from playing the field during the sexual revolution. I figure on average most hadn't had more than a few, maybe 2 or 3, "boyfriend/girlfriend" before getting married in their early 20s.

Just goes to show how those earliest sex and romance experiences really do prime and imprint on our brains. In the words of Ricky Bobby...

You are either first or you are last.

[MarshalZhukov]

I took a girl home from a party a few months back. I pulled her from the dance floor to my car and then her place. f*cked the sh*t out of her. it came up that she was in remedial math. to which I responded "I wont make you feel more insecure by mentioning that I am in calculus 6" she said "can you tutor me? I had a guy who was helping me study but he kept being weird and trying to get at me so I don't study with him anymore".. "he offered to tutor you , or you asked him":
"I asked him, cause I knew he had a crush on me so I thought I would use that to my advantage ..." needless to say i didn't provide any tutoring

I girl came over to cook and hang out my place. She mentions she is not too hungry already ate dinner with her boyfriend, and that she just made up a "dumb excuse" to disappear and come chill with me

tl;dr as they say - " wholly sh*t its just like in the books!"

[Bienvenuto]

Worked in a call centre.

A girl I had pulled in her first week (she got a lot of shit from her work mates for being a pretty SJW 21 year old getting together with the only 40 year old conservative in a young 'right on' work place and her way of getting out of it was that I got her way drunk and 'took advantage' of her.
Would have worked for her if I hadn't gone to the police, reported a crime and demanded that they examine the CCTV footage of us together - police response; no case for me to answer. Told her about that and she promptly shut up.)

Anyway THAT girl.

She died.

We were all out in bars drinking and talking about it. The little, long haired, acoustic guitarist 'friend of all the ladies' from work was saying..
"I can't believe she's dead! It's so crazy..! We were SO Close! (subtext: someone's dead and its all about ME!) I sublet my room to her when I was away! for free? Yes, of course for free! so.. in a sense... We Shared The Same Bed! (major mental gymnastics/hamstering in progress here) I lent her my t shirt!"

Me: "the one with the monkeys and the graffiti on the front?"

Long hair: Yea-h.. why?

Me: No.. what? No.. nothing.

T-shirt at that time in the bottom of my wardrobe after she gave it to me in a pre #me-too moment.

[YoungBlade]

Used to babysit the kids of a soldier and his wife. He was always deployed, so I'd babysit while the wife was "running errands."

Bitch was fucking every dude in the county on the soldier's dime.

Gods be praised, the soldier found out about it, divorced the whore, and won custody of the kids.

A little while ago I got a knock on the door. He's moved in a couple acres down the road, with the kids, and wanted to thank me for looking after his kids years ago. Good to see he's doing well for himself.

[Piankhi]

OJ, Nicole Simpson and Ron Goldman.

[Robert High Hawk]

If you are in one of life's valleys and find yourself using any dating app in Louisville, KY. Nothing but single moms (a few that are still young and cute) "not looking to play games". I suppose they may also be on the hunt for another asshole to shack up with.

I am not sure the Betabux thing is so prevalent honestly. My sense was that many girls are not even interested in that, at least while they were even remotely young and attractive. Motherhood and borderline poverty be damned, they yearned for hedonism while still available.

Part of that is cultural for the area though. Many couples get married young and stay married. Outside of that the women feel excluded and swing to the other extreme.

[Tiger Man]

I have to agree that this seems to be the general trend outside of some seriously conservative groups in the US. I have noticed it come up once or twice already, so I'm going to point out something I have noticed over and over again. The phenomenon of the instantly-pregnant mother of x many kids with other guys.

This happened to one of my best friends. He got essentially catfished on match.com. Some woman he was "internet dating" across the country failed to mention that she was very recently divorced and had a four-year-old son. He only found out about this after he had quit his job, sold most of his stuff, and moved across the country to move in with her (and propose). In any case, fast forward a few years. They're married. He is working a crap job that he hates (he has multiple graduate degrees and could be doing a lot more with them). She is a stay-at-home loaf, living off of his paycheck. One day, he has a blowup and goes off on her about he's had it with the situation and is thinking maybe they should consider a divorce or separation. He called me and told me all about it. Then, he calls me about two months later. Guess what? She's pregnant.

That means she had to have the IUD pulled (or whatever) right after the fight. And, as my friend put it, "I didn't even know we were trying to get pregnant." In other words, he got spermjacked by his own wife.

I have noticed this trend over and over again with single mothers who go on to lock down decent beta provider guys. Sometimes it happens before the wedding (shotgun?), sometimes right after, and sometimes when the relationship starts to get rocky. In any case, it is the girl employing the nuclear option. As an aside, one of the most heavily correlative data points that predicts future divorce is whether or not the parties to the marriage are bringing in kids from another relationship. Don't do it.

[blck]

In one you go paid for some romantic dinner, in the other you go to have fun and probably get laid...

[CynicalContrarian]

Can only take the text at face value. Yet it's hardly an impossible situation.

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[rpg]

(04-13-2018 06:07 PM)CynicalContrarian Wrote:  

Can only take the text at face value. Yet it's hardly an impossible situation.

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Well that sucks. Immediately start calling the kid by his middle name or accept cuckage.

[Kona]

(04-13-2018 07:45 PM)rpg Wrote:  

(04-13-2018 06:07 PM)CynicalContrarian Wrote:  

Can only take the text at face value. Yet it's hardly an impossible situation.

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Well that sucks. Immediately start calling the kid by his middle name or accept cuckage.

I'd make the bitch have a daughter and name it "day shift stripper" or "gas station girl" to even it out.

Aloha!

[CynicalContrarian]

^
Why not just officially rename the kid?
Easier at five when there's no bank accounts / credit cards etc. than later in life.

[Salvadore]

[PharaohRa]

Seeing these examples above is why we need White Sharia, and pronto!