[PaulM]

I'm just wondering what works better, asking for her number or telling her.

For example, i have about an 70-80% success rate in getting numbers by the 2 lines below
* "Do you have a mobile" "yes" "then give me your mobile number so i can give u a call sometime" *i give her my mobile phone*
* *find common ground* 'me too, what's your number so we can hang out sometime"

I have a background in night game but i'm working on day game these days! What is your feedback in asking compare to telling her to give her number 2 you? I find being a little more aggressive works a bit better after rapport has been made... how about u guys?

[edtf]

A number should be a tool to contact her to do something. for example if you learn she likes wine, then suggest a wine bar nearby and get her number for the purpose of contacting her to set up aforementioned date.

[Griprip08]

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I find being a little more aggressive works a bit better after rapport has been made... how about u guys?

Fuck yeah all the way ^^

Lately, I have finally internalized to not ask for much.

I usually go with, for example last weekend, "Hey I'm peacin' out of here, give me your number though and we'll grab a drink or 7 sometime this week". It literally works to the point where you can hear the excitement in the "ok" response (granted you played your cards right up until this point). I strongly feel that this goes along with the "girls like to be led" concept.

Why are you asking for her number? That implies she has a choice, if you are the high-value guy that everyone wants to fuck and hang out with, why are you asking for her number? You tell (don't demand) her in a very subtle/playful way that she will be giving you her number. That way there is no hesitation.

Let's put it this way, she won't punish you for telling her to give you her number (not right then and there anyways), but she will punish you for asking, considering it opens up the door for her to think.....never allow them to think......lead them.

[boinerd]

5 minutes converstaion then go for the number?

[WestIndianArchie]

Answered the wrong question.

Options

1) ORDER - lemme see your phone - *calls self on my phone*, Now I got your #
2) Put your # in my phone....
3) We should hang, put your # in my phone

Make her say hell no to you.
Even if it's a cold #..do the mass text


Mass text all cold #'s from time to time
*insert hot line*
*leave - WIA*

WIA

[PaulM]

see below!

[PaulM]

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Why are you asking for her number? That implies she has a choice, if you are the high-value guy that everyone wants to fuck and hang out with, why are you asking for her number? You tell (don't demand) her in a very subtle/playful way that she will be giving you her number. That way there is no hesitation.

so true but after reading Day Bang, Rooshv says to treat women like cats where i totally agree with him but at the end, I reckon it's best to finish strong! I never suggest anything, "it's nah, we going here" "we watching this!" etc... Women want to be lead cause they are naturally submissive to men! It brings out her primal instants and it builds attraction like crazy! If she tries to take charge, i always shut her down!

Everytime i ASK for her number... i reckon i have a 20% success rate!

Next i usually sms her on the spot and say 'ill sms u so u know it's me." that way if she has high interest level i know she will message me first = easy bang! also it stops her from giving a fake number "i think u put a digit incorrectly, try again" *give phone back*

[horn]

Guys shouldn't be asking this at the end of the night. Take her phone or tell her to put her # in yours. Simple.

[kaotic]

-I always try to go direct, it usually involves something we have common with, or if I'm bouncing.
-I'm not trying to stay long after I get a number, I'll eject asap.
-I usually have her put her number in my phone and I immediately call it in front of her.
-This is a great way to see her reaction, she'll immediately say no, or she'll give you her number (even if it's a dead lead later.

[Ensam]

I always ask for her number politely so she won't feel so bad when I kick her out of my bed (or leave hers).

[PaulM]

(10-20-2014 11:06 PM)edtf Wrote:  

A number should be a tool to contact her to do something. for example if you learn she likes wine, then suggest a wine bar nearby and get her number for the purpose of contacting her to set up aforementioned date.

that's a very good point! what if it's at the shopping centre and u talking about shops there (day bang technique), would it be better to end with "give me your number so i can call u sometime" or "give me your number so we can go shopping sometime." if u are talking about something boring like rooshv 'laptop' example in a coffee shop, u wouldn't say "give me your number so you can help me look for a laptop sometime", or would u??

i'm breaking this down so i can increase my success rate! first impression is everything!

[Akula]

(10-21-2014 12:47 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Answered the wrong question.

Options

1) ORDER - lemme see your phone - *calls self on my phone*, Now I got your #
2) Put your # in my phone....
3) We should hang, put your # in my phone

Make her say hell no to you.
Even if it's a cold #..do the mass text


Mass text all cold #'s from time to time
*insert hot line*
*leave - WIA*

WIA

This ^^

Never "ask." At least frame it like "let's exchange numbers so we can get together sometime" and have her put it in your phone.

You don't want to make her think you are asking her 'permission' and that she has to approve something. F*ck that.

[CerebralZealot]

Depends on your style of doing things, and also your mood.

I usually just suggest we'd hang out sometime in the future, and if she doesn't say NO, I tell her to give me her number. Again I look at her for a response for a while (and usually she doesn't say yes, but if I don't hear a NO) I pull out my phone.

Funny though I have a buddy that always asks shit like; Can I touch your shoulder right now? Would you mind if we went outside for a while? Do I have your permission to kiss you right now? etc etc. But I guess he is congruent with it and it works for him.

[Saweeep]

(10-23-2014 10:11 AM)CerebralZealot Wrote:  

Funny though I have a buddy that always asks shit like; Can I touch your shoulder right now? Would you mind if we went outside for a while? Do I have your permission to kiss you right now? etc etc. But I guess he is congruent with it and it works for him.

Really?

Is he super good looking?

[YossariansRight]

(10-22-2014 06:33 AM)Akula Wrote:  

(10-21-2014 12:47 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Answered the wrong question.

Options

1) ORDER - lemme see your phone - *calls self on my phone*, Now I got your #
2) Put your # in my phone....
3) We should hang, put your # in my phone

Make her say hell no to you.
Even if it's a cold #..do the mass text


Mass text all cold #'s from time to time
*insert hot line*
*leave - WIA*

WIA

This ^^

Never "ask." At least frame it like "let's exchange numbers so we can get together sometime" and have her put it in your phone.

You don't want to make her think you are asking her 'permission' and that she has to approve something. F*ck that.

Amen. NEVER ask, just do. It sets the frame immediately.