I actually put some of this in the players lounge but realize that this is where it should be. Last week I was staying at this large very nice resort hotel with literally hundreds of people that work within my industry. I am 52 and a beginner intermediate with game. But I work at it every week. And got some ok chicks in my rotation. Would like to improve my quality. So this one coworker is a player. He is married also but he gets out and plays lots of fun. He is a true natural really good looking and is about 12 years younger than me. So it is a bit intimidating going out with him. But he is fun as hell and is a hard drinker. I am not a heavy drinker.
Last night things are starting to get interesting. Go to this dance club and my drunk buddy goes to work on the hottest blond in there very direct drunk game. She is so into it. He tells her how bad he is and she tells him how bad she is. Her other tall brunette friend comes over and starts flirting with him also. I attempt to try to get into the conversation just to wing and start talking. And nothing...crickets. These bitches are almost totally freezing me out. What is amazing is my buddy is not doing anything special just being an asshole and sloppy drunk but they love it. I am amazed and frustrated at the same time. I know I should not be but it does affect me. I eventually pull myself together and start to have fun with other people there. After about an hour we go to another bar. Just us two. Not the chicks. My buddy had insulted one by telling her he just wanted to fuck her. She said fuck you and stormed off. Thing is he would have had success with that if she had a couple of more drinks in her.
So we are at the next bar. My buddy is barely coherent by now. I spot these two in the table next to us do a little eye contact and smiling but do not approach. One is smoking hot solid 8 with incredible titties. The other is a 6 and nice titties but a little thick. They walk by with their cigarettes and my drunk buddy opens them asking for a cigarette. We then follow them to the patio for a smoke. I do not smoke. So I just start gaming them. My buddy is babbling incoherently now. I am teasing and touching both. Wish I had been the one to open them. (I Got to fucking crack this sticking point somehow.) But the game was on. They were yes girls. So it was just a matter of not fucking up. Things are going well I joke and tease the cute one she is very receptive and is very witty and smart. Not in a bitchy way she is fun. They are from Texas visiting in town. Cute one is divorce raping her husband and appears to have a lot of money she looks about 25. Sweet girl at least to me lol. Turns out she is 33.
We close the bar down and I convince them to come to my hotel room I have a bottle of wine. On the walk over my buddy is so fucking drunk that he essentially cockblocks me by upsetting them a little too much. So we head to our hotel and they go to theirs. Only about a mile apart. When I get to my room. I text them and offer to come over and slip in between them. And bring the wine they enthusiastically agree. I head over. They are dressed in skimpy little shorts and bra-less with tank tops. Pour the wine and the uglier one goes right to bed and asleep perfect. I start talking and touching and kissing the 8. She is very cool. Does not fight me. But not too responsive. She wants to talk and get to know me needs comfort. We actually have a pretty good conversation. Here is where I make a big mistake. She asks how long I was married. I tell her I am going through a divorce also. And it is not a very well told lie. I never lie like this this. Anyway things get hot and heavy. Tell her some personal stories to build lots of comfort and we talk about our lives a little. She is talking about me visiting her when I go to Texas, and her visiting me when she comes to Florida. Good future projection.
We makeout more but she absolutely does not want to fuck but I am progressing. Got her top off and play with and suck those incredible titties. Little choking and she goes through the roof with lust. She is writhing on the bed like a snake. But she won’t let me have the pussy. She is squeezing and stroking my cock. Two hours of LMR only 6 hours of sleep in two days and she was repeating over and over again. “I want you to fuck me tomorrow.” So I just gave up I went to my hotel at 5:00 AM to get 2 hours of sleep for the next day. Planning on going out with her next night to fuck her. Couple of issues.
1. I need to call her to tell her I am married. If she gets mad at me she could trace my phone number and get my wifes name and contact her and fuck me up. (I had a stalker once and it was not good. My first encounter with BPD, what a nightmare.) If she does not want to hang so be it. I do not get a shot at one like this too often but I have to cover my ass.
2. I honestly think that this chick is really into me. Another reason she may get pissed. On the other hand she could make a really awesome fuckbuddy coming to town every month or so. My buddy says that if I come clean she will probably not freak out. She probably already knows the score because of my shitty story anyway.
It did not go too well the next night. Couple of things happened I found out my drunk player buddy. Who was getting drunk the whole next day and night was texting her all day. And basically cock blocked me. Sneaky mother fucker. He is really good looking and a real player. I now know I can never trust him. I thought he would be good to hang out with but not anymore.
Which was bad enough. In the morning she texts me all ready to get together that night. Then I call her that evening after my stupid so called friend has been texting her god knows what all day. I tell her about the married thing it does not go well. She does not get mad but she says she does not do anything with married guys. And we can hang out but nothing else. I figured we would just hang out and then I would start gaming her again and continue to escalate. But then she just flaked. Understandable.
Shitty night overall. Shitty feeling. She was a really gorgeous and cool sexy chick and I could tell she was into me. But two things happened.
1. I fucking lied when I should have just been straight with her.
2. My "buddy" was working against me. Plus he is incredibly strong competition. This guys wife is a smoking 9, and his ex wife is an actual successful hot actress in Hollywood. He was married to her before she was famous.
What do you guys think of my assessment? What could I have done different?
This whole thing has been a learning experience for me as well as kind of disturbing. I am always loyal to my friends. And as I get more into this world I come into contact with more and more ugly situations. Not that I am completely innocent, but still not a good feeling. How do you guys deal with this? Its almost like I am not in the world I was in before anymore. But not really good enough or experienced enough to enter this new world. Kinda of in this limbo state.
The next day things actually started to turn up with her after the cockblock of the day before. Next day I texted her. I had moved on to another city and she was headed back to Texas, but we struck up a fun and flirty text convo nothing too heavy. She told me that she enjoyed hanging out with me and comes to my town frequently and to stay in touch. I think that she realized what an ass my buddy was and warmed back up to me. Man what Roosh said about no one wants you to succeed is so fucking true.
Chick is pretty cool and she travels a lot. So she would be a good one to fuck when she comes to my City, or to meet at other locations. She had a good sense of adventure and she is fun and spontaneous.
So anyway I want to be able to properly game her for the future. So I want to ask the experts on here. How would you guys go about doing this? I have not texted her since Thursday, and don't want to look needy. But want to reengage and try to get her down here within a month if possible.
My plan is to do a few ping texts about a week apart to stay on the radar. Maybe get into a couple of phone conversations. Then get some compliance out of her. Such as pictures or having her call me. Then maybe she will throw a few more shit tests at me, which I will have plenty of time to pass. Someone once told me one of the main things in getting an HB8 or above is just passing their shit tests. Then invite her down to kick it in my town show her around and have some awesome fun while she is here.
So what do you guys think of my plan? Am I on the right track? I openly solicit advice and take it very seriously. I have been working on myself for two years now and I have seen great gains. But I want to get to the next level.
Last night things are starting to get interesting. Go to this dance club and my drunk buddy goes to work on the hottest blond in there very direct drunk game. She is so into it. He tells her how bad he is and she tells him how bad she is. Her other tall brunette friend comes over and starts flirting with him also. I attempt to try to get into the conversation just to wing and start talking. And nothing...crickets. These bitches are almost totally freezing me out. What is amazing is my buddy is not doing anything special just being an asshole and sloppy drunk but they love it. I am amazed and frustrated at the same time. I know I should not be but it does affect me. I eventually pull myself together and start to have fun with other people there. After about an hour we go to another bar. Just us two. Not the chicks. My buddy had insulted one by telling her he just wanted to fuck her. She said fuck you and stormed off. Thing is he would have had success with that if she had a couple of more drinks in her.
So we are at the next bar. My buddy is barely coherent by now. I spot these two in the table next to us do a little eye contact and smiling but do not approach. One is smoking hot solid 8 with incredible titties. The other is a 6 and nice titties but a little thick. They walk by with their cigarettes and my drunk buddy opens them asking for a cigarette. We then follow them to the patio for a smoke. I do not smoke. So I just start gaming them. My buddy is babbling incoherently now. I am teasing and touching both. Wish I had been the one to open them. (I Got to fucking crack this sticking point somehow.) But the game was on. They were yes girls. So it was just a matter of not fucking up. Things are going well I joke and tease the cute one she is very receptive and is very witty and smart. Not in a bitchy way she is fun. They are from Texas visiting in town. Cute one is divorce raping her husband and appears to have a lot of money she looks about 25. Sweet girl at least to me lol. Turns out she is 33.
We close the bar down and I convince them to come to my hotel room I have a bottle of wine. On the walk over my buddy is so fucking drunk that he essentially cockblocks me by upsetting them a little too much. So we head to our hotel and they go to theirs. Only about a mile apart. When I get to my room. I text them and offer to come over and slip in between them. And bring the wine they enthusiastically agree. I head over. They are dressed in skimpy little shorts and bra-less with tank tops. Pour the wine and the uglier one goes right to bed and asleep perfect. I start talking and touching and kissing the 8. She is very cool. Does not fight me. But not too responsive. She wants to talk and get to know me needs comfort. We actually have a pretty good conversation. Here is where I make a big mistake. She asks how long I was married. I tell her I am going through a divorce also. And it is not a very well told lie. I never lie like this this. Anyway things get hot and heavy. Tell her some personal stories to build lots of comfort and we talk about our lives a little. She is talking about me visiting her when I go to Texas, and her visiting me when she comes to Florida. Good future projection.
We makeout more but she absolutely does not want to fuck but I am progressing. Got her top off and play with and suck those incredible titties. Little choking and she goes through the roof with lust. She is writhing on the bed like a snake. But she won’t let me have the pussy. She is squeezing and stroking my cock. Two hours of LMR only 6 hours of sleep in two days and she was repeating over and over again. “I want you to fuck me tomorrow.” So I just gave up I went to my hotel at 5:00 AM to get 2 hours of sleep for the next day. Planning on going out with her next night to fuck her. Couple of issues.
1. I need to call her to tell her I am married. If she gets mad at me she could trace my phone number and get my wifes name and contact her and fuck me up. (I had a stalker once and it was not good. My first encounter with BPD, what a nightmare.) If she does not want to hang so be it. I do not get a shot at one like this too often but I have to cover my ass.
2. I honestly think that this chick is really into me. Another reason she may get pissed. On the other hand she could make a really awesome fuckbuddy coming to town every month or so. My buddy says that if I come clean she will probably not freak out. She probably already knows the score because of my shitty story anyway.
It did not go too well the next night. Couple of things happened I found out my drunk player buddy. Who was getting drunk the whole next day and night was texting her all day. And basically cock blocked me. Sneaky mother fucker. He is really good looking and a real player. I now know I can never trust him. I thought he would be good to hang out with but not anymore.
Which was bad enough. In the morning she texts me all ready to get together that night. Then I call her that evening after my stupid so called friend has been texting her god knows what all day. I tell her about the married thing it does not go well. She does not get mad but she says she does not do anything with married guys. And we can hang out but nothing else. I figured we would just hang out and then I would start gaming her again and continue to escalate. But then she just flaked. Understandable.
Shitty night overall. Shitty feeling. She was a really gorgeous and cool sexy chick and I could tell she was into me. But two things happened.
1. I fucking lied when I should have just been straight with her.
2. My "buddy" was working against me. Plus he is incredibly strong competition. This guys wife is a smoking 9, and his ex wife is an actual successful hot actress in Hollywood. He was married to her before she was famous.
What do you guys think of my assessment? What could I have done different?
This whole thing has been a learning experience for me as well as kind of disturbing. I am always loyal to my friends. And as I get more into this world I come into contact with more and more ugly situations. Not that I am completely innocent, but still not a good feeling. How do you guys deal with this? Its almost like I am not in the world I was in before anymore. But not really good enough or experienced enough to enter this new world. Kinda of in this limbo state.
The next day things actually started to turn up with her after the cockblock of the day before. Next day I texted her. I had moved on to another city and she was headed back to Texas, but we struck up a fun and flirty text convo nothing too heavy. She told me that she enjoyed hanging out with me and comes to my town frequently and to stay in touch. I think that she realized what an ass my buddy was and warmed back up to me. Man what Roosh said about no one wants you to succeed is so fucking true.
Chick is pretty cool and she travels a lot. So she would be a good one to fuck when she comes to my City, or to meet at other locations. She had a good sense of adventure and she is fun and spontaneous.
So anyway I want to be able to properly game her for the future. So I want to ask the experts on here. How would you guys go about doing this? I have not texted her since Thursday, and don't want to look needy. But want to reengage and try to get her down here within a month if possible.
My plan is to do a few ping texts about a week apart to stay on the radar. Maybe get into a couple of phone conversations. Then get some compliance out of her. Such as pictures or having her call me. Then maybe she will throw a few more shit tests at me, which I will have plenty of time to pass. Someone once told me one of the main things in getting an HB8 or above is just passing their shit tests. Then invite her down to kick it in my town show her around and have some awesome fun while she is here.
So what do you guys think of my plan? Am I on the right track? I openly solicit advice and take it very seriously. I have been working on myself for two years now and I have seen great gains. But I want to get to the next level.
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