[Tod6264]

Had a tea date from a tinder girl that looks like she isn't dtf from pictures, she's an 8.5 though. She's in college and not old enough to drink, but does, while I can drink. I'm a newb and it was my second date of my life so the whole 2 hr convo we had was just like building rapport and talking about outlooks on life and childhood experiences, couldn't get kino in because I had no idea how to do from sitting across from her. I hugged her briefly from my car when she left.

I texted her the next day and she asked me what I was doing after another friendly convo bc I don't know how to flirt. She asked me what I was doing the next day and I said busy. I asked her what she's doing and she said going to parents to watch dogs while on vacation for the weekend. She brought it up on the date but I totally forgot. She's 40 min from my house though.

I haven't texted her since Thursday and she hasn't hit me back. I can't do anything on weekends unless it's before 2pm or after 10pm.


Should I try to meet in her area if she knows I'm going out of my way? Or try to meet half way for something and I follow her home saying I'll bring drinks and we can watch a movie. Issue at my place is I live with parents but might be able to get around it. Or possibly the back of my car.

I just need to figure a good text to send her to initiate a second meetup. Or I don't do anything with her over the weekend. And wait to do something at her college on a weekday next week.

We both invested 2 hrs getting to know eachother and I'm assuming attraction. I just need help pushing to a second meetup and how to text, or possibly just call her to get it done.

[Que enspastic]

What's an hb8.5. Sounds like a measurement of noise waves?

[Tod6264]

Hot babe 8.5/10

[dads]

I just realized, the initial shock of the red pill is the worst thing for someone's game. You'll find yourself questioning every move you make. I asked for advice on a thread and when no one replied, I realized that any question you have about a girl can be answered with "there's plenty of other fish in the sea". If you're new, don't get caught up in the little stuff. It's all about inner game (I.e. Adjusting your attitude, looks, fitness and whatever else). So if a girl is exerting enough mental effort to make a thread about, she's not worth it.

[Tod6264]

I understand. I have aspergers so stuff like this doesn't come natural to me. If I did things I think would work I'd creep girls out. That's why I'm an attractive guy but have never gotten girls. I'll do stuff that is socially awkward and put girls off. Whether it's something I do via text or talking to someone in general. I would like to see the girl again because it's an easy date/hookup experience if I can play my cards right.

[Dalaran1991]

You are at the phase where the only wrong move is to follow your old beta instincts. Dont worry, every bump you get now will just help you further along the way.

I would just advise you try something daring that you always wanted to do with girls but make you feel uncomfortable. Just send her a text asking her to come over in a daring way; go do fun stuff and tell her to tag along; I dont know. Fail and learn now.

I would tell her to come over for booze and something fun.

[Tod6264]

Thanks for the response.

What would be better? For something at 10pm? Nearby there is a small town with a lot of stuff it's a good town to stroll through and she could come back to my place or should I ask her to come straight to my house to cook a meal and watch a movie?

[slubu]

Do you know what she likes to drink? If so, play with that. Let's say she likes tequila. Go to the store and take a pic of a reasonably priced bottle of tequila. Text her the pic and say "margaritas this weekend?" or some shit like that. If she says yes, say "cool, let's do your place. address?" again feel free to vary it.

You may as well try to get to her parents' place since they are out of town and nobody there to cockblock. Also you say she likes to drink but can't do so at a bar, so now you have a reason to drink with her.

And yes something after 10pm. If she's not comfortable with you coming straight over then do a plan B of meeting her out somewhere.

[Virtus]

so a girl tells you she'll be home alone in her parent's house dog watching the entire weekend and you are asking us on what to do?

[Virtus]

This is what he sent.

I'd say put her on ice for a bit. anything further now will be a chase

(10-18-2014 09:52 AM)slubu Wrote:  

Do you know what she likes to drink? If so, play with that. Let's say she likes tequila. Go to the store and take a pic of a reasonably priced bottle of tequila. Text her the pic and say "margaritas this weekend?" or some shit like that. If she says yes, say "cool, let's do your place. address?" again feel free to vary it.

[Virtus]

mentioning the word "date" is mmm. i wouldn't. also you are saving face in every sentence.

like "haha cool" was not needed really. and the next text could've been "you're such a brat" and thats it. no "lol"

cause she said nothing funny. just ice her this weekend. go for a hike or go hang with friends

[Virtus]

go read heartiste and krauserpua .. search their blogs on text game