$400 is cheap for a lesson like that. Most guys pay way more for that kinda lesson. Some give half their income for 18 years for bad sex 1x per month. Cheap lesson.
Get tested, but a professional stripper, if she's not in a sleazy club, probably isn't going to give you an STD. But I'm far from a stripper/prostitute expert.
Regarding points 2 and 3 (the real reason for your post):
Ok so you don't have anything to offer? Ok. Fine. Now that you're a worthless piece of shit, you might as well go start approaching girls because it's not going to get any worse. Right?
This raw, ugly honesty with yourself is something I've had to do. Your anxiety (or whatever it is) is from your brain saying you "should be able to offer something" or trying to lie to itself into thinking you do offer something. Once you say to yourself, "ok, I'm a fucking loser, terrible with women, not a leader, hell I may never get laid again"....your brain breathes a sigh of relief, at which point you'll probably be way more relaxed to go have some playful fun with some child-like chicas.
Watch this Curb Your Enthusiasm video as Larry rambles while trying to kill time at the playboy mansion. Watch how stupid, childlike, and playful he is. You do this shit to a girl in a bar, and at least one of them will want to jump your bones:
Get tested, but a professional stripper, if she's not in a sleazy club, probably isn't going to give you an STD. But I'm far from a stripper/prostitute expert.
Regarding points 2 and 3 (the real reason for your post):
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I honestly feel as if I have nothing to offer at this point.
Ok so you don't have anything to offer? Ok. Fine. Now that you're a worthless piece of shit, you might as well go start approaching girls because it's not going to get any worse. Right?
This raw, ugly honesty with yourself is something I've had to do. Your anxiety (or whatever it is) is from your brain saying you "should be able to offer something" or trying to lie to itself into thinking you do offer something. Once you say to yourself, "ok, I'm a fucking loser, terrible with women, not a leader, hell I may never get laid again"....your brain breathes a sigh of relief, at which point you'll probably be way more relaxed to go have some playful fun with some child-like chicas.
Watch this Curb Your Enthusiasm video as Larry rambles while trying to kill time at the playboy mansion. Watch how stupid, childlike, and playful he is. You do this shit to a girl in a bar, and at least one of them will want to jump your bones:
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”