[scotian]

(01-19-2019 07:55 PM)Savonarola Wrote:  

(01-19-2019 03:28 PM)Mikestar Wrote:  

- For a 20 year old it is probably a worse place to game than Mexico (although I don't know for sure)

Can confirm. Colombian girls usually go for much older guys, and if you don't have any Spanish they REALLY won't look at you.
So Mexico would be the better choice at this point in time. But make plans later in life to hit up Colombia.

Agree, I was swiping Tinder in Cancun area recently and most of my matches were in the 28-35 range (I'm 36), hooked up with a 30 year old local. In Colombia, I had no problem meeting girls in the 18-24 range.

[TravelingBodybuilder]

They go for older guys because older guys have more money. A girl told me this herself. In latin america we like older men because the more older the more money was her exact words lol. If you have money you wont have an issue in medellin even without spanish. Assuming you know the basics .. if u dont know a single word it will be a waste yes.. If you dont have money and are cheap then you will struggle. Money is power in medellin .

In places like europe and america money will do nothing if you dont speak the native language. But in colombia its different assuming you speak basic spanish... and arent a fat slob etc with no charisma.

But if you are an average joe and average status then yes you need spanish..

[Mikestar]

I think I might save Colombia for when I have a bit more cash and age then, I loved Mexico to death so a return is needed, I think as a young guy this time I will spend less time in Mexico City and go to see more of the country, especially up north which is totally different from what I’ve heard.

[WomenLuvDeez]

I disagree about Colombia being a place you HAVE to know spanish. I went there originally not speaking more than a 4 spanish words. Was it difficult at first? Yeah. I almost got mugged living in fontibon area near the airport. But then I met some girls via Couchsurfing and learned a lot(turned her into a mini LTR to learn more about the city and having a place to stay and not pay and have pussy when she’s back at night). Eventually I learned some spanish but it was always horrible. I got TONS of dates from pipelining Tindr before going and on those dates, I’d schedule 2-3 a day and normally blow one or two off depending on current girl I’m gaming that day. Girls in Colombia do prefer a guy that’s older looking at least. I was getting much better responses with my beard than without. Google translate 100% helped me get lays and also using kino for escalation with broken spanish and the gringo foreigner complex I had an amazing year while living there. Read through the Colombia master thread. You’ll learn a lot. Either way OP I’d go with A but that’s my opinion. if you want to get out of your comfort zone go for Colombia. I actually prefer Bogotá over Medellin because there are less tourists and the way your treated as a foreigner imo is different then in medellin. I spent maybe 2 months in medellin and 8-9 in Bogota. Haven’t been to Mexico yet so can’t give my .02 on that.

[Rest2662]

Colombia

[scotian]

(01-21-2019 03:22 PM)WomenLuvDeez Wrote:  

I disagree about Colombia being a place you HAVE to know spanish. I went there originally not speaking more than a 4 spanish words. Was it difficult at first? Yeah. I almost got mugged living in fontibon area near the airport. But then I met some girls via Couchsurfing and learned a lot(turned her into a mini LTR to learn more about the city and having a place to stay and not pay and have pussy when she’s back at night). Eventually I learned some spanish but it was always horrible. I got TONS of dates from pipelining Tindr before going and on those dates, I’d schedule 2-3 a day and normally blow one or two off depending on current girl I’m gaming that day. Girls in Colombia do prefer a guy that’s older looking at least. I was getting much better responses with my beard than without. Google translate 100% helped me get lays and also using kino for escalation with broken spanish and the gringo foreigner complex I had an amazing year while living there. Read through the Colombia master thread. You’ll learn a lot. Either way OP I’d go with A but that’s my opinion. if you want to get out of your comfort zone go for Colombia. I actually prefer Bogotá over Medellin because there are less tourists and the way your treated as a foreigner imo is different then in medellin. I spent maybe 2 months in medellin and 8-9 in Bogota. Haven’t been to Mexico yet so can’t give my .02 on that.

Are you a good looking, confident guy who dresses well, has money to spend and is not socially awkward?

[Savonarola]

(01-21-2019 06:09 PM)scotian Wrote:  

(01-21-2019 03:22 PM)WomenLuvDeez Wrote:  

I disagree about Colombia being a place you HAVE to know spanish. I went there originally not speaking more than a 4 spanish words. Was it difficult at first? Yeah. I almost got mugged living in fontibon area near the airport. But then I met some girls via Couchsurfing and learned a lot(turned her into a mini LTR to learn more about the city and having a place to stay and not pay and have pussy when she’s back at night). Eventually I learned some spanish but it was always horrible. I got TONS of dates from pipelining Tindr before going and on those dates, I’d schedule 2-3 a day and normally blow one or two off depending on current girl I’m gaming that day. Girls in Colombia do prefer a guy that’s older looking at least. I was getting much better responses with my beard than without. Google translate 100% helped me get lays and also using kino for escalation with broken spanish and the gringo foreigner complex I had an amazing year while living there. Read through the Colombia master thread. You’ll learn a lot. Either way OP I’d go with A but that’s my opinion. if you want to get out of your comfort zone go for Colombia. I actually prefer Bogotá over Medellin because there are less tourists and the way your treated as a foreigner imo is different then in medellin. I spent maybe 2 months in medellin and 8-9 in Bogota. Haven’t been to Mexico yet so can’t give my .02 on that.

Are you a good looking, confident guy who dresses well, has money to spend and is not socially awkward?

lol
I was all of those things when I was there -- and I never touched Google Translate once, let alone used it for an entire year. Better to master the language. Anybody here really want to be tapping on your phone to hammer out a single sentence when you've got a dressed-to-kill 9 waiting for your response on the other side of the table at Juan Valdez?

[scotian]

So you’re all of those things plus you speak Spanish? My point was that if you lack Spanish then you have to make up for it somehow which is what I assume was the case with Womenluvdeez. The issue is guys who are none of those things reading a thread by a guy like Linux who killed it without Spanish and thinking they can replicate those results.

[NonDrifter]

While I have not been to Colombia yet....it is certainly next on my radar. I can tell you that Mexico City is a good spot even for quick lays. I got my first lay in 3 days from a girl I met at a party.

I spent 18 months in Mexico city and about 2 weeks in Guadalajara.

I'll be dropping a data sheet on my Mexico experience very soon.

If you dress well as in have style and either looks good or are good looking and have some degree of a game and some Spanish you can clean up in Mexico.

My Spanish is subpar I consider myself a beginner and I banged plenty of women with little to none. Also, I got a few bangs from google translate. In person, I could handle myself just by looking good and keeping a masculine frame.

As with any Latin American country do you need Spanish to get laid...No not necessarily but it does help. Many girls in Mexico city speak English and will want to "practice" their English with you... This can translate to bangs easily.

Heres a good article to drive the point:

https://www.expatkings.com/speak-spanish...n-america/

That being said girls who speak "Spanish" only have been less westernized and leveraging exotic factor can help more, but again for a quick trip like yours if you pipeline with tinder, and follow the advice outlined you should do quite well.


The 2 weeks I was in Guadalajara the combination of tall long legged, big breasted girls with round latina booties was mind-boggling... I damn near thought I was in a different country.

I personally dub GDL "the city of Mexican babes"...I've been told one of the other states in Mexico to rival babes is sinaloa...in terms of locals, not tourist...

Honestly, you can't go wrong with either choice.

From what I have seen though women in Colombia look amazing...Heck, I even met a few when I was in Mexico and my limited exposure with them has certainly confirmed they are hot, sexy, fiery and they KNOW IT.

Be cool, dress well and bring your "A" game. You could probably still score with C+ game.

Outside of myself and other black friends I met there, they had no issue getting laid, and all the white guys I met there who varied in age had no issue getting laid either.

"However" the curiosity IOI's can be misleading as you may get the phone number via WhatsApp but it does not go anywhere or fizzle out so be prepared for that. Girls in Mexico city can be flakey and from what I have heard you better prepared for that in Colombia also.

However, once I realized that I also would double or triple book dates and would go with the hottest girl out of the bunch. Don't feel bad if you have to flake on a girl. In most cases, it will raise your SMV.

But with you only being there for a short while It should not matter. ONS can be had on a simple bar or club outing or from social events.

Take the trip man you will do well. Also, age did not seem to be that much of a factor so long as you are cool and open-minded.

Mexico is fucking awesome man. I'll be back in March to spend more time and build up in GDL.

Until next time,

ND

[Mikestar]

(01-23-2019 10:22 PM)NonDrifter Wrote:  

While I have not been to Colombia yet....it is certainly next on my radar. I can tell you that Mexico City is a good spot even for quick lays. I got my first lay in 3 days from a girl I met at a party.

I spent 18 months in Mexico city and about 2 weeks in Guadalajara.

I'll be dropping a data sheet on my Mexico experience very soon.

If you dress well as in have style and either looks good or are good looking and have some degree of a game and some Spanish you can clean up in Mexico.

My Spanish is subpar I consider myself a beginner and I banged plenty of women with little to none. Also, I got a few bangs from google translate. In person, I could handle myself just by looking good and keeping a masculine frame.

As with any Latin American country do you need Spanish to get laid...No not necessarily but it does help. Many girls in Mexico city speak English and will want to "practice" their English with you... This can translate to bangs easily.

Heres a good article to drive the point:

https://www.expatkings.com/speak-spanish...n-america/

That being said girls who speak "Spanish" only have been less westernized and leveraging exotic factor can help more, but again for a quick trip like yours if you pipeline with tinder, and follow the advice outlined you should do quite well.


The 2 weeks I was in Guadalajara the combination of tall long legged, big breasted girls with round latina booties was mind-boggling... I damn near thought I was in a different country.

I personally dub GDL "the city of Mexican babes"...I've been told one of the other states in Mexico to rival babes is sinaloa...in terms of locals, not tourist...

Honestly, you can't go wrong with either choice.

From what I have seen though women in Colombia look amazing...Heck, I even met a few when I was in Mexico and my limited exposure with them has certainly confirmed they are hot, sexy, fiery and they KNOW IT.

Be cool, dress well and bring your "A" game. You could probably still score with C+ game.

Outside of myself and other black friends I met there, they had no issue getting laid, and all the white guys I met there who varied in age had no issue getting laid either.

"However" the curiosity IOI's can be misleading as you may get the phone number via WhatsApp but it does not go anywhere or fizzle out so be prepared for that. Girls in Mexico city can be flakey and from what I have heard you better prepared for that in Colombia also.

However, once I realized that I also would double or triple book dates and would go with the hottest girl out of the bunch. Don't feel bad if you have to flake on a girl. In most cases, it will raise your SMV.

But with you only being there for a short while It should not matter. ONS can be had on a simple bar or club outing or from social events.

Take the trip man you will do well. Also, age did not seem to be that much of a factor so long as you are cool and open-minded.

Mexico is fucking awesome man. I'll be back in March to spend more time and build up in GDL.

Until next time,

ND

ND, I also had similar impressions of Mexico, it is indeed fucking awesome. If you say that there is such a big difference between Mexico City and Guadalajara then it will be on my list 100%, maybe Monterrey too as I have a girl I met online who is inviting me.

[WomenLuvDeez]

(01-21-2019 06:09 PM)scotian Wrote:  

(01-21-2019 03:22 PM)WomenLuvDeez Wrote:  

I disagree about Colombia being a place you HAVE to know spanish. I went there originally not speaking more than a 4 spanish words. Was it difficult at first? Yeah. I almost got mugged living in fontibon area near the airport. But then I met some girls via Couchsurfing and learned a lot(turned her into a mini LTR to learn more about the city and having a place to stay and not pay and have pussy when she’s back at night). Eventually I learned some spanish but it was always horrible. I got TONS of dates from pipelining Tindr before going and on those dates, I’d schedule 2-3 a day and normally blow one or two off depending on current girl I’m gaming that day. Girls in Colombia do prefer a guy that’s older looking at least. I was getting much better responses with my beard than without. Google translate 100% helped me get lays and also using kino for escalation with broken spanish and the gringo foreigner complex I had an amazing year while living there. Read through the Colombia master thread. You’ll learn a lot. Either way OP I’d go with A but that’s my opinion. if you want to get out of your comfort zone go for Colombia. I actually prefer Bogotá over Medellin because there are less tourists and the way your treated as a foreigner imo is different then in medellin. I spent maybe 2 months in medellin and 8-9 in Bogota. Haven’t been to Mexico yet so can’t give my .02 on that.

Are you a good looking, confident guy who dresses well, has money to spend and is not socially awkward?

Yes I am good looking, tall, in good shape and dresses with cloths that fit and I have money to have a good time BUT I am not advocating he doesn't try to learn Spanish though as I learned it little by little by cab/uber rides (many drivers will like to "try" to practice their English) and meeting multiple girls daily from Tindr which some speak great English, some a little or broken, or none at all. I did take classes but not at a uni because I kept fucking missing the deadline to sign up by a day or 2. I did take group lessons which really sucked unless I wanna learn how to pronounce the alphabet.

I am saying google translate worked miracles and learning over time really helped since my main plate was a Colombian and she didn't speak/understand English.