A 30-ish Asian woman I know is new in town, makes great money, works a shitload, had zero luck on match.com and most of her work friends and neighbors are gay. She needs help finding a man (I'm already attached; she is friends (but not close friends) with my SO).
A group of us went out last Friday and I had a buddy close to her age who I thought might be interested stop in so they could meet. After they met and drank a bit, she texted another (less attractive but not fat or ugly) girl to show up at the bar, possibly to make herself look even more attractive to my friend. Anyway, he gave her a ride home at closing time but didn't close the deal; though I thought they hit it off pretty well.
Then Sunday she's messaging back and forth with me and jumped at the idea of going out the following week to another bar, since she doesn't know a lot of places that were not gay bars, etc.
I heard later on through the grape vine that she was kind of put off by my friend having too many girlfriends - she's Asian and very traditional, so this could be true.
Today, she invites me (via text) to a bar this Friday to see a mutual friend play in a band. She asks if I have any plans afterwards; I say no, not presently - did you want to go out after the show?
She says yes and suggests we go to a bar after the show in a happening area of town where we'll run into another male friend of hers - one which she clearly stated she has no interest in, but owes a drink since she missed him last time he was in town.
Funny thing is she seems to have a thing for older guys - her last boyfriend was 15 years older than her and she caught him cheating on her twice. Not sure when it ended but the fact she stuck around after the first time is odd. My significant other is out of town for a few days, I'm at least 15 years older than her - soooo..... is she planning something here? And what's the deal with putting up with an older guy who cheats on her? Daddie issues?
I know women are ALWAYS planning... but what do you guys make of this situation?
A group of us went out last Friday and I had a buddy close to her age who I thought might be interested stop in so they could meet. After they met and drank a bit, she texted another (less attractive but not fat or ugly) girl to show up at the bar, possibly to make herself look even more attractive to my friend. Anyway, he gave her a ride home at closing time but didn't close the deal; though I thought they hit it off pretty well.
Then Sunday she's messaging back and forth with me and jumped at the idea of going out the following week to another bar, since she doesn't know a lot of places that were not gay bars, etc.
I heard later on through the grape vine that she was kind of put off by my friend having too many girlfriends - she's Asian and very traditional, so this could be true.
Today, she invites me (via text) to a bar this Friday to see a mutual friend play in a band. She asks if I have any plans afterwards; I say no, not presently - did you want to go out after the show?
She says yes and suggests we go to a bar after the show in a happening area of town where we'll run into another male friend of hers - one which she clearly stated she has no interest in, but owes a drink since she missed him last time he was in town.
Funny thing is she seems to have a thing for older guys - her last boyfriend was 15 years older than her and she caught him cheating on her twice. Not sure when it ended but the fact she stuck around after the first time is odd. My significant other is out of town for a few days, I'm at least 15 years older than her - soooo..... is she planning something here? And what's the deal with putting up with an older guy who cheats on her? Daddie issues?
I know women are ALWAYS planning... but what do you guys make of this situation?